Longteng New Year film recommendation
Recently, the topic of domestic violence has once again detonated the whole network.
There are Cantonese women nearbyKilled by her husband during the cool-off period of divorce
The prosecution found that the man involved in the case had committed domestic violence for a long time, repeatedly threatened the victim, and threatened to kill his family.
Not long ago, there was one that shocked the whole networkGoogle's Wife Murder Case
The person involved in the case, Chen, has been accused of beating his wife to death.
* After that, Chen did not show up again, and used the excuse of the hospital to delay attending the trial again and again.
Why did he kill his wife, there are different opinions on the Internet.
Surprisingly, the suspect in killing his wife, Chen, was praised by many netizens as a top blind date.
If he hadn't killed his wife, this man would have been on a blind date
When you meet such a blind date, you have to wake up with a smile in your dreams
Indeed, from appearance to education, to family background, the conditions are not bad.
But no matter how high the conditions are, they can't cover up the brutal crimes he committed.
In fact, many domestic violence men look like "good men" in the eyes of the public.
For example, An Jiahe in "Don't Talk to Strangers".
In the eyes of outsiders, he is a respected surgeon.
The villain in the American drama "Big Little Lies" is also a tall, handsome business elite with a good job.
But behind the scenes, it is a domestic violence man and ** criminal with a strong desire to control.
Recently, the male protagonist of a new film also has a decent job and a charming appearance.
To outsiders, the married life seems to be happy and happy.
But in fact, the husband carried out mental control and domestic violence against his wife for several years, which eventually led to the wife's suicide by swallowing drugs.
Today, let's tear apart the true face of this scumbag-
"Love and the Forest".
l’amour et les forêts
The male protagonist of this film is a French male god-level actorMelville Popo
Whether it was 22 years ago in "Lover" starring Leung Ka-fai.
Or play Bad Boy who wavers in his feelings in "The Story of Summer" by Hou Mai.
or Lawrence, a transgender man with a unique temperament in "Double-Faced Lawrence".
Pobo's deep and charming eyes and handsome appearance are very attractive.
But in this film, his horror index is a higher level than An Jia and in "Don't Talk to Strangers".
Ask why. Because, the banker played by PoboGregHe is also suspicious of his wife.
Where have you been?
At school, after that I went for a ride.
Don't take me for an idiot, where have you been?
When he can't control his emotions, he will use violent means to threaten the other person.
Smashing things, grabbing hair, pushing ......will also jam his wife's neck.
The hideous red face expression is not exactly the same as An Jiahe.
However, Greg is a bit higher.
He was very good at mentally torturing his wife.
One day, his wife did not come back for dinner as he requested.
When he came home in the evening, during the hug, he smelled a different smell of shower gel on his wife's body, and decided that she was cheating.
No matter how his wife explained, he didn't listen.
Greg unilaterally determined that his wife was an unfaithful woman and demanded that she pay for it.
That's the truth, you**.
I'm going to make you pay a dearly price.
So, Greg started his two-sided life.
During the day, in front of his children, he is a good father and husband.
The life of a family of four seems to be forever full of sunshine, without a trace of gloom.
He also treated his wife as always, warm and loving.
If it weren't for the occasional momentary look of meaning, gloom, no one would have been able to tell that the couple was in a strange state.
But as soon as the night turns, Greg becomes a devil.
He forbade his wife to sleep and kept asking for the man's name in her ear.
and retold the dirtiest ** story he made up and imagined to his wife over and over again.
He asked his wife to admit that he had done so and to fill in the details.
In the end, the wife, who couldn't stand it, casually talked about a person she saw at a gas station.
She thought that this would end all this, but what she didn't expect was further torture.
Greg first forced his wife to point out on the map that they had all been**.
Then, despite her resistance, according to the **posture of her confession, ** his wife.
Domestic violence is by no means confined to physical violence.
Injuries such as mind control are easy to overlook due to the absence of physical wounds.
As everyone knows, this kind of invisible and intangible torture can also cause irreparable tragedy.
His wife's name wasBlanche(Vergenie Efila) is a primary school French teacher.
Due to the high level of mental tension at night, she fainted in class at one point.
But even so, the husband still did not stop interrogating.
In fact, she did cheat once.
Not a truck driver, but a man who lives in the forest.
It's just that the reason why she did this was not because she really fell in love with someone else, but out of revenge on her husband.
The husband is just suffocating.
In this way, Blanche wants to tear a hole in his almost vacuum living environment and seek a glimmer of life.
The relationship between the two of them actually started very hastily.
At that time, Blanche was in the midst of emotional trauma.
Her twin sister dragged her to a party to help her get out of her pain.
At the party, Greg saw her sitting alone by the window and watching the sea view, so he took the initiative to strike up a conversation.
The two went back and forth and chatted very speculatively.
When the atmosphere was thick, ** sounded, and Gregora danced with Blanche.
The physical touch further catalyzed the spark between the two.
After a hearty interaction, the two quickly confirmed their relationship.
My sister felt that the relationship was progressing too fast.
And Blanche is so in love that she does whatever Greg says.
Soon, she got married because she was pregnant and moved to another city.
At first, the couple lived happily.
