Tang Xianzu said in "The Peony Pavilion": "The origin of love is like a flash flood, which is continuous and intensifying. In essence, women are trapped in an emotional whirlpool, trapped in it, unable to extricate themselves.
It is true that women are sensitive by nature and are easy to touch emotions, and they can easily dedicate themselves to it, which is really a waste of sand, and the beautiful love story cleanses people's hearts and makes people fascinated.
I have seen wonderful quotes from the movie "The Marriage of the Two of Us": "Love is like a pas de deux, just devote yourself to it; Marriage comes with many responsibilities and challenges that require us to devote a long time to maintaining it. The root cause of many tragic marriages is the "lack of understanding" before marriage.
You may be familiar with your loved one's perspectives, personalities, and interests, but it is important to have a deep understanding of their family background when it comes to building a good marriage. Unfortunately, women often indulge in the sweetness of love, and enter the marriage hall before fully understanding each other, and the trivial quarrels caused by this can't help but make people sigh.
A woman surnamed Ren shared her experience with the author. Because her marriage was too hasty, she failed to fully understand her husband's original family, which led to conflicts with her in-laws' family after marriage, which consumed a lot of time. Ms. Ren married someone who could be called a "phoenix man", and after graduation, he stayed in the provincial capital to work, and his work performance was good.
Ms. Ren met him through a blind date, when her ex-boyfriend betrayed her and fell into a deep emotional quagmire, the man made her feel at ease with his burly body and broad chest. After only one year of dating, Ms. Ren and her husband registered their marriage.
Although the husband has many years of work experience, he has no choice but to accept the arrangement of his father-in-law and mother-in-law because he has not purchased a house in the provincial capital, and moves into the new house purchased by his father-in-law and mother-in-law in advance. Since she has no understanding of her husband's family situation and does not seek to understand, Ms. Ren believes that as long as the relationship between the two is sincere and the two are diligent, the marriage will be naturally sweet.
Unexpectedly, the reality is far from the ideal. Soon after the marriage, her mother-in-law called her for a long distance and asked for 2,000 yuan a month for living expenses, and claimed that "the same is true for the little uncle's family". Out of respect for the elderly and love for her siblings, Ms. Ren quickly agreed.
Unexpectedly, when I returned to my hometown for the New Year last year, I was expecting a warm and harmonious reunion scene, but it was a fierce conflict between mothers-in-law.