Without these three trump cards, don't file for divorce easily.
Freedom to marry, freedom to divorce. Born free, but always in chains. The same is true for marriage. If you want to be free, you have to pay a price. Women tend to be more vulnerable than men when marriages break down. Remember, without these three trump cards, don't file for divorce lightly.
First of all, the trump card is confidence, the confidence that does not depend on everyone, the confidence that is not afraid of losing, and the confidence that dares to say no.
The first trump card is an independent personality. You need to think independently, live independently, and control your emotions. If you're just looking for the next ** person and don't have an independent personality, you still won't be happy.
Marriage is about both parties attracting each other, growing together, and accomplishing better things for each other so that it can last for a long time. And divorce is for freedom, not for the next blind relationship. If you don't have this standalone personality card, you'll end up making the same mistakes again.
The second trump card is to be able to give children from single-parent families a good life. After the divorce. They are all free and happy, but the children return to their single parents and become single-parent families. Naturally, they lack the care of one of their parents. Can you pay more attention and take care of your child? Can you handle your child's psychological, life, and educational problems? If you can do both, then the card you have won't be an excuse not to get divorced.
The third trump card is money. It sounds tacky, but financial ability, the ability to create wealth, will always be your corresponding trump card. If you leave each other, you lose your economic **, which is definitely a flaw. Either you have a strong mother's backing, or you have the ability to make money on your own, or even worse, you still have the property that your family will share after the divorce, so this third trump card is particularly important.
In the end, if the feelings are given to the wrong person, you can only count the scars in the middle of the night. Marriage is not everything to you. Only by nurturing you and nurturing you well can you become the architect of your own happiness.