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There are always unlucky moments in our lives when we are hoarse but unable to do anything, trying to escape but not having anything to do.
We're going to get discouraged, we're going crazy, and we can't seem to get out of the situation.
It's as if nothing that happens to us can be solved smoothly.
In fact, it is not a trick of fate, but we can never give up the following three things, believe it or not.
01: Carrying other people's bad words affects emotions
Sometimes, the adult world is so contradictory, the two sides have no grievances and no hatred, but they can never meet and be friendly, but speak viciously to each other, and the enemy seems to be annoying.
In fact, we can't control the behavior of others, we can't control the malice of others, the only thing we can do is to force ourselves to let go, this is not cowardice, but our way of letting go of ourselves.
Don't live by pretending to be someone else's bad words, they can seriously affect our emotions, make us not optimistic in life, and lead to a sluggish life.
In fact, the challenges in life require courage, and we need to cheer ourselves up, rather than accelerate the burning and consumption of enthusiasm.
Thinking about other people's bad words is tantamount to tearing our own wounds over and over again, which can seriously interfere with our lives.
When you meet people who are not friendly enough, the only way is to stay away from them, no longer have any intersections, you can calm the waves in your heart, stay calm and rational, and always live according to your own wishes.
As long as the distractions are eliminated, we will focus on ourselves, and we will go more and more smoothly.
02: With your own biases, affect judgment
Many people can't completely abandon sensibility, there will be no absolute public, there will be prejudice, and judgment will be affected.
We all hope that we can jump out of our emotions and look at everything in the world from a more rational perspective, which will improve our cognitive level, and will not affect accurate judgment and behavioral decision-making because of emotions, let alone deviate from the original right path.
If we fail to discover and correct our behaviors and thoughts in time, we will take many detours, and if we fail to achieve our goals, we will be "unlucky".
Therefore, we need to overcome extreme thinking, maintain an open and inclusive mind, and look at problems and treat others from a more objective perspective, so that we can learn from different people and things, and make success come faster.
Thinking from multiple angles is not hesitation, but comprehensive analysis and then making a conclusion.
If you don't panic, don't feel emotional, don't get anxious, you will burst out of inspiration and make life smoother.
03: With the shadow of the past, influence the future
The so-called success is to let go of everything in the past.
When the dark clouds of the past cover the sky of the present, we will be confused, we will not see the way forward, and we will naturally waste time and live up to the future.
Just like Cai Kangyong said, everything in the past is just everything at that time, and we will eventually have everything in the present, and everything in the new future.
Don't lose your heart, don't lose your courage, don't give up hope, forget everything in the past, start over, and you will have a different future.
Of course, countless "unlucky" in the past have created us with strong ability to resist blows, if we can think like this, it is equivalent to making "unlucky" become "lucky", then, we have been living in hope, never leaving.
Such mature thinking will make us more confident to start a new life, and it will be easier for us to let go of the past.
Of course, we must not only forget the dark clouds of the past, but also forget the rainbow of the past, all the past has been settled, and only the future is unresolved, and we need to go all out.
Whether a person is unlucky or not, it all depends on the individual's mentality and courage, as long as we can jump out of the obstacles, we will see everything clearly, and we will look down on everything, so that luck will follow.
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