As the old saying goes: "Zhihu became stupid, but at that moment he was like a mortal." This phrase is used to describe a person's ability to achieve great things. Yes. Do you know what qualities they have?
Lu Xun has shown a very serious attitude towards learning since he was a child. At that time, he was a student at the Jiangnan Naval Academy and received a medal from the school for good results in the first semester. However, he soon took the medallion to the street and sold it, and used the money from the sale of the medal to buy several books and a large amount of red peppers. The function of chili pepper is that when reading a book on a cold night, chewing chili pepper to ward off the cold, it is so spicy that your forehead sweats. In this way, he insisted on reading at night, increased his knowledge, and eventually became a great literary man of my country.
The road to success is full of difficulties and **, but a person with self-control will not be swayed by his own desires. They can be ruthless and use the harshest methods to control themselves. While the process is painful, the results can be amazing. The process is certainly painful, and few people can be so strict with themselves. Ordinary people would rather be satisfied with the happiness they have now than achieve happiness in the second half of their lives through the efforts of the first half of their lives.
Mencius Li Rushang wrote: "If you can win the world and win the hearts of the people, you will win the world; If you can win the hearts of the people, and if you win the hearts of the people, you will win the world", which means that you can. The hearts of the people can win the world. In today's society, relationships and resources are also essential if you want to be successful. If we look at the reality, we will find that many people's success is not through their own efforts, but through mutual cooperation, mutual benefit, market expansion, and long-term development. To do this, emotional intelligence is even more important, using words and actions to attract others, make others happy, and appropriately create a win-win situation that benefits both parties, and I know how to do it. If you do, others will naturally be more willing to help.
Pan Shaoting, known as the "Queen of Nine Balls", trained in her father's billiards hall when she was 15 years old and stayed for four years. Accommodation in the field is very simple, with only a single bed and a wardrobe. For four years, Ms. Pan trained 8 to 12 hours a day, with only half a day off a week. Despite feeling unwell, she managed to finish the day's training. In the past four years, Pan Xiaoting has endured loneliness and practiced her skills hard, not only winning numerous championships, but also becoming the first world champion of Chinese billiards.
Life is fair. How you handle your time determines how your time is rewarded. Just like a cicada wants to metamorphose, it must live in dark soil for three or five years, endure loneliness and loneliness, before it can fly to the branches. Faith is like a soul that moves through life and becomes a three-dimensional label. The more great things are, the more positive they are to accept the arrival of each day, to cherish and love life, to respect time, to know how to be in harmony with time, to be one with space, and to embrace all aspects of life. .Making better use of things has become easier. Opportunity. In order to be successful, you must be well prepared before adopting all the ways and means that affect the end result. Being well-prepared reduces the risk of failure and brings you one step closer to success.
There is an idiom called "hard work makes up for shortcomings", which means that even if your talent is mediocre, as long as you put in the effort, you will definitely achieve something. No matter how smart you are, if you don't work hard, don't get motivated, and don't work hard, you may end up reaching the limits of your intelligence and achieving nothing. Hard work is the key to success. Because success is bought by sweat. If people are too indulgent and do not take practical actions, and only pursue pleasure and comfort, even if they have dreams, it will be difficult to achieve them. Therefore, if you want to get something, you need to rely on your own efforts, and you will get a great sense of accomplishment and happiness after success. In Gu Long's martial arts ** "The Sword of the Three Princes", Xie Xiaofeng once said, "If you practice swords for three years, you will be invincible, and if you practice swords for ten years, you will be invincible." Successful people have one thing: they have a humble heart and are in awe not only of the world, but of their enemies. No matter what industry you are in, you will face competition, and when you compete, you will naturally have opponents. Opponents are used to learning, strong opponents give us a sense of crisis and urgency, but at the same time we can learn from them a lot of advantages that we don't have.
Sun Tzu's Art of War says that the three precepts of successful people are: no greed, no anger, and no rashness. Greed is like a snake swallowing an elephant, so even if you are smart, you work hard, do not act quickly, and always only pursue your desires. But how many people can actually do it? If a person does not know how to control his desires, he will become a villain and will not be able to achieve great things. The human heart is the most difficult to see directly, and the Buddha and the demon only have one thought. Once you get caught up in desire, you can't turn back. Lust is like the sea. The more you drink, the thirstier you get. Everyone has desires, and while moderate desires can motivate us to move forward, overly heavy desires will only end up reaping their own consequences. Only those who know how to restrain their desires can achieve something.
Today's society is so devastated, and many people become inhumane in pursuit of profit. That's why, out of millions of people, only a few are truly successful. People who can accomplish truly great things know that they should not show malice in front of friends and rivals. Therefore, sometimes we choose to make mistakes ourselves, and at the same time we want to save face for others, even our opponents. There are no eternal friends, and there are no eternal enemies; Sometimes the difference between a friend and an enemy is whether or not you can save face. They don't necessarily become friends, but they generally don't become mortal enemies unless the other party loses face and harbors a deep hatred, but once they are seen as enemies and lose face, they will not hesitate to break with them. All cooperation can be undermined and potentially dangerous.
In short, they are meticulous people who don't let go of any details. As the saying goes: "The embankment of a thousand miles is decided by the ant nest." "Sometimes, it's not the big decisions that ruin a thing, it's the little things. Details are key, as one wrong screw on a giant rocket can have serious consequences. Strict people don't make such mistakes, they tend to do things seriously and don't miss anything. Such people give people a sense of steadiness, make people believe that there will be no problems in their hands, and make people want to trust them and entrust them with important things.
In today's world, technological innovation and industrial transformation are changing with each passing day, and the digital economy is booming, from communications, the Internet, artificial intelligence to intelligent manufacturing, sharing economy and other new things are emerging one after another. , people are overwhelmed. As the saying goes, "natural selection, survival of the fittest". As the saying goes, "Tianxingjian, a gentleman strives for self-improvement", and the first condition for our success is to continue to innovate and adapt to the changes of the times. There are many things in life that you need to bear by yourself, but only if you can bear it, you will know how big the world is, and you can live the life you want. Truly strong people tend to have a clear purpose, know what they're doing, and have the courage to make bold decisions when doing things.
We often hesitate or miss opportunities when making decisions, but decisive people make decisions and act quickly, even in a variety of complex situations. When we need to act, we don't hesitate to act. As the saying goes, "slow work makes fine work", and being careful is to control the speed so as not to miss the scenery along the way. If you pursue delicacy and delicacy as a person, you will definitely get a different reward. There is a saying: "If you don't take many steps, you won't go a thousand miles; If you don't step into a small stream, you can't become a river and a sea."
Strong people also accumulate knowledge, wealth, and experience, which are not acquired overnight. In fact, success is not achieved overnight, and everything requires effort and sweat to get. Therefore, it turns out that while many ordinary people have achieved good results in life, not everyone can achieve the glory of success. I want you to have the qualities and characteristics that will allow you to accomplish great things for the rest of your life.