Habit determines fate"- There's a lot of truth to the old adage.
Of course, it's good to make money, but if you don't have good habits, sooner or later the money will be someone else's.
Good habits are like flashlights, showing you the way in the dark.
For example, if you save some money often, you won't have to worry about it in the future; Learn something new and be able to stand on your feet at work.
Changing habits sounds easy, but it's hard to do.
Everyone is stuck: how to start? How long did you hold on? What if I mess up? These problems make many people give up halfway.
So, more important than making money is changing habits.
My friend Xiao Chen is a workaholic, and he does his work quickly and efficiently.
His salary is also expensive, easily breaking 10,000 per month. But what is puzzling is that he actually borrows money from people from time to time. At first, our friends thought it was strange, but then we gradually became strange.
Xiao Chen's concept of money is very peculiar, he thinks that money is for spending.
He has a soft spot for technology products, and there are few new mobile phones, tablets, and laptops that he hasn't bought.
Not only that, but he has to taste all the barbecue stalls downstairs and street snacks. Every time he goes out, he is always big and never stingy.
Someone persuaded him: "Xiao Chen, it's not a way for you to go on like this, you have to save some money." He always looked indifferent: "Oh, money, if you earn it, you have to spend it." It's never too late to save when I want to. ”
After a long time, everyone became accustomed to his consumption habits.
Whoever tried to persuade him felt that it was useless to talk about it. Xiao Chen's lifestyle is like a bottomless pit, no matter how much money he makes, he will always end up empty-handed.
It's easy to spend money, but it's hard to save. Not everyone can master this degree, but at least you have to consciously try. Otherwise, no amount of money will be just a passing moment.
"a penny s**ed is a penny earned."- A penny saved is a penny earned.
Xiao Chen's life illustrates that no matter how much money you make, if you don't have good saving habits, you may end up with nothing.
Examples like Xiao Chen are everywhere. Many people love to have fun in time, but they don't think about planning for the future. This way of spending money with only the pleasure in front of you is likely to make your money strain in the end.
In ancient times, there was a man named Zhang Jian, his life was very simple, even if he became a **, his lifestyle did not change.
Zhang Jian wears coarse cloth clothes, eats very simply, and uses the extra money to help those in need.
Once, the emperor noticed that his clothes were shabby, and even deliberately made a hole in his clothes, wondering if he would get a new one.
But every time Zhang Jian appeared, he was wearing that shabby dress.
The emperor asked him why, and Zhang Jian replied that he had been wearing this dress for thirty years.
In that era of luxury and luxury, Zhang Jian used his actions to convey a message of simplicity and self-discipline.
"The water drops are worn by stones, and the ropes are sawed and the wood is broken"Just like Zhang Jian, his persistence is not only reflected in the simplicity of the material, but also in his adherence to his beliefs.
In today's world, many people choose to vent immediately when faced with stress and challenges, such as shopping spree or indulging in electronic gadgets, which can only bring short-term satisfaction and will not solve the problem in the long run.
Just like Zhang Jian, choosing a more difficult but rewarding path, such as cultivating the habits of frugality and self-discipline, is difficult, but it can have a more profound impact on life.
This perseverance is not easy, but it will eventually shape a stronger self.
Li has a wide range of hobbies, especially eating and drinking, and is always trying every new restaurant in town with his friends.
But when it comes to reading and studying, Xiao Li always finds excuses to shirk.
Although it is easy to eat, drink and have fun, it makes people happy immediately, but it is not so simple to improve yourself, especially through reading books and learning.
But once, Xiao Li began to study a professional book because of work needs.
At first, I was very unaccustomed to it, and I found it difficult to bite. Gradually, he found that he had a deeper understanding of his work and was more thoughtful in solving problems. This made him realize that although reading is difficult, the long-term benefits it brings to people are incomparable to eating, drinking and having fun.
It's like planting a tree, eating, drinking and having fun is like watering, and you can immediately see the soil get wet;
Reading and studying, on the other hand, is fertilization, and the effect is not immediately visible, but in the long run, the tree grows more lush and stronger.
Therefore, when choosing between eating, drinking, and having fun or reading and studying in life, remember to see which is more beneficial in the long run.
Although reading requires patience and time, the rewards it brings will make life more colorful.
Lian Xixian is not tall, but he has a mountain in his heart. He's not the kind of person who just knows how to eat, drink, and be merry.
This guy is simply a true love for books, and he always holds a copy of "Mencius" in his hand.
Once, because of this book, the emperor noticed him and gave him the nickname "Lian Mencius", and since then this name has been like his shadow, and it has followed everywhere.
Lian Xixian likes to read "Mencius" and says:"If you don't follow the rules, you can't make a circle. ”
This is used in reading, that is, there is no perseverance and rules, and what you have learned is not solid.
Eating, drinking, and having fun is like a rainbow after the rain, which looks good, and then disappears after a while;
Reading and learning is like a planted sapling, which cannot be seen at first, but after a long time, it can grow into a towering tree.
It was with this perseverance that Lian Xixian went from a small official to a big official.
Have you ever wondered why some people can save money while others are always tight?
Or, why do some people persevere when they encounter difficulties, while others choose to give up?
It's all about habits. Good habits can make people not give up in the face of difficulties, while bad habits can make people miss opportunities.
So, develop good habits and get rid of bad habits, and your life will change because of it.
"Habits are small efforts, repeated repeats, and eventually great things. ”
The positive way to deal with it is to be like Lian Xixian, insist on reading and learning, and constantly improve yourself;
The opposite way of dealing with it is like Xiao Chen, although he makes a lot of money, but because he has no good consumption habits, he ends up with nothing.
Successful people are successful not only because of their talent or opportunity, but more importantly, because they have good habits.
These habits have made their careers and shaped their lives.
Change habits, change lives. It's as simple as that.
Pay attention to me, let the rhythm of words compose the music of life;
"Nightingales leap in the moonlight, their feathers shimmering with silver. Its singing voice was like a wonderful **, which touched my soul deeply. "