The hospital in the county seat of my home should really change the rules about visitation
Last year, when I was sick and hospitalized in Beijing, the general medical staff did not allow escorts, and even the visits could only be made from 3 pm to 6 pm every day, with a maximum of two people at a time.
At that time, I was still complaining about the impersonal and strict nature of the hospital.
During the Spring Festival this year, my dad was also sick and hospitalized, and he was admitted to one of the better hospitals in our county: Xiangcheng Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine.
One person is allowed to accompany the hospital, and visits are casual.
Because we had to recuperate, we almost refused to be visited by friends and family in the hospital.
But the ward is a three-person room, and the two beds next to us are not so self-conscious.
In the middle bed of the ward is a young man who has pancreatitis, and he himself has many diseases such as high blood sugar, and it is said that he is often hospitalized, and it sounds like their family is very familiar with the hospital's methods and procedures.
His father and sister take turns accompanying him on a daily basis. His father was a very old man, probably because the old man was old and his ears were back, and his voice was thick and loud, even a little noisy.
When I went to the ward to accompany my dad on the first day, his father yelled at his son because of the medicine prescribed by the doctor, of course, not for his son, but for his experience in the past few decades, the drugs prescribed by the hospital this time were all useless medicines, and the hospital only prescribed so many drugs to make money, and the doctors here couldn't.
This father is more professional than doctors, and all kinds of questions about doctors' ** plans, always thinking about the hospital and doctors in a bad way!
I originally thought it was because this family was not good and they were more cherished of money, so they were like this, and it was understandable.
After two days of observation, I learned that the family lives in a prosperous area of the city, and there is a shop for rent at home, and the sick son has just graduated from graduate school and is now preparing for the civil service exam full-time.
I really can't understand it, if you don't believe in the medical skills of this hospital, then go to a hospital you can believe, why are you admitted to this hospital, and you have to do everything you can not cooperate, then what is the point of coming to the hospital?
Later, the doctor and ** were annoyed by the family, and the patient's condition was stable, so they recommended that his son be discharged from the hospital.
Next to the hospital bed at the door is an old man, who is accompanied by his daughter every day, and the two are very amiable.
But there are so many relatives in the old man's family, and they have been coming to visit all the time, and at most seven or eight people are there at the same time.
Many people came to ask about the situation, and then began the daily chatter mode, the content of the nagging has nothing to do with the old man's condition, from the children's school grades to the gossip of relatives and so on. The whole ward was noisy like a vegetable market.
Giving advice to their relatives can only be quiet for a short time. After a while, it was back to the same noise.
The county hospital also does not have a single room to change into.
Now, I think the Tongren Hospital in Beijing has a very sensible visitation policy.
Although free visiting is very free, it is like trying luck, if you are lucky, patients and their relatives and friends are more qualified, and it is everyone's luck to come to visit quietly.
If you're unlucky, it's very distressing to meet a patient like my dad who was hospitalized this time.
I sincerely suggest that the county hospital make some requirements and regulations for visits, after all, the patient's body is very fragile, and the psyche needs to be recuperated.