With the opening of the second and third children, many families may want to have another one, one of the purposes may be to achieve "both children", make up a "good" word, feel that this life is perfect, but is the family with both children really happy?
My son is three years older than my daughter, and I have been spoiled by my in-laws since I was a child, and even if I have a younger sister later, my son is still very domineering and wants the best in everything.
The daughter is very sensible and filial, and in other people's families, the elder brother lets the younger sister, but in our family, it is the younger sister who lets the elder brother.
When the son got married, the daughter-in-law asked for the wedding car and the bride price. After we worked hard to scrape together enough money, our daughter-in-law asked for a grand and lively wedding, so that she could not lose face in her mother's house.
For the sake of our son's marriage, we took in all our savings and owed 100,000 debts.
And these debts are all paid by me and my wife, and the daughter-in-law said that it was none of her business, and the son's salary was dragged by the daughter-in-law in the palm of her hand.
After my daughter heard about it, she transferred 3,000 yuan to us every month to pay off our debts.
When our daughter got married, we proposed to give 80,000 yuan as a dowry, but the daughter-in-law objected to it in various ways, and the daughter-in-law also said, you gave the money to your daughter, don't expect us to support the elderly in the future.
The clamor of my daughter-in-law made me angry, and I gave my daughter a dowry of 80,000 yuan regardless of it.
After our daughter's wedding, my daughter-in-law didn't talk to us for a long time, and she didn't even let us see our grandson, saying that we were partial to our daughter.
The arrogance of the daughter-in-law gave us a headache, but fortunately, we lived in one place, did not disturb each other, and we were safe.
At the beginning, my son also suggested that we sell our old house and go to the city to retire, but I firmly disagreed, otherwise we would have to live on the streets today.
The daughter-in-law cries poor from time to time, and the son comes back from time to time to cry poor, and in desperation, we have to subsidize our son from time to time to subsidize some of the family, so that he does not have to look at the daughter-in-law's face all day long.
The daughter has been married for three years, and it was not easy to get pregnant, and her mother-in-law was taking care of her when she was pregnant, but when she was about to give birth, her daughter-in-law fell ill and was hospitalized.
My son-in-law was also anxious and lacked skills, and I felt sorry for my daughter and son-in-law, so I offered to take my daughter home for confinement.
The son-in-law was grateful to Dane and thanked him a thousand times, but the daughter-in-law came with all kinds of ugly words.
On the second day after I picked up my daughter, my daughter-in-law called** and said that the daughter who got married, how could she go back to her parents' house for confinement? This will bring bad luck to the mother's brother.
Seeing that I was indifferent, my daughter-in-law yelled at me for favoring my daughter and preferring women over men, and then rushed away angrily, and packed up and took my grandson back to her parents' house.
Now they have been back for a week, and my son has been urging me several times, and my daughter-in-law is shouting, my sister-in-law will not leave, and if I don't apologize to her in person and admit my mistake, she will not come back, and I will change my grandson's surname to her surname.
The daughter is not confined in their house, how can it bring her bad luck?
My daughter was afraid that I would have too much trouble with my daughter-in-law, so she offered to go back to her own house, and it was a big deal to ask my sister-in-law to take care of her for half a month, and just get through it.
My daughter had a caesarean section, and the knife wound on her body has not healed, how can she move around at will? If the wound is pulled again, the knife will be torn open, and he will be punished twice.
I'm in a dilemma now, should I send my daughter back to my in-laws' house? Am I wrong to bring my daughter back for confinement?
Families with both children are prone to conflict of interest. Rivalries and conflicts between siblings often arise over the distribution of interests. Parents may provoke rivalry between siblings because of their preference for their children, which can lead to disharmony in the family. The relationship between siblings needs the correct guidance and equal treatment of their parents in order to achieve true happiness.