The "Shangchun Mountain" incident continues to ferment, no matter whether the focus of the debate is true or false, but the song is really good! Everyone seems to focus on one person, but the individual is more concerned about the actions and choices of another person, which is amazing!
In our daily life, do you often encounter such a person, obviously you are lining up well, but the person in front of you suddenly greets the person he is familiar with behind you, and then you are forced to line up several times backwards; Obviously, you complete the part you are responsible for according to the requirements assigned by the team, but the other person in the team is opportunistic and lazy and does not complete his own tasks, and finally you need to help him take the blame or do more things that are not his responsibility; Obviously, you follow the rules and buy a ticket to get on the bus to get your own seat, but the person who didn't buy a ticket relies on the old man to sell the old and let you give up his place ......
In these all kinds of people who are angry and resentful, but it is inevitable that we choose to retreat for the sake of the principle of evasion that more things are better than less, we are destined to be exploited again and again after giving in once!
And Xun's behavior is worthy of praise! In the process of performance, his overall view made him choose to give up the top position of his own time period, without the chaos of the performance caused by a dispute over one position, and smoothly transitioned to the time period of the next performer; But at the same time, he did not ask another Wei to back down with him because he chose to back down, but immediately took action after performing his own part, leaving his own climbing time and place for the next Wei, and also making the whole performance more perfect!
Imagine that when you are in line, the person in front of you wants someone else to cut the queue, whether the person directly stands in front of you and causes you to be pushed back, or the person who gives up his place and re-queues by himself without affecting your queue, which is more comfortable and worthy of praise?
Imagine that in teamwork, someone does not complete his own tasks and pushes his tasks to others in the team, his good friend chooses to help him do it independently without affecting your work, or his good friend asks everyone to share his work part to complete it together, causing your workload to increase, which behavior is more worthy of friendship and cooperation?
Imagine that you spend twice as much money on a seat or seat ticket just to make yourself more comfortable during a long journey, and someone asks you to give it up because of your age, is that what you owe them?
Many times in our lives we encounter all kinds of unfair or moments when we need to choose to back down, and if we meet people who follow the rules like Hoon, then our lives will become extremely comfortable!
He can choose to be wronged by himself, because it is his own choice, and he will excise himself and swallow the bitter fruit on his own; But he will not ask his companions to suffer with him, because others are not obligated to act according to his standards.
He can choose to give up his position and reduce the time and opportunity for his performance, because this is his choice, he will bear the consequences of his choice, and then think of another way; But he will not demand that those who travel with him must choose to give up their positions and opportunities as he does, because others are not obligated to act according to his standards.
Not only will he not ask others to choose the same as him when he is wronged and chooses to give in, but he will also try his best to create fairness for his companions when possible, so that his companions can get the position and opportunities that should belong to him, and strive to make the situation develop within a controllable range, without letting the incident escalate out of control!
Let's just say, if the people in our lives who are on one side, need to cooperate, and need to get along with each other are all such qualities, and we choose to be wronged while never asking others to be wronged together, should we feel lucky? Should I praise it?
Finally, I shared the song "Shangchun Mountain", as a New Year gift from Guizhou to the whole country, which is really good! Hope to see the new stage rendition version!
The full lyrics of "Shangchun Mountain".
In February, the willows are drunk with spring smoke.
March 3 comes, the mountains are green and the grass is long.
The most beautiful is the April day on earth.
A river of spring water is as green as blue.
Spring is noisy and sleepless.
Spring rains fill the pond and call for water lilies.
Spring flowers bloom all over the murmuring swallows.
The spring breeze is proud.
I'll go up to Spring Mountain to meet you.
I've been saving up for a year with a lot of thoughts.
Today was a normal day.
It's extraordinary because I met you.
Children on the mountain release paper kites.
People in the lower reaches of the mountain chased the boat.
The east wind blows people's faces, and the flowers fall as hairpins.
Walking all over the spring mountain does not want to return.
I'll go up to Spring Mountain to meet you.
I've been saving up for a year with a lot of thoughts.
Today was a normal day.
It's extraordinary because I met you.
I'll go up to Spring Mountain to meet you.
I've been saving up for a year with a lot of thoughts.
Today was a normal day.
It's extraordinary because I met you.
I'll go up to Spring Mountain to meet you.
The flower watchers only feel that the spring is too short.
Meet you for a lifetime spring.
Bright smile like this year.
Bright smile like this year.
Like this year. All the best