The urban family drama "Fireworks Family" starring Xu Fan and Ma Sichun is on the air, and the audience is lamenting the friend-like mother-daughter relationship between Meng Guanqing, the second eldest of the Meng family, and his daughter Tao Shuna, but they are uncomfortable by the suffocating mother-daughter relationship between Meng Mingwei, the boss of the Meng family, and his daughter Li Yijin.
"If I raise you so big, you will send me away with a few stinky money, and you will not care about me for the rest of your life, and you will not be afraid of retribution." In "Fireworks People", Meng Mingwei shouted angrily at his daughter Li Yijin. Previously, Meng Mingwei went to Liao Zhe's fitness club because of Li Yijin's fake love affair with the rich second-generation Liao Zhe, and in front of the public, he didn't care about Li Yijin's dignity at all, and shook his hand was a slap.
Also, Meng Mingwei, who ran to Shanghai in the name of visiting his daughter, saw the bangs in front of Li Yijin's forehead, and without saying a word, he directly picked up the scissors and clicked to cut off Li Yijin's bangs. even went to Li Yijin's unit on crutches, which embarrassed Li Yijin in front of his colleagues, lost face, and affected Li Yijin's daily work many times.
2. Li Yijin is nearly 30 years old, born in the 90s, the only daughter in the family, who went to college, why is she so obedient? In reality, even college students from the countryside will not be at the mercy of their mothers.
The reason for this is mainly due to these three factors: First, when Li Yijin was young, he became friendly with Feng Yanyan, a classmate who was not good at speaking, and the two often watched the ants move together, secretly sharing their joys, sorrows, and sorrows. After her mother Meng Mingwei learned about it, she forcibly ended the relationship between the two in the name of affecting her grades, which left a serious shadow on Li Yijin.
The second is that Meng Mingwei was lame because of a medical accident, she was not treated by her husband Li Chengzhi at home, she had no friends, and she had no confidence in front of her two capable sisters, and her only hope was her daughter Li Yijin. Li Yijin grew up under Meng Mingwei's strong control since he was a child, and he was used to this mother-daughter relationship, and the occasional rebellion was also slapped by Meng Mingwei one after another.
The third is Qiao Haiyun, the old lady of the Meng family, the second aunt Meng Wanqing, the younger aunt Meng Yi'an and other Meng family members, all emphasizing how difficult and difficult Meng Mingwei is, and persuading Li Yijin to be considerate, tolerant, and patient, no one understands how aggrieved Li Yijin is and how much torture he has suffered.
3. Meng Mingwei is a good daughter who is loyal and filial in front of the old lady Qiao Haiyun; In front of his two younger sisters, he is gentle and friendly, and has a humble attitude. Meng Mingwei became a sick cat in front of her husband Li Chengzhi, not to mention the salary card, she didn't dare to come out, she swallowed her anger, she was incompetent, and she was angry.
When he was young, he had no career, he had no money when he was old, he had no self at all, he lived with inferiority, his thoughts were old and old, and he didn't know what was going on, so he only relied on controlling his daughter Li Yijin to get a little sense of achievement. As long as Li Yijin can live as she hopes, she feels that the suffering she has suffered in her life is not in vain. Once Li Yijin got rid of her plans and requirements, she felt that she had sacrificed her family and marriage for Li Yijin, why should Li Yijin be ignorant and unappreciative.
Conclusion: A highly educated college student, a staff member engaged in magazine editing, after stepping into society, will be controlled by his mother Meng Mingwei and trampled on his dignity, which is a bit incomprehensible. It is really a miracle to meet such an irrational, self-righteous, beaten and messed around mother who wants to fight, and Li Yijin is not depressed and crazy.
It is really not easy for Li Yijin to be 30 years old, and he can still be kind and help his new colleague Sun Xiaoru punish Cui Baohui, a company leader who is sexually harassed. If you are asked to be a mother like Meng Mingwei, what will you do? Endure like Li Yijin, or escape?