In February, a migrant worker named Chen Zhixian from Shangrao, Jiangxi Province, was married to his wife for 16 years and gave birth to three daughters during this period. However, what is shocking is that in the end, he found out that these 3 daughters are not his biological flesh and blood!
Chen Zhixian's experience is heartbreaking, and the originally harmonious family was broken up because of his wife's cheating. His wife, Yu Fang, not only did not give a reasonable explanation, but responded with vicious words and intimidation and retaliation.
* Chen Zhixian wept bitterly, his heart was full of helplessness and pain. He once had 3 daughters with his wife Yu Fang, the eldest daughter is 15 years old, and the younger daughter is not yet 3 years old, but all this disappeared with his wife's cheating.
Chen Zhixian's experience is sympathetic, and it also makes us reflect on the true meaning of marriage and the importance of family.
Chen Zhixian was very confused after his wife cheated on him, so he followed the advice of his relatives and did paternity tests for his three children. The result was heartbreaking: his three daughters were not his own.
Although he has always had a deep relationship with his wife, he cares for his children, and even feels warm for the children's "Dad". But when he learned the truth, the word became uncomfortable for him like a pinprick.
He tried to find his wife and ask why, but she always avoided it. In the end, he decided to make the matter public, disregarding the dignity of men and seeking justice. What he gets, however, is his wife's cynicism and unexpected "frankness".
All this made Chen Zhixian feel tired, and he decided to divorce his wife. However, the process of this divorce was full of twists and turns.
After 16 years of getting along, didn't Chen Zhixian find anything? He found a lot, but he chose to believe because he loved her deeply. Chen Zhixian, a man surrounded by angels, was born in Shangrao, Jiangxi Province in 1977.
He is different, unlike the young men and women in the town who start a family early, he works outside the home all year round and cannot return home several times a year. When he was over 30 years old and his parents were anxious about his life's events, on the eve of the Spring Festival in 2007, Chen Zhixian ended his year's work and returned to his hometown.
Soon, his parents arranged for a matchmaker to introduce him to a matchmaker. It is said that she and Chen Zhixian are in the same town and are a big girl with a lot of water. The parents had seen it in advance and felt that she was very satisfied, so they waited for their son to come back and contributed to this family business.
The two families are separated by a river, so to speak, neighbors. Before they could get to know each other face-to-face, Chen Zhixian, who was standing on the other side of the river, was already moved by the girl who was approaching.
Yu Fang, a woman of the same age as Chen Zhixian, works in the town and has a generous demeanor. Chen Zhixian was deeply attracted to her, and secretly swore in his heart that he would not marry her. The two exchanged *** and established a preliminary emotional bond.
Chen Zhixian went to Hangzhou to work, but he couldn't let go of that concerned figure no matter what, so he often went home to visit Yu Fang and take her out to play and go shopping. The relationship between the two is heating up day by day, and they decide to get married half a year later.
Chen Zhixian's family was very satisfied with the future daughter-in-law, and in order to show respect, they took out 100,000 yuan in bride price. On December 28, 2007, they entered the palace of marriage under the witness of their relatives, and Yu Fang officially became a member of Chen Zhixian's family.
Chen Zhixian's parents were deeply grateful, they said: "Yu Fang entered our house, it is a blessing for our family, and she is very filial to us two old people." ”
This festive atmosphere also brought them their first gift of love - Yu Fang is pregnant. A year later, their first daughter was born. A few days after the marriage, Chen Zhixian couldn't wait to return to Hangzhou to work, he knew that now he had a warm home, and he needed to work hard to create better living conditions.
Yu Fang took care of the elderly in the family with her meticulous care, and kept the whole family in good order, and even outsiders envied Chen Zhixian for marrying such a virtuous wife.
Whenever these are mentioned, Chen Zhixian will feel extremely happy. After the birth of his daughter, Chen Zhixian made a decision that he would return to his hometown to work. On the one hand, the child has just been born, and it is a little difficult to take care of it alone; On the other hand, parents are old and need someone to take care of them.
