As we all know, passing on the bloodline is a key reason why many couples start a family. Whether from the perspective of genetic inheritance or cultural inheritance, people want their bloodline to continue. It is difficult to fulfill this wish, because biological children can carry their genes and blood.
People have an endless desire for the inheritance of their own bloodline. They hope to pass on their genes, bloodline, family culture and ideas to the next generation by having their own children. It is a biological instinct and a need for the continuation of one's own existence. Whether it is in terms of physical characteristics or physical health, biological children are more likely to have similar characteristics to themselves, which is one of the reasons why many people have to have children.
Adoptive parents work hard to raise their children, but it is easy to face the involvement of their biological parents. In the case of adoption, the birth parents sometimes appear out of nowhere and ask to return to the birth family. This situation will not only bring a psychological blow to the adoptive parents, but may also shake their trust in ***.
After that, adoptive parents spend a lot of time and energy raising their child, and they love and nurture the child as if it were their own biological child. However, the birth parents sometimes appear out of nowhere and ask to take back custody of the child, which causes great distress and psychological blows to the adoptive parents. They may feel deprived of their parenting grace and even doubt the true relationship between their adopted son and their biological parents. The existence of this kind of "robbery" makes people more inclined to have their own children in order to avoid this risk and uncertainty.
Sometimes there is interference and influence from the biological parents. Adoptive parents worry that the biological parents will have a negative impact on their child's thoughts and values, and may even lead to an identity crisis as the child grows up.
After that, adoptive parents not only have to take on the responsibility of parenting, but also need to take on the obligation to educate and guide the growth of their children. However, the presence of biological parents can bring ideological and cultural conflicts to children, as well as a lot of psychological stress for adoptive parents. Adoptive parents worry that their biological parents will have a negative impact on their child's ideas and values, and may even lead to a crisis of identity in the child's growing up. Therefore, to avoid this, many people prefer to have children of their own to ensure that they have more control over their child's upbringing and education.
The parent-child relationship between biological and adoptive children is gradually established in life, and irreplaceable emotional bonds are cultivated through daily spending time and sharing experiences. Having your own children allows people to feel this unique parent-child relationship firsthand, while *** needs to overcome more difficulties and challenges to build an intimate relationship similar to that of biological children.
The parent-child bond is a special emotional bond that is gradually built through everyday contact and shared experiences. When people have their own children, they can experience the child's growth and development first-hand from the initial conception period, thus building a deep parent-child relationship. And *** needs to overcome more difficulties and challenges in order to win the closeness and trust of the child, and establish an intimate relationship similar to that of the biological child. Of course, it will take more time and effort to break down the child's inner defenses so that they are truly willing to accept the adoptive parents and establish a genuine emotional connection.
In general, the reason why people are more inclined to have their own children than adopt is mainly because of the desire for blood inheritance, the fear of being nurtured by the biological parents, the fear of the influence of the biological parents and the need to establish a relationship and parent-child relationship. However, when choosing whether to have children or not, we need to balance the desires of the individual and the realities of society, while taking into account that each child has his or her own rights and needs. Fertility or *** is not a matter of right or wrong, but a personal choice that varies from person to person and needs to be carefully weighed. Whether it is childbirth or adoption, the most important thing is to provide a warm, caring and stable environment for children to grow up, so that they can grow up healthy and happy.