In the labyrinth of emotions, men and women often find themselves in similar situations, with different expectations, but inevitably hesitant.
In fact, you can easily tell if someone is being honest with you by how often they communicate.
When someone no longer initiates contact with you, your relationship will light up yellow.
When someone no longer contacts you, there are usually two possibilities.
One is the silent sense of alienation, which creates a distance between two people. The other is the emotional knots and misunderstandings that are difficult to let go of for the time being.
A harmonious relationship requires the cooperation of both parties.
It is difficult to maintain a complete relationship with one-sided contributions.
So, if someone stops contacting you, don't do these six things.
1.The message is abnormal.
Psychologists have pointed out that frequent texting is actually a sign of inner anxiety.
This type of anxiety can be severe enough to interfere with normal life, work, and social interactions.
In a relationship, if you haven't heard from your partner for a long time, you may feel anxious and want to keep messaging.
He doesn't contact you, but you keep sending him strange messages. This is because you're not sure if he cares.
People tend to hesitate in the face of uncertainty.
2.Invalid arguments.
In a relationship, constant quarrels and entanglements will only make the other person hate you even more.
Just like you can't wake up someone who pretends to be asleep, you can't wake someone you don't want to hear.
3.Be humble.
There is a concept in psychology called the "halo effect".
This effect amplifies certain characteristics of a person and obscures others.
When the other person no longer contacts you, you may only see the good in the other person, but you cannot perceive their indifference or coldness.
Therefore, it is a common emotional dilemma to humbly beg for love, hoping to repair a past relationship.
However, this attachment does not restore wholeness and will only end up making the relationship more unbalanced.
4. Use yourself as an ATM and feed each other.
In a relationship, giving too much doesn't mean that love is stronger than money.
Giving in to someone else's ATMs will only appeal to those who are greedy for material comforts.
The more they ignore you, the more you'll spend money as bait to attract irresponsible people.
5. Thinking too much leads to mental internal friction.
In a relationship, there is no point in overthinking or doubting yourself.
I know myself best. Don't let temporary confusion erode your faith.
Don't blame the other person for not contacting you. This will only increase the pain in your heart.
6.Make excuses for the other person.
In relationships, you can't hide your true feelings.
Don't make excuses for your partner. It's just that you're wrong yourself.
Excuses are simply a psychological defense mechanism that is used to hide loss and insecurity.
So, even if you don't hear from the other person, don't lie to yourself and face the reality bravely.
Truly beautiful emotions are natural and don't need to be deliberate.
Someone who genuinely cares about you will definitely reach out to you.
Managing relationships is not easy. Both parties must pay.
Cherish your heart and don't waste it on someone who doesn't care about you.