In 2015, Zhang Lijun, who was 5 months pregnant, was found to have cancer, and the doctor suggested that she induce labor**, but Zhang Lijun objected.
After the child was born, Zhang Lijun died soon afterAfter 4 years, the news of her husband's remarriage spread all over the Internet
Many people don't understand what their husbands do, is the husband a merciless person?
Zhang Lijun and her husband Han Shijun are both Shanghainese, the two met and fell in love when they were in college, and they both stayed in Shanghai to develop after graduation, and finally entered the palace of marriage in 2014.
The newlywed Yan'er days make the little couple feel happy, they look forward to the future and plan a beautiful blueprint.
In May 2015, Zhang Lijun found out that she was pregnant, and she was pleasantly surprised and looking forward to this little life, she began to buy baby products, choose a crib, and completely immersed herself in the joy of becoming a mother.
Every time she had a prenatal checkup and B-ultrasound, she would linger and look at the child's figure, listening to the powerful heartbeat, and her heart would swell with great satisfaction.
When the pregnancy was five months old, the prenatal examination found that Zhang Lijun had a large shadow on her waist and abdomen.
The doctor recommended a pancreatic examination, only to find out that she had pancreatic cancer, and it was at an advanced stage.
Pancreatic cancer is often difficult, with a median survival of only 6 months. The doctor's words made Zhang Lijun suddenly return to reality, and she only felt that her legs were weak and she sat on the ground.
It turns out that pancreatic cancer is a highly fatal cancer, it has an incubation period of up to 7-8 years, and there are no obvious symptoms in the early stage, which is difficult to detect.
Once diagnosed, 80-85% of patients are already at an advanced stage, with a high rate, rapid metastasis, and a very poor prognosis, and is known as the "king of cancer".
Chemotherapy has little effect on pancreatic cancer, and surgery is extremely risky, and even if it is successfully removed, the 5-year survival rate is only about 20%.
You are in critical condition and must have surgery as soon as possible. The doctor sighed and hesitated for a moment before adding, "But considering your pregnancy, I'm afraid there is a trade-off."
The word "trade-off" was like a thunderbolt from the sky, hitting Zhang Lijun to pieces, she choked up, and grabbed Han Shijun's hand, as if she had grasped the only hope in the world.
Han Shijun also burst into tears, knowing that from now on, they will experience the most difficult choice in their lives together.
When she got home, she tossed and turned in bed, her brain was in chaos, and the whole world became gray and weird.
She still couldn't accept this cruel fact, why did God want to send such a punishment on her when she was about to become a mother?
"I can't give up on this child. When Han Shijun pleaded again and again, Zhang Lijun said calmly and resolutely that she had made up her mind to give birth to the child, and Han Shijun knew that his wife's mind had been decided.
Because it was her blood and bones, the crystallization of her and her lover, and all her hopes.
The doctor told her that in consideration of her physical condition, at the age of seven months of pregnancy, the child must be removed by caesarean section, which is the first major test of life for the immature fetus.
Zhang Lijun understands that in the following period, what awaits her will be unimaginable torture and torment for ordinary people.
She had to spend her illness in pain, sharing her meager life with the fetus, and all the food she ate was nausea and vomiting for the sake of the child's growth; All the pain suffered is the ordeal to endure for the sake of the child's survival.
She reminded herself all the time that she had lived for 26 years, and that the child had not yet been born, and that I had to hold on for such a little creature who had just come to the door of life.
Day after day, her body was dull and emaciated in the torment, as thin as a piece of paper, as if it would break when the wind blew, and her husband clenched her hand with red eyes, giving her warmth and strength with all his might.
Finally, on that cold morning on December 3, she was wheeled into the operating room, and her husband paced anxiously back and forth outside the door, praying for a smooth operation and the safety of mother and child.
Less than 1 hour later, a faint baby cry came from the operating room, like a life-saving straw, and the baby was very weak and weak when he came into this world.
