There are too many girls who feel that honest people are reliable, and marrying an honest person will certainly lose the interest and romance of life, but it can ensure a stable life.
But stability, is not the whole of married life, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea, can be shared in the face of difficulties, etc., these details of life are the whetstone of feelings.
And honest people may not be able to pass the test of life, so, girls, keep your eyes open, and don't marry a man who looks honest!
After 18 years of marriage, I finally made up my mind to leave the home that made me feel wronged, and the people who made me sad after my son was admitted to college.
The husband's family is well-known"Good old guys", because they are especially warm and generous to both friends and relatives.
My husband's cousin opened a restaurant to borrow money, and my father-in-law took the money and drove it to him.
My husband's uncle and uncle built a house at home, harvested corn and wheat, and the old couple rode a motorcycle every day, going back and forth for dozens of kilometers, and went back to help.
My husband's third aunt and second aunt picked grapes and dates, and the old couple went back to cook and help. At one point, he even fell off a ladder and broke his leg and lost his new motorcycle.
And these, no one is responsible, when they are used, they are justified. Something happened, but he took it upon himself. But even so, they are still eager to help everyone.
Many people say that I am blessed to marry in such a family, but the truth is quite the opposite.
At home, I don't cook, no one cooks. I don't clean, no one cleans. Their enthusiasm and ability outside, when they get home, they immediately stop cooking, all kinds of back pain and leg cramps.
I bought a car, renovated, did business, borrowed money everywhere when it was difficult, and even maxed out my credit card.
The old couple knew it, but they never reached out to help once, and they didn't have a penny. I look down on gnawing the old, but there is no harm without contrast!
People always say that I am blessed in various ways, but I really can't say that I am suffering. "Good old guys"The fame is too great. Even if I did, no one would believe me. Not only do I not believe it, but I will also say that I am hypocritical. So, this thorn is deeply rooted in my heart.
I really want to live a good life, but their family takes care of each other, and under the influence of the original family, my husband is also like this.
He never cared about me and my children, but if my friends and classmates had something, they had to help beyond their ability. If there is anything beyond the scope of your ability, you have to help. The in-laws not only did not persuade him, but also felt that he was kind and warm-hearted.
A few years ago, with their unremitting efforts, they finally succeeded in incurring millions of dollars. Because, the in-laws use their own wages and savings to help relatives and friends.
My husband also took out loans, guarantees, and borrowed money behind my back to help my friends. naively thought that this was righteousness, but pushed his family into a dire situation.
I found out that none of them in their family of three spent their energy and money on their own families. When the debt came, the whole family couldn't come up with tens of thousands of dollars.
When those relatives found out, not only did they not return the money they borrowed before, but they also hid far away.
I can only make money while waiting for my children's college entrance examination.
When I filed for divorce, he was furious, the whole family said I couldn't go, and the oppressive atmosphere almost suffocated me.
I left that house barefoot and like crazy. But he followed me to my mother's house, and the opening scene happened. And I'm tired. Will this kind of person change?
Family is always more important than outsiders.
We would always prefer to spend more time dealing with relationships with outsiders, but if we ignore them more because of this, and feel that we can handle relationships with family members without bothering, we are putting the cart before the horse.
On the one hand, from our own point of view, our partners are close to each other, and they are worthy of our lifelong care. On the other hand, only when the relationship between husband and wife is smooth, the relationship between parents and children and family will be smooth.