Li Mei and her husband Wang Qiang have been married for 5 years, and when they first started their newlywed Yan'er, Wang Qiang was very good to Li Mei, giving her brand-name bags, and always taking her out to eat delicious food on weekends. Li Mei thought that she had found the other half of her life and would live a happy life in the future.
In the first year after marriage, Wang Qiang was busy with work and often went home late for socializing. Li Mei was waiting for him at home alone, and she was still aggrieved and wondered if he didn't love me anymore. Later, Wang Qiang explained that for work, Li Mei didn't say anything more.
In the second year, Wang Qiang began to be anxious about his career development, often stayed up late to work, and his temper became irritable. Li Mei's cooking is often criticized for not being delicious, and she loses her temper at every turn, and Li Mei is so frightened that she doesn't dare to say anything.
In the third year, Wang Qiang began to travel frequently, and he was away from home for half of the month. Li Mei often turned off his phone when he called **, and asked him if he was in **, and he brought it perfunctorily. Li Mei felt that Wang Qiang might be too busy with work, and she had to be considerate of him.
In the fourth year, Wang Qiang rarely talked to Li Mei except for quarrels, and went home to sleep directly. One day, Li Mei received a ** from Wang Qiang's colleague, saying that Wang Qiang had a woman outside. Li Mei was shocked and couldn't believe it, but all signs indicated that Wang Qiang did have another woman outside.
Li Mei's heart was like a knife, and she thought that she would step into this situation. After talking to Wang Qiang a few times, Wang Qiang didn't admit his mistake at all, and Li Mei's tears couldn't get him a little apology.
In the fifth year, Li Mei finally mustered up the courage to divorce Wang Qiang. Wang Qiang strongly objected, but his attitude was still very bad. Only then did Li Mei realize that she had lived in a dream for too long, and this was not the married life she imagined.
After this incident, Li Mei learned not to trust men's rhetoric easily. A person's essence does not change, and it is the same in the end. Now Li Mei is doing well, and Wang Qiang is still doing his own thing.
Life goes on, there is still a long way to go, and Li Mei knows that she will meet better people. She no longer believes in the false promises of men, only in their real actions. To love someone is to give, not to plunder. When a person gives more than he receives, it is true love. Li Mei will eventually find true love, but not Wang Qiang.
It's very important not to lose yourself in sweet words. In this world, there are too many people who are good at using beautiful words to disguise their true intentions.
Therefore, we need to learn to distinguish between appearance and essence, and always be wary of sinful rhetoric. It is only through continuous practice and experience accumulation that we can better grasp this ability to discriminate.
In interpersonal interactions, we need to maintain a vigilant heart. Don't easily trust other people's promises and assurances, and don't make bad decisions on the spur of the moment. Only by going through ups and downs can we see the true face of a person.
In this process, we need to keep learning and growing, and constantly improve our cognitive ability and judgment.
It is very important for every woman to find happiness that truly belongs to her. Happiness is not given by others, but earned by oneself through hard work and struggle.
We need to maintain an independent personality, not to rely too much on others, and not to pin our own happiness on others. Only by strengthening our beliefs and bravely pursuing our dreams can we find happiness that truly belongs to us.
It is very important to keep a clear head and an independent personality. In interpersonal communication, we need to learn to distinguish between truth and falsehood, and not be confused by sweet words.
At the same time, we also need to maintain a grateful heart, cherish the people and things around us, and feel the beauty of life with our hearts. May every woman find happiness that truly belongs to her.