Some people say that marriage is like a marathon, some people get lost on the way, and some people can reach the end hand in hand. In my opinion, there are also levels of relationship between husband and wife, just like the ancients said: "Third-class husband and wife, each counting money, has nothing to do with each other; second-class couples, save money together, and move forward hand in hand; First-class couples, their hearts are connected, and they don't need to talk about money. "And I, too, have experienced different levels on the road to marriage.
Once, my husband and I were also in the stage of "third-class couples". At that time, we were in our own ways, only looking out for our own interests, like two strangers, each counting their own money, and they had nothing to do with each other. Our lives are full of quarrels and indifference, and marriage is like a barren desert with no life.
Later, we realized that this was not going to work, so we started to try to change. We gradually became a "second-class couple", saving money together for a common goal and moving forward hand in hand. It's like planting a seed of hope, which we water together and hope that it will bloom beautifully. Although there will be difficulties and setbacks in the process, we support each other and face them together. As the ancients said: "Husband and wife are of the same heart, and their profits are gold." ”
Today, we have reached the realm of "first-class couples". The heart is connected, there is no need to talk about money, this is a tacit understanding that cannot be described in words. We understand each other and support each other, like two intertwined trees, resisting the storms of life together. This heart-to-heart fit makes our marriage more indestructible.
In retrospect, our marriage was like a mirror that reflected our growth and progress. From "third-class couples" to "first-class couples", we have experienced a lot and understood a lot. A true husband and wife should not only be partners in life, but also partners in the soul.
As Mr. Yang Jiang said: "Husband and wife should be lifelong friends, and the most important thing between husband and wife is friendship, even if they are not intimate friends, at least they should be friends who can be partners or partners who respect each other." "May every couple find their own level and create a happy marriage together.