After a hectic work life, retirement becomes a dream life state for many.
However, retirement doesn't just mean letting go, you need to force yourself to do something if you want to truly enjoy the rest of your life.
These are spiritual practices, not material ones.
1.The church enjoys solitude for itself.
After retirement, many people find that their social circle has narrowed and their once hectic work life has become empty.
In such an environment, it is especially important to learn to enjoy solitude.
Loneliness is not solitude, but a state of peace with oneself.
In solitude, we can reflect on our past lives, examine our inner world, and find inner peace and balance.
Forcing yourself to enjoy solitude means that you can find joy and fulfillment from within, rather than relying on external stimuli and attention.
2.Force yourself to accept things as they are.
In work and life, we are often troubled by various trivial matters and stress, and it is difficult to maintain peace and tranquility in our hearts.
After retirement, you will have more time to enjoy the beauty of life, feel the changes in nature, and appreciate the kindness of the people around you.
Forcing yourself to be able to deal with things calmly is not to worry about trivial matters, to learn to face the ups and downs of life with a peaceful attitude, to tolerate the people and things around you, and to treat them with an attitude. in order to gain more happiness and satisfaction.
3. Forced to learn to be deaf and dumb.
After retirement, you may face family conflicts and social conflicts.
Learn to pretend to be deaf, not to avoid problems, but to learn to let go of past fetters and grievances, and no longer care about gains and losses, fame and fortune.
It's about working with words. By observing the actions of others with a tolerant and peaceful mind, and dealing with family and social relationships with our hearts, we can gain more freedom and inner peace.
Striving to accomplish these things as soon as possible after retirement will not only allow us to grow and progress spiritually, but also allow us to enjoy more happiness and joy for the rest of our lives.
Forcing yourself to enjoy solitude means having inner freedom and independence.
Forcing yourself to feel at ease with the situation means peace of mind and calm.
Forcing oneself to pretend to be deaf and dumb is a way of life that brings peace and happiness.
It is only through these practices that we can enjoy true happiness later in life and celebrate the rest of our lives.