A 48 year old man falls in love with a 23 year old barbershop employee, why does the old bachelor lo

Mondo Three rural Updated on 2024-02-12

"I'm forty-eight years old, about the same age as your father. Are you sure you want to marry me? " "It doesn't matter, as long as you're willing to spend it for me. "

Nan Jianping fell into the trap of buying love with money, and his sweetheart Lixia was actually a man dressed as **. A male shaver and a female makeup in the bedroom reveal the truth.

How did this happen? Why did Nan Jianping mistake Lixia for a woman? The answer to all this awaits the investigation of **.

Nan Jianping's third aunt called the police because she suspected that Nan Jianping had suffered emotional fraud. Nan Jianping provided clues, and the police quickly found him"Girlfriend"。However, when the police met"Girlfriend"There was a hint of surprise in their expressions.

It turned out that Nan Jianping's"Girlfriend"It's a real man named Kong Linggao, not Lixia.

Old Hannan Jianping's life experience is incredible, his girlfriend actually became his brother, and the "crystallization of love" in his mouth is full of drama.

It all stems from Nan Jianping's wishful thinking and almost paranoid pursuit. Since 2010, in order to learn the craft to make a living, Nan Jianping apprenticed to learn hairdressing, and after a period of study, he opened a small shop and became the owner.

However, in the process, his relationship with Kong Linggao changed drastically and became an incredible farce.

Kong Linggao's barber shop is thriving day by day because of its exquisite craftsmanship. However, with the opening of several new barber shops in the vicinity, business gradually declined. At this moment, a mysterious guest, Nan Jianping, suddenly arrived.

Nan Jianping has been silently paying attention to Kong Linggao in his heart, and every time he passes by his barber shop, Nan Jianping's heart will have an inexplicable throbbing. However, despite all the thoughts in his heart, Nan Jianping never had the courage to push open the door.

Until one day, he passed by there again and found that the once lively storefront was now deserted, and Kong Linggao's face had lost its former joy, replaced by a deep loneliness.

Seeing his beloved so sad, Nan Jianping decided not to hesitate any longer, dusted off the dirt on his body, and finally mustered up the courage to push open the door of the barbershop.

Nan Jianping looked at his dirty hair, Kong Linggao had some doubts in his heart, but he still asked politely, "Do you need to cut your hair?" Nan Jianping was excited and nodded.

Gao Meijun stood up and prepared to wash his hair, but there were no other customers in the store, and it was noon, so Kong Linggao asked Gao Meijun to buy lunch while he washed and cut Nan Jianping's hair.

Kong Linggao and Gao Meijun wash their hair in the barbershop, which is a small thing in their daily lives. But for Nan Jianping, he saw it as an opportunity for Kong Linggao to create alone for them, which made Nan Jianping very happy.

Taking advantage of the gap between washing his hair, Nan Jianping took the initiative to find a topic to chat with Kong Linggao, and Kong Linggao responded politely. Nan Jianping's hair was cut quickly, but he was reluctant to leave in order to chat with Kong Linggao more.

He inquired about Kong Linggao's various information, and it was not until Gao Meijun came back with lunch that he reluctantly left the barbershop.

Nan Jianping continued to pester, and two days later he visited Kong Linggao's barber shop again. This time, he offered to try a massage service, but there was no such service in the shop, and there were other customers at the same time.

Although Kong Linggao refused his request, Nan Jianping did not leave immediately, but found a spot in the store and stared at Kong Linggao intently. Nan Jianping's fiery gaze made Kong Linggao feel uncomfortable, but he couldn't open his mouth to let Nan Jianping leave for the sake of the store's business.

Kong Linggao was puzzled by Nan Jianping's curiosity about his family situation, and at the same time, he was also puzzled by Nan Jianping's repeated proposals to introduce blind dates. However, these questions were soon answered, as Nan Jianping confessed to Kong Linggao.

Kong Linggao was not surprised by Nan Jianping's behavior of treating himself as a woman, because he was used to it. During his studies in Fenyang, Kong Linggao was often mistaken for a yellow flower girl due to his fair-skinned ** and fashionable dress, but he didn't have time to explain too much.

Nan Jianping's confession to Kong Linggao was directly rejected by Kong Linggao and said some ugly things. In Kong Linggao's view, this is a clear refusal, but in Nan Jianping's view, this is just a quarrel between couples in love.

Therefore, even though Kong Linggao refused many times, Nan Jianping still insisted and frequently visited Kong Linggao's barbershop.

In 2010, Nan Jianping was 48 years old, while Kong Linggao was only 23 years old. Nan Jianping asked Kong Linggao for a relationship, but Kong Linggao came up with a way to trick him.

She proposed that if Nan Jianping was willing to give her 500 yuan, she would agree to be his girlfriend. Nan Jianping unexpectedly agreed to this rude request and gave her five hundred yuan without hesitation.

The next day, Nan Jianping gave Kong Linggao 500 yuan in cash. Kong Linggao looked at the scattered money on the table and was so surprised that he couldn't close his mouth, because this was the entire profit of his barbershop for a month.

Still, he easily got the money with just one sentence. So, Kong Linggao had a conspiracy in his heart, planning how to skillfully repay Nan Jianping.

He put 500 yuan in cash into his pocket, and then became Nan Jianping's "girlfriend".

Although Nan Jianping is over half a hundred years old, this is his first love, so he cherishes it very much. He treats Kong Linggao like his own baby, delivers the best things in the family to her, and constantly provides her with financial support.

With the support of money, the relationship between the two is going well, and Nan Jianping has a happy smile on his face every day, which makes his parents also notice their strangeness.

