Before we got married, my husband and I were both office workers in the city. We met through a friend's introduction, and we quickly fell in love. After getting married, the husband proposed to go back to his hometown together for the New Year. I thought I could get along happily with my relatives, but I didn't expect to encounter embarrassment and embarrassment again and again.
What is going on with you, young man?Why don't the daughters-in-law who marry come back come home?"My husband's dad stared at me gravely.
I explained, slightly embarrassed, "We work in the city, and we can't put down what we're doing. ”
Hmph, what's so great about going to work, you see, our sons and daughters-in-law in the whole village are going home for the New Year. My husband's mother also made a fuss.
Yes, they all go home for the New Year, which is the real filial piety, and they haven't seen them come back for so many years, it's simply unfilial!Another relative also went along with the flow and expressed his opinion.
I listened silently, but there was some displeasure in my heart. My husband and I run around every day for life, how can we go home for the New Year with so much spare time. Although I was a little reluctant, I chose to remain silent.
Back in the city, my husband saw my displeasure. He asked me softly, "What's wrong, how do you feel a little wrong?".”
I let out a long sigh and told me all about today. "Why are they accusing me like that, aren't we also working hard for life?I said with some grievances.
My husband patted me on the shoulder and said, "Don't take it personally, they don't understand our efforts." Nor can we force ourselves to do things we don't want to do. ”
I nodded gloomily.
Suddenly, my husband received a ** from my mother-in-law, which turned out to be about my situation just now. Before hanging up**, my husband said to me: "I discussed with my mother, we won't go back for the New Year in the future, and she also understands our difficulties." ”
I looked at my husband with some surprise, but he smiled gently and said to me: "Since we have chosen to live in the city, we must have our own persistence and not be easily influenced by other people's words." ”
I looked at my husband's serious eyes, and I felt a warm current in my heart, as if I had support and courage.
Since then, we have chosen to spend the Chinese New Year in the city every year. My mother-in-law sometimes called ** to greet us and no longer forced us to go back for the New Year. Slowly, the relationship between me and my mother-in-law also became amiable. Once, she said to me: "You are a daughter-in-law who truly knows how to be filial, able to stick to her own choices and not be swayed by others." ”
I feel very happy and more determined in my choice. I know that not everyone can understand our lives, but I have the support of my husband and mother-in-law, and it is enough. Only by sticking to your original intention can you make your life more solid and happy.
Time flies, and such days have been going on for years. We settled down in the city and our lives became more regular. My husband worked hard, I took care of the housework and the children, and we supported each other through the ups and downs of life.
Once, my husband said to me, "Honey, the company is organizing a family gathering recently, do you think we can go this time?".I hesitated and said, "Go ahead, but don't do that again." My husband smiled and said, "Don't worry, I'll take care of it." ”
In the evening, I dressed up for the party, wearing my favorite dress with a touch of powder. When my husband saw me, he exclaimed, "Daughter-in-law, you are so beautiful, you must be the most beautiful in our family tonight." ”
When I arrived at the party, I relaxed slightly, it turned out that the atmosphere of this family gathering was very harmonious and everyone was very friendly. My husband and I participated in various activities together, talking to my colleagues' families and laughing a lot. Before I knew it, I noticed my mother-in-law watching us silently with a relieved smile on her face.
Suddenly, my mother-in-law came and took my hand and said, "Son, you are very beautiful tonight, and I can see that you are very thoughtful." It's not been easy these years, but you haven't complained, but have been persevering, it's not easy. I looked at my mother-in-law with some surprise, and I was a little overwhelmed by what she had said.
The mother-in-law said, "Actually, I have always understood how difficult your life in the city is. I blamed you at the time because I was emotionally out of control. But now I'm glad to see you all so happy. I couldn't help but tears welled up, and I held my mother-in-law's hand and said, "Thank you, mother-in-law, I will remember what you said." ”
After the party, back at home, my husband and I talked about how we felt tonight. My husband said: "My mother-in-law is really good for us, and it has not been easy for her all these years." I nodded and sighed, "Actually, sometimes we should empathize and understand the hardships of others, and maybe we will gain something." ”
This family reunion experience gave me a deeper understanding of my mother-in-law and made our family more harmonious. I know that no matter what difficulties we may encounter in the future, with the support and understanding of our families, we will be able to move forward and meet the challenges of life. Therefore, I will continue to guard this warmth and happiness.