So, Chen Zhixian returned to Shangrao and started a transportation business. For his wife, Chen Zhixian really trusts him 100%, he thanks his wife for her dedication, and all the money he earned after marriage was handed over to Yu Fang and let her save it.
On weekdays, he often buys items for his home, so that their lives are the envy of others.
In Chen Zhixian's life, his daughters are his greatest happiness. In 2011 and 2013, his two eldest daughters were born respectively, and they gathered around him, making Chen Zhixian feel extremely happy.
And in 2019, Chen Zhixian and Yu Fang welcomed their third daughter, and she has become an important part of their lives. Although Chen Zhixian's parents preferred for them to have a grandchild, he always insisted on his idea that his daughter was just as cute.
He was worried that if the aftermath reappeared, it would be bad for her health, and the three daughters had already brought a certain amount of pressure to the family. Chen Zhixian and Yu Fang have always had a good relationship, but the birth of their third child has made Chen Zhixian's work even busier.
He often had to run long distances and sometimes couldn't even go home for days. This state of life made him realize that his feelings were quietly changing. Whenever there is a dead of night, Chen Zhixian will feel a sense of loneliness, even if he has a home, he is like a wanderer.
But he knew that he had three angels waiting for him, as well as his wife, Yu Fang. He would take out his mobile phone and make a **, listen to their voices, and get a little comfort.
Overall, although Chen Zhixian's life is full of challenges, he firmly believes that as long as there is love, everything will be better. He cherishes every moment with his daughters, and he also cherishes the relationship with Yu Fang.
He knew that their lives would go on, full of hope and happiness.
Chen Zhixian felt that the distance between him and his wife Yu Fang was getting farther and farther away. Sometimes the call is just a few short sentences, as if she has something important to deal with. This made Chen Zhixian wonder, and he began to wonder if his wife had changed her mind.
But remembering that they still have three children, there have been no major conflicts between them over the years, and he has given a lot for this family, thinking that his ideas will not become a reality.
Until the end of 2021, Chen Zhixian went home for the New Year, and Yu Fang suddenly told him that she was going to partner with others to do the project. This surprised Chen Zhixian, because Yu Fang spent most of his time at home and had no experience in engineering at all.
Although Chen Zhixian tried to dissuade her, she insisted on her opinion, took all the money they had saved hard, and wanted to devote herself to the project. In the face of Yu Fang's insistence, Chen Zhixian could only accept it temporarily, but he was thinking in his heart that when she couldn't continue, she would naturally give up.
However, a long time has passed, and Chen Zhixian is still concerned about his children, so he called his wife Yu Fang, but found that her attitude has changed.
Chen Zhixian hit several ** in a row, but ** never got through, and finally even prompted that the phone had been shut down. This made him feel very uneasy, because according to the point in time, Yu Fang should not rest.
After returning home the next day, he asked Yu Fang why he didn't answer ** last night, but the answer he got was that the phone was out of battery. Although Chen Zhixian tried his best to believe this answer, he still had some doubts.
He decided to respect his wife and did not continue to ask. Until his daughter came home from school, he asked his daughter if her mother went to ** last night, and he was very shocked after hearing his daughter's answer.
It turned out that Yu Fang was not at home last night, and the children slept by themselves. This made Chen Zhixian start to doubt his guess, but he still decided to test it.
Chen Zhixian and his wife Yu Fang agreed that he would come back after three days of driving out of town. However, when he left the house, he lied to Yu Fang for the first time since he got married.
Despite the guilt in his heart, he decided to investigate the truth himself. He drove the car out of town and parked in a secluded place. When it got dark, he thought that Yu Fang should be about to rest, so he called her **.
However, Yu Fang only said that he was tired for a day and wanted to rest, so he hung up**. Listening to the beeping sound in **, Chen Zhixian turned on the mobile phone positioning. Chen Zhixian and his wife, Yu Fang, both often go out of the car, and in order to ensure each other's safety, they linked each other's numbers to the positioning system.
