Life has a cause and an effect, a beginning and an end. You think it all happened suddenly, but it's actually formed step by step. Just like around us, some people are not suddenly lucky, but through the accumulation of learning and hard work, they have the opportunity to go against the sky and change their lives. On the contrary, a person does not suddenly fall unlucky, mostly due to his own problems. It also reminds us to correct ourselves often and not to slack off.
When these three strange things appear to you, it is the beginning of bad luck and must be corrected immediately.
Guiguzi Zhongjing records: "Some people, out of sight, do not hear evil, words must be "poems" and "books", do not do lewdness, take the Tao as the form, take virtue as the appearance, and the appearance of color temperature cannot be like the appearance. ”
Guiguzi put forward this point of view because he thinks that a person is very sloppy, does not love cleanliness, and does not pay attention to hygiene, so this kind of person is very annoying. Not only does this make you look terrible, but it also affects how others feel. And once a person becomes like this, it is destined that something undesirable will happen in his life or work, so this is also the beginning of his bad luck. After all, if a person doesn't even care about appearances, then what does he care?
No matter what happens, we still have to pay attention to our appearance, after all, appearance is the first card we go out.
Psychologists once did a survey on the street, which was to ask a girl to wear beautiful clothes and dress up neatly to sell things, and once let the girl sloppy to sell things. They found that things that were neatly sold attracted more people to buy them, while people who were sloppy attracted fewer people. This tells us that image has an important impact on our judgment of others, so if we want to make ourselves luckier, we should always clean ourselves up and pay attention to overall cleanliness and freshness. Many people often think that they are talented, or feel that as long as they live an alternative life, they do not pay attention to the image, and can even be described as unkempt, and this image often brings negative effects to themselves. For example, the public often sees such people as abnormal people, and for abnormal people, people with a higher moral level may not notice such a person, while people with a lower moral level will hit ** to make fun of such a person to their friends. Therefore, not paying attention to your personal image can have a negative impact on yourself.
Look at those successful people, although they don't go for extravagant clothes, they must pay attention to their image. Whenever people see them, they are radiant, and this is actually a kind of spiritual outlook, which always exudes vitality, positive energy, and this energy will infect people's emotions and ultimately guide you to keep moving forward. People who pay attention to their appearance and behave appropriately will create a sense of respect to some extent.
Whether it is life or work, everyone should pay attention to their image, which is conducive to everyone's social interaction and easy to get development opportunities. If you are interested in the world, your life will be better. I guess everyone understands this sentence, but there are also some people who seem to see the prosperity of the world and lose interest in the world.
In life, there are always some people who are confused about their future and don't know what to do. They seem to have lost interest in everything, but stubbornly call themselves "Buddhist youths". Such an attitude towards life is too dangerous, losing the motivation in life, and ultimately achieving nothing. What can a person achieve if he has lost even the passion for life? You can count on good fortune to find you out of nowhere.
You must know that people are different in this life, everyone has their own way of life development, some people have a vigorous life, and some people are plain, in fact, this is determined by personal needs. But this does not mean that people can live like the walking dead every day, a person has no interests, no hobbies, no dreams, no pursuits, neither against nor accepting anything, this is not a healthy attitude to life, it is easy to make people depressed and decadent forever.
If we become complacent, uninterested in anything, not interested in the outcome, the rest of the day can get worse. When we have this mindset of going with the flow, if we don't correct it in time, life will go downhill.
Even those in their twilight years know how to fill out their old age and shine for the rest of their lives. Why should we leave it to chance? In the Book of Shang, it is said that "full of harm and humility", a person is proud, arrogant, and stubborn, and will attract the dissatisfaction of others, and the dissatisfaction of others will be added to himself in various ways, leading to bad luck. Ji Kang, a famous writer in the Wei and Jin dynasties, was an arrogant man, and his good friend Shan Tao wrote to him and invited him to be an official to help Sima Shi, but he hated Sima Shi, so he not only refused, but also wrote a letter to sever relations with Shan Tao, Shan Tao represented Sima Shi's regime, and his angry rejection of Shan Tao was a rejection of Sima Shi, which angered Sima Shi and was eventually killed.
Shakespeare once said that a proud man always destroys himself in his pride, but humility can make a person. Arrogance and arrogance can destroy a person. When the sky is crazy, there is disaster, and when people are crazy, there is disaster. If a person is too arrogant, it will eventually lead to disaster. Arrogance is the beginning of bad luck. People should learn to live together peacefully and not be arrogant. After all, there are mountains and people.
Secondly, Guiguzi reminds people not to be stubborn, he believes that a person cannot be stubborn and should listen to the opinions and suggestions of others. If a person is stubborn and does not accept the opinions of others, it is easy to reach a dead end and ultimately fail. For example, the last emperor Pu Yi listened to Zheng Xiaoxu's suggestion and insisted on cooperating with Japan, and eventually became a puppet of the Japanese and was deeply controlled. Not being able to listen to others can hinder you from going down another path, and eventually you'll end up at a dead end and regret it too late.
The drum is the Warring States Period, the Warring States Period is changing, a hundred schools of thought contend, and whimsical ideas emerge in endlessly. In this troubled world, there is a great wise man who lives in seclusion in the mountains, and he is the devil in the valley. Guiguzi was rich in wisdom, knowledgeable, proficient in astronomy, geography, and proficient in hundreds of arts, which can be described as a rare talent at that time. Although he lived in seclusion in the mountains, the students he taught influenced the world, such as the famous military strategists Sun Bin, Long Jun, Wei Xiuzi, Le Yi, Prime Minister Su Qin, Zhang Yi, etc., all of whom were students of Guizi. Guiguzi's name has always been thunderous and rainy, and his strategy and some warning sayings have been passed down to future generations, which is really a prophecy. He was born in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, and spent his whole life writing the book "Guiguzi", leaving immeasurable cultural wealth to future generations. As a great prophet, his admonitions were considered "sacred" by later generations.
Guiguzi's extremely thorough understanding of human nature makes his "Guiguzi" a "strange book, forbidden fruit of wisdom". The "three signs" of those whom he left behind before his misfortune now seem very credible. Smart people always find ways to keep their luck going. As long as we look closely, we will find that a person tends to have the above three signs before a disaster strikes, but if we keep a heart and an eye, we will not get into trouble.
All in all, we must be careful to nurture ourselves before bad luck arrives, and we must know how to extinguish it when it shows signs. That way we're safe. In fact, these are the most basic truths of human beings. Only by really doing a good job of yourself, learning to listen to others' opinions, and learning to be positive and cheerful, you will find that nothing can defeat yourself, only you can defeat yourself.
I hope that when you encounter difficulties, you will not think about how to give up, learn another way, turn a corner and try, and you may discover a new continent. It is true that people's experiences are not due to chance, but are conditioned by cause and effect, and they will appear frequently on the road of life, which may make us feel helpless, but they are also things that we should face.
Of course, we need to see, discover, and find solutions to the above three things in order to improve our lives and each other's abilities. This kind of success is what really means. Everyone has a different life, and when you are based in society, you have to regulate your words and deeds. If you want to stay away from bad luck, you have to discipline yourself from many aspects of words, thoughts, and actions.