High-energy people never think about others, and the greatest self-discipline of adults is to restrain themselves from correcting other people's desires and not to comment on other people's lives.
In life, we are often discussing other people's stories and gossip, a well-known artist was revealed to have a child out of wedlock, and a star was forced by the court to enforce hundreds of millions
After the death of an old man, the children fight each other for property, etc., in short, things like this can always instantly arouse your curiosity, put down the work at hand, immediately jump out of your daily emotions, and start a lively discussion.
But,When I looked back a little, I found that my life was still a mess, the children at home were still naughty and disobedient, the work assigned by the leader was still not completed, and I still didn't save much money this month.
But after all, other people's lives are someone else's, and we have little to do with it, rather than standing on the moral high ground to judge other people's words and deeds, it is better to spend time and energy on yourself, invest in yourself, learn professional knowledge, improve work efficiency, expand hobbies, and increase side income is the wisest choice.
In the same way, our own life has nothing to do with others, we will encounter many people and many things, and it is inevitable that we will be affected by the external environment, but life is our own after all, and everyone's energy is limited, we should try to minimize the external influence to distract our energy, and strive to focus on taking care of ourselves at the moment.
Recently,Seeing Zhang Zetian's dialogue at the 3rd Women's Construction New Power Forum, there was a passage that impressed Ningman quite deeply:
I would tell my daughter over and over again that life is my own, not for others to see.
It's because she often feels shy, or embarrassed for fear of making mistakes.
But think about it, do you remember the last time someone else made a mistake?
Or the last time you went to laugh at someone for making a mistake, do you still remember? Actually, I don't remember it at all!
Because this is someone else's life, it has nothing to do with me, and so do others, who will not care and care like you, so we should be more proactive, to control our own life, to embrace every life. ”
is not only a verbal encouragement to his daughter, Zhang Zetian is also using practical actions to become a role model for his daughter.
Do you still remember Liu Qiangdong's incident in Minneta, USA?
The turmoil suddenly intensified, rumors flew all over the sky, and Zhang Zetian at that time did not choose to pat his ass and leave, but spoke up for his husband as soon as possible, and then chose to go to Cambridge to study for an MBA, and took this opportunity to enter the financial industry.
It can be said that Boss Zhang used real actions to live his life vividly, so that the rumors were self-defeating.
yesOther people's lives have nothing to do with us
In life, we always care about the evaluation of others and are afraid of the ridicule of others, but we often forget that we are the protagonists in life.
Put away your so-called moral standards, let your attention return to the present, and find that shining self as soon as possible!