The experience of this family gathering gave me a deeper understanding of my mother-in-law's heart, and also made our family relationship more harmonious. In the days that followed, the communication between me and my mother-in-law became smoother, and there was no longer a gap between us, but more understanding and understanding.
One day, my mother-in-law and I were sitting in the living room drinking tea and chatting. She suddenly spoke: "Son, I heard that you have performed well in the company, and the company has recently promoted you, right?"I nodded with a little surprise: "Yes, mother-in-law, I didn't expect you to know too." ”
The mother-in-law continued: "Child, it is not easy for you, I am very relieved that you have been silently sticking to it for so many years and never giving up. You are a good girl who is filial and sensible. I smiled a little embarrassedly and said, "Thank you for the compliment, mother-in-law." In fact, over the years, thanks to the support and encouragement that you and your husband have been all the way. ”
Yes, compared to me, a stubborn old lady, I am really glad that you can understand us and properly handle our marriage and family. My mother-in-law looked at me kindly and said. I quickly stood up and said, "Mother-in-law, these are all things I should do, you and your husband have worked hard for me for so many years, and I will always treat you well." ”
We chatted, and before we knew it, it was evening. The mother-in-law looked at the time and said, "Child, I don't want to delay you too long, you have to rest early." I hurriedly got up and sent my mother-in-law to the door. She patted my hand and said, "Child, you have worked hard all these years, come back to see me more in the future." Your family is the closest person to me, and I've always been worried that you have to take care of yourself and don't work too hard. ”
I smiled and nodded, promising my mother-in-law. Looking at her back after leaving, a warm feeling welled up in my heart. In this warm family, I feel happy and satisfied. No matter what kind of difficulties I will encounter in the future, I will have the confidence and courage to face them. Perhaps, the understanding and support of my family is the most important thing, and I will continue to protect this warmth and happiness.
That night, I sat quietly by the window, full of thoughts. My husband came over and asked with concern, "What's wrong, do you miss your mother?"I nodded and said, "Yes, this chat with my mother-in-law has made me understand many things between her and me. ”
My husband sat beside me, stroked my head, and comforted me softly: "Mother-in-law is a good person, but sometimes she is a little stubborn. But she has always cared about us and loved you. We all need to learn to understand and tolerate each other in order to make the family more harmonious. ”
I sighed softly: "Yes, in fact, my mother-in-law has also paid a lot for us over the years. The husband added: "Yes, she sometimes has her own difficulties and difficulties. I nodded silently, feeling more grateful and understanding.
Then, my husband said again, "Well, Mom said that she was going to invite our family to her side for a visit, and she said she wanted to get the whole family together." My eyes lit up suddenly, and I looked at my husband with emotion and said, "Really?".She hasn't been back for so long, how can she be so filial to our whole family?”
My husband smiled and said, "We must go this time, my mother attaches great importance to this party, and I think she also hopes that our whole family can be more united." I nodded, my heart warm, and there was an inexplicable touch.
In the following days, my husband and I began to pack our family and prepare to go to our hometown to visit my mother-in-law and relatives. I know that this time I went back, not only for my mother-in-law, but also for our family, for that perseverance and perseverance.
Finally, our family set out on the road back to their hometown. Back at my hometown, my mother-in-law was waiting for us at the station early. Seeing her kind smiling face, my heart was filled with emotion and sincere emotion.
My mother-in-law put her arms around me and said happily, "Child, you are finally here, I am in such a hurry." I've made you a big dinner tonight, and we'll get together as a family. Hearing this, I looked at my mother-in-law's smiling face, tears welled up in my eyes, and I hugged my mother-in-law tightly, unable to say a word.
This time back to our hometown, our whole family was happy, and time seemed to freeze in this warm reunion. My mother-in-law silently cared about everyone, and there was a lot of communication and understanding between us. I will always cherish this warmth and happiness in my heart and guard the warmth of this home. This gathering also brought our family closer together. No matter what challenges we face in the future, we will face them with greater confidence, because our family will always be our most solid support.