In your eyes, what should a child look like, whether it is obedient and obedient, or willful and naughty.
Whether it is calm and sophisticated, or full of situations, whether it is rough and leafy, or cautious ......
The educator Rousseau once said that nature wants children to be like children before they are.
If you live like a "puppet" every day, if you are constantly using guidelines and requirements, it will not only make your child lose the fun of exploring and learning, but also make him lose the way he should be.
Purely by yelling at the child or strict discipline, it is basically in vain, and the child is even more disgusted, I came over like this, until a few months ago, I studied for a period of time in the Gaotu beautiful family, and I learned too much with Mr. Song Li, at first because after the junior high school, the child's learning was originally in the middle of the stream, but after the junior high school added geography and biology, the child was very hard at the beginning, but in the second half of the year, the opportunity was very backward and even he was rotten and did not study!
The family was also very anxious, but they couldn't control their emotions, which caused the smell of gunpowder at home to be particularly strong during that time, basically blowing up at one point, and the child was becoming more and more rebellious. Ask the teacher for help, the teacher let the science guide, recommended the Gaotu beautiful family, the first half of the second year of junior high school, basically we stabilized, the child also realized the value of learning, caught up, and the atmosphere at home was also good, so it is worth learning.
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Therefore, don't blindly ask your child to be obedient, don't insist on letting your child be true to himself, give him some space to show his own natural characteristics and unique behavior, and let him freely play his own exclusive agility and liveliness.
We are all in life, frequently recording the growth of children, because they will grow up non-stop, and in the future, we will one day miss him very much, small, crazy.
It is precisely because of him that our ordinary days will become colorful and have endless joy.
Follow nature and wait for growth, the child is a ray of light, we just let him learn to penetrate the prosperity and show the original color. High Path