Hu, a 68-year-old female, is 175 meters, enjoys a pension of 1,000 yuan per month, and currently lives with his son. She describes herself as a rather loose woman.
Hu said that she is not good at cooking, so she hopes to find a wife who can cook and has a good character. The other person's appearance is not the focus of her consideration, she thinks that as long as the other person can cook and has a kind heart, she can accept it.
Hu also mentioned that remarriage requires a bride price. Soon, the matchmaker introduced her to a man named Yu, who was also 68 years old, who not only knew how to cook but was also willing to provide a bride price.
Yu is a divorced man who owns a home but has no pension. He runs his own shop and earns between 80,000 and 90,000 yuan a year.
Yu believes that it is only happy to have a wife in his later years, even if he earns more money, he will feel imperfect without a partner. When asked if his children support remarriage, he said that his daughter is married and works in the workplace and cannot be with him often, so he hopes to find a wife to take care of each other, so that his daughter can also feel at ease.
After the matchmaker learned that Yu's daughter supported him to remarry, she felt relieved. When asked about Yu's requirements for choosing a mate, he emphasized the importance of good health and living a sincere life. He claims to have a good temper and is usually tolerant of each other. At the same time, he also showed that he was able to accept women who asked for a bride price.
The matchmaker's idea of praising Yu is unique, as most men are disgusted by the woman's request for a bride price.
Yu insisted that when looking for a lifelong partner, he had to show sincerity. He said that the bride price of $350,000 was considered to him to be only a small part.
Therefore, the matchmaker believes that one of these two people asks for a bride price, and the other is willing to pay the bride price, which is expected to resonate in the relationship. So, she arranged for the two to meet to get to know each other better.
When they met for the first time, Yu felt that Hu's height was relatively high, which brought him some pressure. However, he reflected that in addition to his height, Hu performed well in other aspects, especially fair-skinned, gentle and considerate. Yu expressed his hope to have a deeper understanding of Hu.
After the matchmaker learned that Yu had a good impression of Hu, she asked Hu how he felt about him. Hu emphasized that she pays attention to character, as long as the two can communicate happily, she doesn't mind each other's appearance at all.
Subsequently, the two sat down to chat, and Yu took the initiative to share the reason for his divorce, accusing his ex-wife of being too strong and always controlling the family's finances, which led to constant quarrels between the two over money issues.
After listening to this story, Hu said that she did not care about Yu's financial situation, she liked men to play a leading role in the family, and she hoped to live a relaxed life and did not want to worry too much about trivial matters.
Yu is satisfied with this because he is reluctant to involve women too much in financial management. Hu added that she is not good at housework, especially cooking, and she is unable to entertain three or five guests if they visit.
Yu said in a relaxed mood that he has been single for many years, and cooking and laundry are commonplace for him, so he doesn't have to worry about these things at all.
At this moment, Hu suddenly proposed to remarry and emphasized the need for a certain bride price. Yu asked curiously about the amount of the bride price, but he didn't expect Hu's request to be 100,000. At this point, his expression was a little difficult to describe, because the amount was far beyond his expectations. He was originally willing to give some dowry, but he didn't expect Hu to ask for so much directly.
In response to Mou's troubled expression, Hu explained that she didn't need the money for her own use, but wanted to help her son. After hearing this, Yu Mou found it even more difficult to accept, thinking that if it was to help his son, it would be too much to talk about the bride price. He stressed that he was willing to provide living expenses and pocket money, but he felt incomprehensible about the 100,000 bride price request.
Yu said bluntly that this is not like looking for a wife, but like a business transaction. He insisted that such a clear price tag was not suitable for finding a partner, especially when Hu was no longer young and did not need to worry about fertility problems. He questioned why such an unreasonable demand was made, arguing that the bride price of 100,000 yuan was completely unnecessary.
In a blind date, the dialogue between Hu and Yu revealed a huge difference in family concept and outlook on life. Hu's son's gnawing behavior caused Yu's disgust, and he thought that such a family was like a bottomless pit, which made people feel insatiable.
Hu expressed puzzlement about a certain point of view, thinking that he had given all the money to his son, and it was the same whether his son spent it or not. After hearing this, Yu decided not to talk to Hu anymore.
The blind date between the two ended in failure because of the bride price of 100,000 yuan. Hu hopes that the other party has a good character and knows how to cook, while Yu attaches importance to the other party's health and sincere attitude. However, during the conversation, Hu proposed to give a bride price of 100,000 yuan, and said that it would be used to subsidize his son's family. Yu felt unsatisfied because of Hu's son's gnawing behavior, and thought that such a family was a bottomless pit, which led to the failure of the two parties to understand each other. February** Dynamic Incentive Program
Personal evaluation: Yu seems very sensible, thinking that after becoming a family, children still need their parents to take money to spend on the elderly, and such a person will bring a lot of trouble. Hu seems to be too spoiled in his treatment of his son, maybe he should let go and understand that his children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, instead of thinking about his son everywhere. What do you think of this situation?