Greg has a successful career and loves Blanche very much, which makes outsiders very envious.
No one could have imagined that such a man would bePUA Master
Greg quietly used various methods to isolate his wife on an isolated island where only he could.
First of all,He severed Blanche's connection to his family.
At first, Greg said that the company had arranged the transfer, and they had to move, far from Blanche's hometown.
By mistake, Blanche learned from her husband's colleague that it was Greg who took the initiative to apply for a job transfer.
After returning home, Blanche just wanted to ask what was going on, but he didn't expect Greg to be the first to attack
You want to leave, right?
You want to go back to your mom.
Then he changed his mind and said that he just loved Blanche too much.
Because Blanche's sister always has a negative influence on her, she wants to leave with Blanche.
Then he began to blame himself again, saying that everything was just because he was afraid of Blanche leaving, and said that he would resign immediately and accompany her home.
One set down, which made Blanche relent.
After that, every time Blanche wrote to his sister, Greg would pretend to be curious and read the contents of the letter aloud.
This makes it difficult for Blanche to write something intimate.
Secondly,Greg hinders Blanche's socialization to the maximum
He'll give Blanche a ** whenever he wants.
If the opponent doesn't pick it up in time, he will play until Blanche picks up.
He would tie her life to the children entirely, citing that he was busier than Blanche's work.
In this way, she does not have the opportunity to participate in other activities and meet other people.
He also insisted that Blanche take the school bus to and from work.
In this way, it is possible to accurately control the timing of Blanche's actions.
Later, Blanche's sister sent her a car.
Greg would use safety to strictly control the amount of refueling to restrict his wife's movements.
Finally,He also blocks Blanche mentally and emotionally
If Blanche is happy on the outside or dazzling among his friends, Greg says something disparaging about himself.
In order to sting Blanche and achieve the effect of making the other party compromise.
He will also threaten Blanche with his two children, making her kidnap her with her natural kindness and maternal love.
In this way, Greg gradually injected his suffocated feelings into all corners of Blanche's life, and then destroyed her spirit little by little.
One may ask:
When Greg first showed the lead, why didn't Blanche stop the loss in time?
Because, the most terrifying point of mind control in this kind of marriage isIn the name of love
One day, Greg heard on the radio about analyzing the characteristics of domestic abusers.
He felt that he had such a precursor, so he broke down and showed weakness to Blanche, dissecting that he might be a bad person.
Then he fell to his knees and begged Blanche not to give up his love for him and not to leave him.
But Blanche didn't give the reward he wanted.
So, Greg began to make reverse accusations:
It was your silence, your alienation, and your inconsiderate that killed me.
If you had the slightest love for me, you wouldn't let me treat you like that.
You must not love me so much that I became this monster.
In Greg's view, all of his violence is due to his unanswered love.
In fact, from the very beginning he showed a very controlling side.
It seems that on the night when the two first met, he asked the naked Blanche to walk up the stairs in the posture he wanted.
For example, when he saw Blanche's ex-boyfriend ** who had not had time to delete it on his phone, he would keep asking Blanche to tell the story of her last relationship.
It's like the two moved after marriage, and he took care of himself because he couldn't fit in the van, so he made Blanche give up his favorite dresser.
Including Blanche obviously didn't want the child after she became pregnant, but Greg deliberately ignored her emotions and proposed directly.
This kind of exclusivity was enjoyed by Blanche, who was in love at the time, and she didn't realize that it went too far.
Moreover, afterwards Greg will satisfy her in the form of making amends.
For example, the dresser, Greg secretly asked someone to move it back.
This behavior made Blanche feel surrounded by love.
When she reacted later, she found that she had fallen into a state of isolation.
But for the first time, I saw my situation from the outside, like a ruin.
In the end, Blanche, who had a nervous breakdown, chose to commit suicide to get rid of it.
Fortunately, the tragedy did not happen.
Blanche was rushed to the hospital in time for treatment.
The paramedics also saw from Blanche's reaction to Greg that she needed help.
So, with the help of the doctor and the female patients in the same ward, Blanche contacted her sister.
With their encouragement, Blanche chooses to face the pain of her marriage and seek legal help to start a new life of freedom.
Blanche is lucky, but not all women in real life can do that.
Do you still remember the two rural women in Guizhou who ran away from home a few years ago because they couldn't bear domestic violence?
is obviously a victim, but in the end because of the crime of bigamy broke the law.
The All-China Women's Federation has released a set of data:
230% of 700 million households experience domestic violence.
Every 7Within 4 seconds, a woman was subjected to domestic violence.
However, because of factors such as the difficulty of obtaining evidence, the ease of rejection, and the difficulty of being sentenced, these women who have suffered unbearable experiences have no other way.
In 2021, a law firm issued a report.
The data shows thatOf the 1,073 cases it selected, only 6 per cent were found to be domestic violence by the courts.
It is already so difficult to escape physical violence, let alone mental damage that cannot be seen or touched.
Fortunately, in recent years, with the progress of social concepts, the improvement of the judicial system, and the establishment of the welfare system, women in violence have greater possibilities to get out.
As the female lawyer who helped Blanche in the film said-
It's a war.
Hard. But as long as you persevere, there is hope for victory.