One night in December 2010, when Nan Jianping returned home, his parents had an in-depth conversation with him. Facing his elderly parents, Nan Jianping confessed his relationship with Kong Linggao, and said that as long as his parents could give him 3,000 yuan, they would get married as soon as possible.

When Nan Jianping's parents learned that their son was dating a woman who was 25 years old, they felt that the situation was not simple and decided that their son might have been deceived. Nan Jianping's mother resolutely refused his request for money and asked him to break up with Kong Linggao.

However, Nan Jianping was bent on marrying his sweetheart, and did not hesitate to raise 3,000 yuan. However, Kong Linggao never had the idea of marrying Nan Jianping, and only wanted to defraud money from him.

So, why did Nan Jianping call Kong Linggao "Lixia" instead of his real name? Is there any special meaning behind the name "Lixia"? In fact, Nan Jianping misunderstood the source of this pregnancy from beginning to end, he thought that he was pregnant with Kong Linggao's child after he caught a cold, and the name "Lixia" was given to Kong Linggao.

It all goes back to the third time Nan Jianping went to the barbershop. As the end of the year approached, business in the store fell into a slump again as workers returned home. At this time, Nan Jianping walked into the barber shop again.

He repeatedly asked Kong Linggao if he could provide massage services to create an opportunity to spend time with Kong Linggao. Although his hair had been cut short, massage became Nam Jianping's only reasonable reason to go to the barbershop.

Nan Jianping pushed the door in without hesitation, and although the high price made him hesitate, he still took out thirty yuan with a smile on his face and put it on the cashier table of the barbershop.

Although Kong Linggao has no knowledge of massage, he can only muster up the courage to press indiscriminately in the face of the client's request. However, Nan Jianping's mind was not on massage, he kept talking to Kong Linggao, trying to find common ground.

When Kong Linggao mentioned that his parents had passed away and his sister Xiaoli had married, Nan Jianping asked eagerly: "So is your name Lixia?" Kong Linggao didn't respond, but only vaguely changed the topic, which made Nan Jianping firmly believe that his name was Lixia, a girl with a tragic family background, and his heart couldn't help but be full of sympathy for him.

Under Nan Jianping's relentless pursuit and a huge amount of five hundred yuan, the relationship between the two quickly warmed up and became boyfriend and girlfriend.

Kong Linggao caught a cold because of the sudden drop in temperature, and his stomach hurt unbearably because he ate bad things. When he coughed, he couldn't help but hold his hand down on his stomach. This action was seen by Nan Jianping, although Kong Linggao looked very painful, but Nan Jianping was full of joy, he firmly believed that his girlfriend was pregnant with his own child.

Nan Jianping immediately pushed the door in, approached Kong Linggao's ear, and asked him if he was pregnant. Hearing this ridiculous idea, Kong Linggao was taken aback, but his reaction seemed to Nan Jianping like a girl's shyness, which was a normal reaction.

Therefore, for the sake of his children, Nan Jianping is more concerned about Kong Linggao.

Nan Jianping saw the "business opportunity" with Kong Linggao from the hot ** on the Internet, so he decided to go home and persuade his parents to marry Kong Linggao. When Kong Linggao told him that he was going to marry Nan Jianping, Nan Jianping was deeply happy and completely ignored the authenticity of Kong Linggao's words.

Because when the two first met, Kong Linggao had already told Nan Jianping that her parents had died. However, Nan Jianping, who fell in love, has forgotten all this. Kong Linggao went home, although Nan Jianping did not go together, he missed Kong Linggao day and night.

Within two days, Nan Jianping received a text message from Kong Linggao.

Nan Jianping originally thought that he could get the blessing of Kong Linggao's parents, but after opening the message, he felt mixed emotions. It turned out that Kong Linggao's parents not only did not support the two getting married, but also took everything he had and asked them to break off their relationship.

However, Kong Linggao is deeply in love with Nan Jianping, and he hopes that Nan Jianping can fund him 3,000 yuan so that they can elope and start a new life together.

Nan Jianping received a love message from Kong Linggao and was deeply moved. He decided to exchange three thousand yuan for Kong Linggao's freedom. However, Nan Jianping's parents did not approve of his marriage to Kong Linggao, so he borrowed money from relatives around him.

However, the 3,000 yuan was not exchanged for his girlfriend, but was told that the child was gone because of heavy bleeding. Nan Jianping fell into chaos as a result. In order to raise money, he found his third aunt, hoping to transfer 2,000 yuan again in order to marry Kong Linggao.

I know you're trying to cheat money, and if you can return the money you got now, this can be over. If you don't, I can only call the police. Faced with the sudden appearance of the third aunt, Kong Linggao's answer was always flickering, so the third aunt called the police, which was the beginning of the police coming to the door.

When the truth was revealed, not only Nan Jianping was shocked, but even his third aunt was shocked. It turned out that Kong Linggao was no different from a woman in appearance, all because of his disguise and elaborate conspiracy, which allowed him to successfully defraud Nan Jianping of his money.

But the good times did not last long, Kong Linggao was arrested by the public security organs and assumed criminal responsibility. Nan Jianping woke up from this beautiful dream, but this farce made us think more deeply about love and fantasy.

Some people think that Nan Jianping is confused, but in real life, many people lose the most basic judgment of things because they are intoxicated with love, pin their hopes on unrealistic fantasies, and lose themselves in the illusory world.

Love is a precious treasure, however, everything must be based on honesty, and both parties in love need to respect and understand each other, not one party's endless demands.

When there is a problem in love, we cannot rely solely on sacrificing ourselves to sustain ourselves, but should focus on solving the problem. Short-term evasion is only the illusion that the problem disappears temporarily, and if one party always chooses to avoid and reject when faced with a problem, then the other party must attach great importance to it.

Only in this way can we improve the happiness of our marriage and reduce the risk of marital unhappiness.

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