But he survived, and Zhang Lijun finally escorted this new spark to the world at the cost of her own health.
After Zhang Lijun woke up, she wanted to see her child at first sight, ** carefully picked up the baby, she stroked the baby's wrinkled little face with all her strength, and her heart rose with unprecedented satisfaction and joy.
What she bought with her life was such a small, wrinkled face.
What followed was a long and painful ** process, in order to make her breathe a little longer, her hair fell out, her body had boils, and she watched herself die at a speed visible to the naked eye.
Since ancient times, no one has died, it is better to travel around the world and die! She suddenly proposed to her husband, so they sold the house and set off on their final trip with what little savings they had left.
Good food, great view, nice hotel. Zhang Lijun tried her best to feel the beauty of the world, even if she could fall into hell at any time.
But time is still ruthless after all, after the trip, her condition began to deteriorate rapidly, in order to catch the last time with the flesh and blood, she decisively gave up any **, every day, every minute and every second, is so precious.
She wants to spend more time with her family and record more memories.
So she began to record birthdays for her children**, a total of 18, once a year. The beautiful ** with a wig and a smile like a flower slowly emaciated into a skeleton, and his right eye gradually became blind.
And she is still laughing, even if the tears have long been out of her eyes, because her mission has finally been completed, and she has won the right to come to this world for her flesh and blood, which is the most expensive harvest in her life.
In the last days of her life, she and her family lived a plain but fulfilling and happy life, until November 2016, with the blessing of everyone, she finally failed to reach her 27th birthday.
In the years after Zhang Lijun's death, her husband Han Shijun, who was only in his early twenties, has been unable to get out of the shadows, and is always absent-minded when he goes to work during the day and is criticized by the leadership; It is even more difficult to sleep alone in an empty room at night.
He always thinks of his wife who left him too young, and his longing almost overwhelms him, and occasionally he blames himself, if he had been more resolute at the beginning, his wife would not have left.
However, the reality is ruthless, the Grim Reaper has already taken her away, and all he can do is look at her **and** over and over again, and keep praying in his heart.
Three years have passed, Han Shijun's relatives can't see it, a twenty-five-year-old young man, immersed in grief all day long and unable to extricate himself, this is not a way, so his relative Li Xiao took the initiative to contact a **.
* Very empathetic and willing to take care of her young son, with her company, Han Shijun gradually came out of his grief and returned to work, and the relationship between the two became better and better, and finally a lover finally became a family.
The bride knows a lot about Zhang Lijun's story, although she is not the attending doctor before the sickbed, but she has also heard a lot of ** people tell about this tragic and touching experience, she regrets the fate of Xiaolongbao, and sincerely admires his biological mother.
After getting married, she took Xiaolongbao to her side, and did her best to take care of his food, clothing and study, and she would also take him to worship his biological mother regularly and tell him that untold story.
Mom is such a great person, you must grow up well. Xiao ** said, his eyes were a little red.
At the beginning, Zhang Lijun's parents still had a lot of complaints about this new little daughter-in-law, after all, their daughter had only passed away for three years, and this young man married a new love, which was really unreasonable.
However, seeing Xiaofang's sincere care for Xiaolongbao, the two elders were relieved, as the older generation, they hoped that Han Shijun could get out of the pain as soon as possible and regain a happy life.
Now, both families have accepted this new family, and Zhang Lijun's parents often go to the house to help take care of Xiaolongbao; The bride also respects her in-laws and regularly visits their graves to worship.
This is the final ending of this cruel and heartwarming story, and who are we to judge the choice? Living people still need to continue to live, and all we can do is to cherish the hard-won people and things in front of us.
Maybe many years later, Xiaolongbao will come to the grave of his biological mother to offer a bouquet of flowers in the company of his grandmother; Maybe he would smile and put his adoptive mother's hand to his mouth and kiss each of her knuckles. All of this is due to the will of God after all.