Write my name on the house, and I'll give it to you laterMom, there's a difference.
The mother-in-law is anxious for her son to buy a house and wants to retire in the city, and her name is written on the house, why does the daughter-in-law insist on changing her name or returning the money? The daughter-in-law believes that although the mother-in-law is the only heir to the property, the house is ultimately left to her son, and she has the right to participate in the decision-making process of the property.
The daughter-in-law hopes that her mother-in-law can respect her opinion and discuss the ownership of the property together. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law does not stem from the name of the property, but from different views and expectations on the ownership of the property.
Because I was focused on work and was single until I was 32 years old, my parents were worried and urged me to go on a blind date. Through a blind date, I met my current husband, and we felt good when we first met.
He was also 34 years old at the time, and he was also facing pressure from his parents to marry. We got married after half a month of dating. I would like to introduce my husband's family background. He is from a rural area, where his parents worked on a construction site and lived in a dilapidated mud house.
After marriage, we lived separately from our in-laws, and although we didn't know each other well before marriage, our relationship was generally relatively stable, although there were some minor conflicts.
Even though I don't spend much time with my in-laws, we make a point of visiting them every week. In the beginning, they were very enthusiastic about me, and I felt the unique simplicity and innocence of rural people from them.
However, three years have passed in the blink of an eye, and we have no children yet. In the first two years of marriage, we were busy with our careers, which was understandable, but now that three years have passed, my stomach has not moved at all, and my mother-in-law is starting to be a little worried and urging us to go to the hospital for a check-up.
When the results came out, it turned out to be my problem. However, my mother-in-law did not blame me, which made me feel more guilty and upset. In March this year, my mother-in-law suddenly told her husband that their old house was uninhabitable and would leak when it rained.
Mother-in-law meant to buy a small house in the city so that they could take care of us in the city. My husband discussed this matter with me, and he wanted us to give 350,000 yuan to his parents to buy a house in full, and the house was written in my name and his name.
The husband also said that his parents had worked hard all their lives, and as a son, he could not enjoy the happiness in the city by himself and ignore their lives. I also agreed at the time, so I took out my pre-marriage savings, almost 200,000, plus my husband's 150,000.
The matter of buying a house was handled by my husband and in-laws, and I was very busy with work at that time, so I didn't go. Despite the unpleasantness between us, I always believe that as long as we are united, we will find a solution to the problem.
Mom, the situation is different, if I divorce your son, this house has nothing to do with me, don't think I don't understand what you mean. I'm telling you, either give me the money back, or change the name of the house. ”
I insisted on doing it because I was infertile, and I didn't know if I would be kicked out of the house by my mother-in-law one day. I can't help but think about my future.