The leftover girl cried: I have a car and a house, why don't I have a husband?
In traditional culture, women in China usually enter into marriage earlier than men, and marriage has always occupied an important place in society. However, with the development of society, more and more women choose to be single or marry later, becoming older unmarried women.
Especially for women over the age of 40 and with superior material conditions, it is more difficult to find a suitable partner. So, why are these women having a hard time finding their significant other?
In the midst of the hustle and bustle of the metropolis, there is a 40-year-old woman named Xiaoli, an executive who has accumulated a wealth of experience in the financial industry. Xiaoli was talented and beautiful when she was young, and she was not only a top student on campus, but also the goal pursued by many boys.
However, she has never been able to find the person with whom she has spent her life, and she is still celibate. Today, Xiaoli is 40 years old and has a successful career, a well-paying job, a luxurious home and a dazzling car.
However, her single life hasn't changed. Whenever she looks at the colleagues and friends around her who have happy families and lovely children, she feels extremely lost and helpless, and even begins to question whether there is something wrong with herself.
Xiaoli meets an old friend, and the two enjoy coffee and talk in a café. Xiaoli confided in her friend about her single plight and asked, "I have bought a house and a car, why is no one willing to marry me?" ”
The friend listened attentively to Xiaoli's confession, smiled and said, "Actually, your age is not important, and it is not important to have material wealth. You should examine your personality, values, and ability to communicate with others. ”
I once met a man through a blind date introduced by a friend. In the beginning, he was very nice to me. However, it didn't take long for him to propose a breakup. When I asked him why, he told me, "I learned about your past, you had unclear relationships with many men, even the origin of the house and the car.
I can't accept you like this. Since that breakup, I've been on a kiss many times. The men are all interested in my house and car and are willing to get along with me.
However, it didn't take long for them to learn about my past through investigation, and they all disliked me and broke up with me decisively. In this way, my reputation in my hometown is getting worse and worse, and now I don't even have the opportunity to go on a blind date.
I'm 40 years old, and I'm losing faith in getting married.
Although women over the age of 40 have accumulated abundant material wealth, they still face the problem of being unmarried. This is mainly due to the complexity of the social environment and psychological state they face.
However, the most important thing for these women is to maintain a positive mindset and try to learn how to communicate and get along effectively with the opposite sex. Only in this way can you know yourself at a higher level, find a suitable partner, and enter into a happy married life.