Text丨The West Chamber is affectionate.
Time is not long, may you meet in my words before it is too late!
In the emotional world, love and dislove will leave traces, but most people like to pursue the deep imprints on the surface, thus ignoring the love hidden in the depths of the details.
When pursuing a woman, it is easy for a man to misunderstand the attitude of a woman, always thinking that a woman's desire to refuse and welcome is a direct refusal, and that a woman's refusal to respond is not love.
But in fact, after a woman is attracted to you, she is not willing to directly pour out her inner emotions, but wants to send a signal through various details in the relationship to make you more active.
So you remember, when a woman sends these three signals, she is suggesting that you take the initiative.
1. She will cater to you and don't want to spoil the fun
The difference between liking and not being like is really very obvious, when a woman is not in love, she has only one attitude, and that is ruthless rejection.
But after the woman is tempted, her behavior begins to be out of her control.
When she is alone, the shadow of her sweetheart will keep popping up in her mind, and as long as you say a word, she will respond immediately.
If you don't believe it, you can observe carefully, when you are pursuing a woman who is not interested in you, no matter how you flirt, she will not have a moment's heartbeat.
Even if you take the initiative to understand her interests, and then invite her to give her a favorite gift, she will only refuse, unwilling to give you the slightest chance.
But if the woman in front of you is interesting to you, even if you say something that is not of interest to her, or if you don't give her a gift, she will not refuse.
Because for a woman, any words and actions of her sweetheart are enough to make her heart move.
She doesn't want to be a disappointing woman at this moment, she just wants to cater to you with her heart and gain more favor from you, so that you don't take the initiative to flirt with you in the future.
2. Care a lot about your feelings and opinions
When a woman wants to fall in love with you, she will release all kinds of codes to you when you get along, wanting you to become more active, so that she can naturally agree to your pursuit.
In the past, a woman only wants to be friends with you and doesn't want to develop deeply, then her attitude towards you will be completely different.
She doesn't care what you think of her, and she doesn't worry about making a bad impression in your mind, after all, you're just an insignificant little person to her.
But if a woman is tempted, she will care very much about what you think of her.
For example, when you say that she is dressed beautifully one day, the woman will dress up harder the next day because she wants to get more attention from you.
Moreover, if a woman intends to let you chase, she will frequently ask for your opinion when you get along.
No matter what you do, she wants to ask your feelings first, always put your feelings and experiences first, and even she will change her words and actions because of your opinions.
These behaviors of women are actually a subtle confession to you.
Because only when facing the man you really like, a woman's joys, sorrows and sorrows will be touched, and she will frequently want to make herself the best in your heart.
When you feel the change in a woman, you can increase the intensity of your pursuit, so as not to make the woman feel left out.
3. Accept your care and attention
There seems to be a default rule in the relationship between men and women, that is, when I am willing to take care of you, and you are willing to accept my care, it means that both parties are interested in each other.
A woman understands one thing very well in her relationship, she is unwilling to be taken care of by the other party for a man she doesn't like, because this kind of care and care is a burden in her opinion, and it will not make a woman feel any satisfaction.
But if the other party is a man that a woman likes, then she is unwilling to refuse. Because of the good feeling in her heart, women will unconsciously become dependent on you and desire to be cared for by you.
When she is struggling, she will subconsciously seek your help, and she will feel happy and satisfied even if the solution you propose does not come in handy at all.
Because what she needs is not that you have to give the perfect plan, but that she wants you to come into her life and give her more care.
When you feel dependent on the other party in the process of pursuing a woman, you should understand that she has accepted you, and even wants you to be more active in treating her.
Closing Remarks:
A woman is particularly sensitive in her relationship, and she is afraid that her enthusiasm will go to waste, so she will use all kinds of means to test you in getting along, wanting to get more response and tolerance from you.
If a woman doesn't have the slightest desire for you to have a relationship, then no matter how passionate you are, she only wants to refuse and doesn't want to give you a chance.
But if this woman is determined to have a deep relationship with you, then she will release these signals so that you can be more proactive with her in your relationship.
At such a critical moment, you must understand the woman's mind in time and give her response.
Because a woman's patience is limited, if you don't take the initiative to show love, she will be disheartened, and you will miss a beautiful love and leave regrets in vain.