My son asked me at night that he wanted to live with his girlfriend and asked us if we could, and we said yes, and my son was very happy. I go on to say that you can call the shots, but before you make a decision, I would like to make the following 2 points to you:
The first point is that cohabitation is a very serious decision. You want to make sure that the relationship between the two of you is stable enough that there is a deep understanding of each other. Cohabitation is not only about sharing physical space, but also about a preview of future life, including living habits, values, and long-term planning fit.
Second, cohabitation inevitably brings challenges and contradictions, which can come from differences in living habits or minor conflicts caused by daily trivialities. You have to learn to be tolerant and learn to communicate effectively, which is the key to solving all problems. We would like to see you grow into a considerate person who can handle interpersonal relationships properly through this life experience.
We know that giving our son full understanding and support is not about letting him move forward at will, but about teaching him to face his choices rationally and take responsibility. "Son, we will respect and support every decision you make. But remember, no matter when and where, home is always your back, and don't forget to ask your parents for help when you get stuck. ”
This night, under our persuasion, my son's confusion about the future seems to become clearer.
If you have a son at home, how will you deal with this problem of children? Or if you're a girl's parent, do you think it's okay for me to say to my son like that? We look forward to hearing from you.