As the vast majority of girls, they definitely want their boyfriends to put their feelings first, and to be able to give themselves enough tolerance and generosity when faced with marriage.
My boyfriend and I became boyfriend and girlfriend eight years ago, when we were still college classmates, and the love on campus often makes people feel very yearning and envy, and it is precisely because my boyfriend and I are classmates that our relationship with each other has enough foundation to go through 8 years.
However, my relationship with my boyfriend didn't come to fruition, and eventually we both broke up and I embarked on a blind date.
After graduation, my boyfriend and I worked hard in the city together, because the economic conditions of both of us at that time were not very good, and we didn't want to rely on our parents, so the period just after graduation was our most difficult time, and later, with the gradual increase in income, that period of time laid a solid foundation for our relationship, and my boyfriend and I also understood the truth of bitterness before sweetness.
I thought I could go all the way to the end with my boyfriend, but in the past eight years, my boyfriend has never taken the initiative to marry me, as a girl, I naturally want a home and home, I have expressed to my boyfriend more than once that I want to get married, but my boyfriend gave me an account, he said that we should prepare a car and a house for marriage, and having a child after marriage is a huge expense, and there must be a person who can't go to work at that time.
And the boyfriend also said that he didn't want to rely on his parents.
But when I was young, I was full of infinite yearning for love, and I naturally believed in my boyfriend's words.
Otherwise, I wouldn't have waited eight years for him.
As a girl, how many eight years are there in this life? And when I was in my 20s, it was the most beautiful age for a girl, so I could see how much I loved my boyfriend.
However, eight years have passed, and my boyfriend still hasn't been able to achieve his original ideal state, and in the end, if it weren't for my insistence, my boyfriend would still be unwilling to get married.
But when our two families discussed the bride price, the attitude of my boyfriend's family was so ambiguous, my family's request was not high, only 60,000 yuan of bride price, you know, in our local area, at least 120,000 bride price.
But even so, the boyfriend's family, including the boyfriend, did not give a positive answer, and the boyfriend even said that he had to think about it, and he didn't want to affect his parents because of his marriage.
Hearing my boyfriend say this, I was extremely disappointed in my heart.
It's just that my boyfriend's family is reluctant to give a bride price, because I want to live with my boyfriend for the rest of my life after I get married, but my boyfriend's attitude obviously shows that he doesn't care about me so much, and with him, can I really reap happiness?
In addition, I am no longer a little girl at this time, and I am also a lot more rational about love, and in the end, I waited for my boyfriend for a week, but he still didn't reply to me, so I proposed to break up.
After breaking up with my boyfriend, I embarked on a blind date, and soon, a man came into my sight, he was much better than his ex-boyfriend in all aspects, and soon we got married, and after getting married, he also cared about me, I now feel that my married life is very happy, and as for my ex-boyfriend, until now, he is still single.