However, when he first used this feature, instead of his own home, he was shown in a hotel in Quzhou, Zhejiang. Seeing the location on the phone screen, he finally trusted his judgment.
He couldn't understand why his wife was cheating on him, so he decided to drive to that location overnight and ask for it himself.
On the morning of March 2, Chen Zhixian met Yu Fang and another man at the door of the hotel, which made Chen Zhixian feel deeply aggrieved, but before Chen Zhixian could take further action, Yu Fang and the man left in a hurry.
Chen Zhixian tried to explain to him clearly by ** getting Yu Fang back, but what he got was a ruthless response: "Explain what? What you see is the truth. After returning home, in the face of the children asking their mother to go to **, he couldn't bear to tell the children the truth, just said that his mother went out to travel and would come back in a few days.
When Chen Zhixian's family learned about the incident, they felt extremely sad and incredulous, but they still insisted that Chen Zhixian go for a paternity test, because they believed that "at least the child is ours, and this family cannot be separated".
Although Chen Zhixian's first reaction was that he was unwilling to do a paternity test, because the child was the only link between him and Yu Fang, he was still looking forward to Yu Fang being able to change his mind.
However, at the urging of his family, he had to do it. When the results of the paternity test revealed the truth in a scientific way, Chen Zhixian's emotions collapsed, and he squatted directly on the ground.
And Yu Fang has never appeared since she was caught cheating by Chen Zhixian, and Chen Zhixian couldn't contact her. He decided to go to Yu Fang's mother's house to find her mother-in-law, and with the results of the paternity test, he asked them to give a reasonable explanation.
However, Chen's mother-in-law misunderstood his intentions, believing that he was laughing at her daughter and driving him away. When he got home, he looked at the results of the shredded appraisal in his hand and decided to take the children to the hospital for blood tests on the pretext of a physical examination.
Although he was prepared, when he saw the results, he still felt that the world was spinning. It turned out that his eldest and second daughters were not related to him.
After not getting a response from Yu Fang in the divorce war, and finding out that his daughter was not born to him, Chen Zhixian decided to make the matter public, hoping that ** could help him find Yu Fang.
So, on May 12, 2022, he posted a **. , a middle-aged man, cried about the absurdity that happened to him, hoping for a divorce and recovering his losses.
Yu Fang transferred all the money away under the pretext of doing the project, and Chen Zhi appeared to be a breeze on his sleeves. The reporter successfully found Yu Fang, but from her words, we appreciate the coldness of human nature: "He just wants to win sympathy and money, has he called his father for nothing for so many years?" ”
At the same time, Yu Fang also claimed that she had filed for divorce, but the other party did not agree, so her behavior was not cheating. In the face of Yu Fang's remarks, Chen Zhixian was extremely disappointed, and he insisted on a divorce and demanded compensation for mental losses from the other party.
And Yu Fang insisted that divorce is okay, but he will not give a penny.
Chen Zhixian decided to use the power of the law to protect his rights and interests. He chose to call the police and wanted to get a divorce through legal means and at the same time get the property he deserved. The actions of Yu Fang and the man attracted the attention of **, and after investigation, the evidence was conclusive, and they were detained and fined.
According to the lawyer, through the paternity test, it was confirmed that the three children were not Chen Zhixian's biological sons, so he has the right to file for divorce, and at the same time, he does not need to bear the responsibility of raising the three children.
In addition, since Yu Fang's derailment violated public order and good customs and he had cohabited with others, Chen Zhixian should be doubled in compensation for mental damages.
The union of love needs to be protected by law, and the trouble of the family causes the love to be damaged. Unfortunately, innocent children have fallen victim to this marital turmoil. We hope that the breakdown of this marriage will not leave a wound on their young hearts.
No matter who they ultimately choose to follow, they hope to receive more love. Love is not a game, and there is bound to be a price to be paid for rash choices, whether right or wrong.
We sincerely hope that this marital dilemma can be resolved as soon as possible, so that the three children can be properly settled and have a happy childhood memory.