We answered many questions and found some patterns.
Girls have more questions about emotional pain, what to do if they are uncomfortable after a breakup, whether to forgive, whether to get back together, etc.
What men want to know more about love routines and ways to express love.
There is a very common question. It's like "How do I talk to a girl?" ”
To be honest, when I saw this question, my first reaction was, "If you chase a girl, if you ask, you lose!" ”
Many men instinctively want to get close to her and show their love to the girl they like when they see her, so they especially want to know how to improve the success rate of confessing to her.
However, these romantic moments are only seen in idol dramas.
In life, we pay more attention to the continuous flow of water.
1. Impulsive confessions will only backfire.
First of all, an impulsive confession without any emotional basis will only lead to rejection and may even cause disgust from the other person.
It's like a rootless seedling, no matter how much you shake it, it will never grow straight or tall.
In the same way, without enough understanding and emotional foundation for a girl, no matter how gorgeously you express your love, it is impossible to touch her heart.
Because in her opinion, your confession is just an empty promise, without any real meaning and value.
So, if you want to successfully pursue a girl, you must first build a deep emotional foundation and make her feel your sincerity and care.
2. Once the feelings are solidified, confession is just a formality.
Second, once the feelings are solidified, you can express your love in any way you like.
Because at this point it is as easy to confess as tearing the window paper.
When you build a deep emotional foundation with a girl, your relationship becomes intimate.
At this time, no matter how you express your love, she will feel your sincerity and determination.
At this point, she has built enough trust and dependence on you;
Your confession is just a formal confirmation, not an adventure.
Therefore, to successfully express love, you need to build a deep emotional foundation in your previous relationship so that she feels genuine and cared for you.
3. Chasing girls, the most important thing is the process.
Just like a marathon, it's not the beginning that matters, it's the end.
In the process of chasing girls, boys need to establish an emotional connection with the girl through a variety of ways, such as chatting, shopping, watching movies, etc.
Through these interactions, the boy gradually learns about the girl's interests, hobbies, personality, lifestyle, etc., and builds deep friendships.
Only by understanding her can we express our love for her in the best way and touch her heart.
In this process, the boy also needs to show sincerity and kindness in order for the girl to feel his warmth and care.
Therefore, the process of chasing girls is not a simple process of confession and acceptance, but a process of mutual understanding and trust.
So, if you chase a girl, if she opens her mouth, you lose!
Chasing a girl is not a simple confession, it requires patience and strategy, and it is necessary to wait for the emotions to calm down.
This process cannot be rushed.
As the saying goes, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry.
Chasing a girl is like a long journey that requires patience and perseverance.
As long as you have enough patience and determination, you will be able to reach your destination.
The last thing I want to say is.
It's still the same sentence, it doesn't matter if you say it or not.
The most important thing is honesty.