Men are usually more rational thinkers, concerned about the value for money of shopping, and measuring whether an item is worth buying. In contrast, women tend to be more emotional, they pay more attention to the appearance of the object, as long as it looks good, and are willing to spend some extra money on it.
This difference in mindset often leads to conflicts between couples or couples in everyday life. A recent blind date incident in Jiangxi Province reflects the misunderstandings and disputes that can arise from such differences in thinking.
A man invited the woman to a hot pot on a blind date, thinking that everything was going well. However, when he bought drinks at the cinema, he was ridiculed and publicly criticized by the woman because of one of his calculations. The woman called the man a "strange man" in her girlfriend group, which made him feel quite aggrieved.
The man asked the woman afterwards to find out the reason, but the woman disliked him for being too nagging, thinking that he was even more "down". This made the man feel helpless, he originally just hoped to be careful and avoid being cheated by the merchants, but unexpectedly fell into the title of "lower man".
According to the revelations, the man and the woman felt good before, and tentatively approached the relationship. While they were watching a movie together, the man asked the woman if she craved a drink, and the woman expressed a preference for Coke. Faced with the expensive price of Coke in the cinema, the man decided to go to a nearby supermarket and buy a bottle of 15 liters of Coke and carrying two disposable cups at the same time.
However, due to the time taken to buy, by the time the man returned to the cinema, the movie had already opened. This was supposed to be an act of caring for the needs of the other party, but because of the different ways of thinking, it turned into a public "execution" that embarrassed the man.
In the movie, the man poured a glass of Coke for himself and his blind date, but he didn't expect the woman to suddenly say that she didn't want to drink it. Faced with the woman's refusal, the man mistakenly thought that he was disgusted, and quickly explained that he was using a clean disposable cup.
However, the woman still refuses and remains silent during the film, eventually making excuses to leave early. The man returned home and asked if the girl was safe, but received a silent response. So, he guessed if the woman was not interested in him, and the woman sent him a screenshot of the chat of the girlfriend group, asked him to find out the reason himself, and advised him to be generous to the girl on his next date.
It turned out that the woman posted the situation of the two dating and the man's purchase of a large bottle of Coke to the girlfriend group, but was teased by the girlfriends. The man felt that he was not wrong and was just drinking Coke at home, but the woman and her friends thought that he was too critical and not a suitable partner. This sparked a discussion about two different values, one believing that romance should be focused on dating, and the other arguing that men have the right to pursue the way they like.
Some netizens expressed their understanding of the man, thinking that he was just making a careful calculation, and pointed out that the man paid hundreds of yuan for hot pot and other expenses that day, and 30 yuan of Coke was not worth mentioning. On the other hand, men should pay more attention to their image, believing that drinking a large bottle of Coke in the cinema is a loss of face. The incident sparked a heated debate of different opinions, with some arguing that men need to be more romantic, while others supported his courage to do and think.
Everyone has a different way of thinking and values, and this incident has also triggered different views on love and giving. Some people think that communication and prompting are the key to solving problems, and it is inappropriate to address the other person directly as "the man with the bottom head". This story provokes deep reflection on the importance of communication and understanding in love, and also highlights the diversity of society's conceptions of love between men and women. What do you think of this story?