Hello, my name is Zhu Dabao!
I don't get angry with people about the films I made, without the past, I don't have the future me. ”
To this day, ** is still the most controversial actor in the entertainment industry, but this girl who is not very good at the beginning has achieved her current achievements, which still inspires me.
First, don't explain。Mother gave birth to her when she was 18 years old, because she was too young and didn't know how to discipline **, she would beat and scold her when she was angry, and the most she heard from her mother was, how could anyone look as ugly as you?
She chose to run away from home, started modeling in a daze before she was a minor, and began to make money to support herself. He became famous at the age of 19 and reached the podium at the age of 20.
The reporter asked her, why didn't you cry when you won the award? She said, why are you crying? I should be happy when I win the award, I just have to laugh! I don't want to go around talking about how miserable I am, and it's difficult for people to be anywhere when they're in trouble.
The unfortunate person has spent his whole life in **childhood,** such a person. When she was 20 years old, she understood that everyone was in a different position and position, and it was difficult to understand each other's thoughts and choices, so she never explained, and if she didn't shoot, she would have to pay a huge amount of money.
Second, not reluctantly。The 29-year-old ** wants to get married, but is told by Liming that our family can't accept your past. Seven years of affection can't withstand the rhetoric of the outside world. On the most painful days, she went to see a psychiatrist.
Later, he fell in love with Zhang Zhen, but he was also told by Zhang Zhen's father that Zhang Zhen would never marry such a woman. But in 2015, ** still attended Zhang Zhen's wedding with blessings, and said that I am a good friend who came to bless me.
Life is like this, when you blindly put your expectations on others, they will never make you feel better. So later ** learned to love her imperfect self, she said that the best mentality of an adult is not reluctant and no expectations, she chose to lower her expectations and keep her love.
Third, no regrets。** Never shy away from her history of stardom, she will never regret what she has done. won the Academy Award at the age of 20, stepped into Hollywood at the age of 25, and won the Golden Horse Award at the age of 30. She said, I have never been afraid of my life, because no matter what, I will fight back to my original form, and I don't have to care what others think or say.
It sounds a bit pessimistic, but I just saw her wisdom and open-mindedness. In life, there are two kinds of things to do as little as possible, one is to interfere with other people's lives with your own mouth, and the other is to rely on other people's brains to think about your own life.
This world is not in the hands of those who ridicule, but precisely in the hands of those who can withstand ridicule and criticism and keep moving forward.
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