The lady in front of her, Sun, is 52 years old and is still single, her family background is rooted in the countryside, and she makes a living by cultivating the land and raising chickens, ducks and cattle, and her annual net income barely reaches 20,000 yuan. She lives with her brother, who is also celibate.
Sun has a deep relationship with her younger brother, and she said that her parents died early, and it can be said that she raised her younger brother single-handedly.
The matchmaker curiously asked, why was she unmarried when she was young? Sun took a deep breath and admitted that there was an important reason why she was celibate so far.
What is the reason for the matchmaker? Sun thought for a moment and revealed that when she was young, she was as beautiful as a flower, and her body was as high as 163 meters, wearing high heels, he looks taller, slim, and fair-skinned. This made many rural boys fall in love with her, however, she longed to marry in the city. For those rural guys, she didn't think about it.
The matchmaker further asked, did the people in the city pursue her? Sun admitted frankly that there are indeed people, but they are either mediocre in appearance or in poor condition. Although some conditions are good, they are disgusted with her family's financial situation, and even ask to take care of her younger brother with her.
Sun recalled that she had decided to stop looking for a partner because of her arrogance, but as the years went by, she felt that her days had become lonely and her desire to find a partner reappeared.
Under the matchmaker's inquiry, Sun expressed her desire to remarry, she hoped to find someone from the city, preferably with a pension, so as to have some financial security. In addition, she insisted that the other party be able to provide a bride price, which was a kind of requirement she had for herself, because she had never experienced marriage, and she did not want a bride price to make her feel sorry for herself.
Sun explained that as she grew older, she felt that life had become more lonely. She had already built three rooms in the countryside, so she decided not to take her brother with her. The matchmaker quickly introduced her to a man named Huang.
Huang is a 65-year-old man from the city, with a pension of 3,100 yuan a month and a one-bedroom house. He diligently picks up mineral water bottles and cans for sale, showing his diligence and frugality.
Under the arrangement of the matchmaker, Sun and Huang met. The two began to talk directly, and Sun asked about Huang's marital status. Huang admitted that he was a widow, and he had never been married since he was widowed, and he had a son who settled in another province. He hopes to find a good partner through blind dates to accompany him through his old age.
Sun also expressed similar thoughts, and the two began to talk freely. Sun asked Huang with concern whether he had a fixed income, and Huang said that he had purchased social security and had a pension of 3,100 yuan per month. He usually lives frugally, and he also likes to pick up bottles and cans to sell, and can earn a few hundred extra yuan.
In the similar living conditions of the two, Sun was deeply inspired after hearing this, and she admitted frankly that in the city, an income of 3,000 yuan a month is already a basic economic level.
Next, Sun asked Huang a question: If the two are together, is Huang willing to pay a certain bride price? Huang bluntly said that since the two are together, he is willing to be responsible for her living expenses, occasionally buy some clothes and supplies, and feel that it is not necessary to use the money for other purposes.
Sun also mentioned that he had never been married in his life, but Huang did not show sympathy, and admitted that she was 52 years old, and being unmarried could not change anything. He believes that when he gets old, he only needs to accompany each other, and he doesn't have to deliberately continue the family incense.
Sun was dissatisfied with Huang's answer, thinking that it was a matter of course for a man to give a bride price to a woman, but Huang did not have the awareness of this, she felt that he was too stingy.
The matchmaker tried to persuade Sun, pointing out that Huang had already provided her with food and drink, and her life was relatively stable, and suggested that she think about it. Sun insisted on asking for a bride price of at least 60,000 yuan, otherwise he would not consider continuing.
The matchmaker conveyed Sun's request to Huang, who was very disgusted by it and thought she was too calculating. He bluntly said that Sun's appearance was just ordinary, but he was too arrogant. He even said that even if he did not ask for a bride price, he would no longer be interested in her.
In the end, the blind date between the two ended in failure. Sun failed to write a marriage chapter in her life, and her dreams of being a city in her youth were disappointed, and now when she pursues an elderly partner, she has become more demanding in life, insisting that a stable income and bride price are the conditions she is willing to compromise. February** Dynamic Incentive Program
Huang disagreed, he thought that when the two were together, it was enough to simply eat and drink. He didn't understand Sun's concept and felt that in his old age, he didn't have to stick too much to the traditional concepts of bride price. This scene reflects the different views of the two parties on marriage and life, and triggers a disagreement between them.