There are actually two reasons why I don't want to go home: one is that I haven't earned the money, and the other is that I haven't found the object.
I didn't make any money, my heart was not steady, and my appearance was shabby, how dare you go home for a good face!
The object was not found, he was twenty **, he was almost thirty years old and still alone, in addition to the nagging of his parents, he had to face the interrogation of the three aunts and six mothers-in-law, and his heart was empty, how dare he go home!
Workers! Most people! I've all been through both, including me. I didn't want to go home because of either of these circumstances, so what good excuse did I use?
In fact, the best excuse is sincerity.
The famous French writer Alexandre Dumas once said: "One or two weights of sincerity are equal to one ton of intelligence." ”
Smart is not as good as sincerity, reliable, down-to-earth, is the foundation of life, sincerity, is always the most impressive power.
In the face of parents, only sincerity is the greatest filial piety.
When I first worked for a year or two, the salary was low, and I didn't have the money to go home! At the age of twenty-nine, I wanted to tell my parents that I would not go home under the pretext that the unit was on duty, but my mother said a word, so that the excuse I wanted to say came to my lips and was withdrawn!
Mom said, "Ming Zai! Mom made your favorite fried oil horns and fried rice crackers when you were a child, and there are a lot of them, you don't have to buy anything when you come back, and the family has ...... for the New Year”
In a word, my heart melted, the key is to make my mouth so greedy that my saliva flowed, home, only home has the taste of childhood, and only home, can understand my heart best!
It is estimated that my mother also knew about my financial constraints, so she said: "Everyone in the family has ...... for the New Year."”
You say, how can I have the courage to refuse my mother's desire for me to come home?
But I don't have any money! I ......
No money! This is not an excuse. I borrowed some coils from my classmates, bought two cigarettes for my father, bought a set of cotton clothes for my mother, prepared some pocket money for my mother, and went home!
The moment I saw my mother, all the "I don't want to go home" turned into clouds and flew away.
After graduation, I haven't had a partner yet, and I'm afraid to go home!
Once, I sincerely said to my parents, "I didn't find a daughter-in-law for you, so I'm embarrassed to go back to ......."”
Mom said, "Even if you find it and you don't get married, your partner has to go back to her own house!" It's okay, if someone asks, you just say you're in pursuit......,Hey,I see what month was the last time you came to our house at your high school reunion? It's pretty good......”
Mother! Is it like a neon moon? ”
Yes, yes, yes......Good girl! ”
Hey, yes, for love, I have to take the initiative to pursue it......
Later, after hard work, she became my wife!
Mom and dad naturally smiled.
When you are hesitant to go home, please tell your parents what you really think, only sincerity is the greatest filial piety!