A few days ago, I met a high school classmate, let's call her Xiaoping for the time being.
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf]Xiaoping has been married for four years and has three daughters. Xiaoping said that her in-laws wanted her to have a son, so she began to prepare for pregnancy again, but unexpectedly, the results of the examination in her belly showed that she was still a daughter.
gf]2003[gf][gf]2003[gf]I said, "How old are we now?" Why do you want to have a son? ”
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf]Xiaoping sighed and said: "Their family is more conservative, and I can't help it!" ”
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf] "Why don't you have children? "Do I have the right to decide? ”
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf] "I've had three daughters in a row, but I haven't had any social interaction for a long time, should I go out to work now? ”
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf] "Are you going to have a son before you are born? Xiaoping was silent.
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf]The longer I talked, the more I felt that what people think really mattered.
gf]2003[gf][gf]2003[gf]I feel like I've moved away from Kodair. I don't agree with her, but I can't change it.
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf]Xiaoping's problem is that she can't decide her uterus, but she doesn't want to make any effort to change the situation.
gf]2003[gf][gf]2003[gf]in-laws wanted a son, so she stupidly gave birth to one. Because she doesn't have the ability to decide anything. Many people would rather endure the current undesirable marriage than make the effort to take steps to change themselves. I have to complain about this and that every day. Eventually, they return to an unsatisfactory life.
gf]2003[/gf][gf]2003[/gf] 2.
gf]2003[gf][gf]2003[gf]The other day, I took the train to my father's house. The couple who slept on the bunk above me returned to their hometown with their two children. They are all from Ganzhou, so I can understand what they are saying.
GF]2003[ GF][gf]2003[ GF]Women have been taking care of their children. However, the man was fiddling with his phone. The two children were very naughty and ran around. The man got impatient. "Look, the good son you raised! "Can you please be quiet?
gf]2003[gf][gf]2003[gf]The woman saw me, was embarrassed, and walked over to comfort the child.
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf]I said to the man: "Your wife is really busy. "Can you go help her? The man sneered: Why don't you take care of the child? What are you busy with? Taking care of a child is tiring!
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf]I shook my head: Isn't it hard to take care of children? You can get her a job.
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf]The man said: I told her a long time ago to look for a job. Now that your child is grown up and in school, you should get a job. But luckily, Summer said she didn't want to go out in the scorching sun. Winter is cold, so I'm going to wait until spring. I haven't found a job yet.
The woman said, "Do you think I am unwilling?" It's tiring to go to work, but I still have to see the boss's face! Who wants to go to work?
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf]The strangest thing about people is that they can endure all kinds of hardships in life, but the difficulties at work are simply unbearable.
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf] 3, many women complain about various aspects of marriage, such as husbands not giving money, not doing housework, etc. What about yourself? It is understandable that children need the company of their mothers when they are young. But now that the kids are back in school, can't you achieve your dreams? Do I need to focus on my husband and children?
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf] is not. Most women who are struggling with marriage, I've been raising children for a long time, so I've been out of society for a long time. I'm afraid I won't be able to learn.
One of the biggest barriers to success is taking the first step. If you can take the first step, you'll be one step closer to success.
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf]If I keep making excuses, I just don't want to change the status quo, I just want to look at my husband and mother-in-law's faces every day and complain about my life. They are also not willing to work hard to change themselves and get a better life.
gf]2003[gf][gf]2003[gf]There is such a sentence. "You can tolerate the difficulties in life, no wonder you are having a bad time. ”
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf]During pregnancy, there is no need to board the subway alone to go to the hospital for a medical check-up.
gf]2003[gf][gf]2003[gf]If you don't want to rent a house, you should choose the cheapest one and it's far from where you work.
gf]2003[gf][gf]2003[gf]When your parents are hospitalized due to illness, you don't want them to be bothered by various expenses or even hesitate to buy insurance.
gf]2003[ gf][gf]2003[ gf] I don't want to feed my child cheap milk powder or buy toys. Also, you don't want your family to suffer for you, save you money and expenses, and ultimately fund your retirement.
gf]2003[gf][gf]2003[gf]If you don't want to suffer in life, work hard and be strict with yourself so you can live the life you deserve.