Hot search on the issue of bride price
Talking about "bride price" is an indispensable part of Chinese marriage, and this word has always touched the nerves of every couple who are about to get married.
Recently, the uncle flashed away and asked the other party to return the 200,000 dowry and rushed to the hot search.
Guangzhou Intermediate People's Court disclosed a case:
Uncle Chen in his seventies and Ms. Zhang, who is in her 20s younger, divorced after a flash marriage and asked the other party to return a bride price of 200,000 yuan.
Because the two had a conflict less than a month after marriage, Ms. Zhang ran away from home and sued for divorce, and Uncle Chen agreed to the divorce, but asked Ms. Zhang to return the 200,000 yuan bride price and 30,000 yuan of gold jewelry, and change the share of the real estate given to her back to her own name. However, the two parties could not reach a settlement and sued the court.
In the end, the first-instance judgment of the Guangzhou Huadu District People's Court is as follows:
1. Grant Ms. Zhang and Uncle Chen a divorce.
2. Ms. Zhang returned a gift of 170,000 yuan to Uncle Chen.
3. Ms. Zhang returned the gold jewelry to Uncle Chen, and if she could not return it, she should compensate Uncle Chen 30,000 yuan at a discount.
4. Ms. Zhang assisted in the change within a time limit and registered 50% of the property rights involved in the case to Uncle Chen's name.
Ms. Zhang appealed against the first-instance judgment, and the Guangzhou Intermediate People's Court made a second-instance judgmentThe appeal was dismissed and the original judgment was affirmed.
Author: I think the court's decision is quite fair. Because this case reminds me of cheating marriage.
Talk about the color change of the bride price
"Bride price" originated in the pre-Qin period, also known as betrothal gifts, dowry gifts, dowry gifts, etc., emphasizing the word "li", when the man reached a preliminary marriage agreement, the money, goods or other property presented to the woman to show sincerity and respect.
The woman's parents will also marry a part of the money, goods or other property as a dowry, all of which are to contribute to the formation of a small family by the newlyweds, and generally speaking, these are the property of the woman.
However, modern fraud methods emerge in an endless stream, and many people take advantage of this public order and good customs to defraud, use the name of feelings as a tool for moral kidnapping, negotiate a huge bride price and then divorce, get half of the property, and then remarry and continue to commit fraud.
Every time the bride price is on the hot search, it is mostly because of negative news, as a sensitive topic in the topic of both sexes, every time it is mentioned, there are always disputes, because there are countless examples of talking about bride price and breaking up.
What's more, the bride price was directly talked about as "profit", and two people with 800 hearts and eyes could not be taken advantage of at all.
Last week, I swiped a**.
A blogger answered a female fan's doubts about the bride price in Guangdong, and the general content was that the man was from Guangdong, and the bride price was only given more than 100,000 yuan. (Yes, that's the adjective she used).
As a native of Guangzhou, the blogger replied that according to Guangdong customs, the bride price is just a good intention, and it is rare to see more than 100,000 yuan, which is already very high, and the ordinary family, the Guangdong bride price is basically 2-40,000 yuan.
In the comment area at the bottom, every one of them made me laugh. Guangdong netizens have said that this boyfriend really can't be dealt with, because he broke the rules of Guangdong bride price.
Does marriage still need a bride price as a litmus test?
In fact, two people fall in love to the point of being able to enter the palace of marriage, the key point is because two people love each other. Since they love each other, both parties are willing to form a family, then both of them should bear the corresponding responsibilities, and the future small family is run by two people together, sharing weal and woe, there is no need to have the so-called "attitude", let your future husband bear too many debts, these debts will have to be repaid by two people in the future,How can demands beyond one's ability to repay help two people later in their married life?
However, whenever this happens, there will always be people who stand up and say that after getting married, the woman has to do housework, serve her parents-in-law, have to give birth to children, and serve the children to eat, drink, and Lazar, and the bride price is to compensate herself. Shouldn't it be so much to give?
As a woman, I don't understand who these words are and from what angle do I come up with them?
Marriage is a matter of two people, and it is also a matter of two families. Since they are married, they naturally have to support each other.
If you also go to work and have the same high salary as your husband, then ask a nanny to help you with the work, and ask the confinement lady to help take care of the children, so you don't have to do housework to serve this and that?
If your work ability is far stronger than that of your husband, then it is not impossible for your husband to take care of more housework, and it is not impossible for the husband and wife to discuss it, right?
If the husband earns a lot more than himself, then he goes out to socialize more and earns less money for himself, so isn't it normal to do more housework at home?
As for having children, if a girl is determined not to have children, she can find Dinkism. The child is also the child of two people, it is the crystallization of your love, if you don't want to give birth, you can not give birth, if you give birth, you are the mother of the child, you should not isolate yourself, say that the child is born for men.
Children need to be raised by husband and wife, and if the children grow up, they will support their parents in the future, not just their fathers. It is an undeniable fact that a woman has a child who does a lot of harm to her body, and as a husband, she needs to take care of her wife and children more.
Husband and wife form a family, just like two people in partnership to start a company, those who have money to contribute, those who have no money to contribute, the share of each other, the investment is more, the return is more, or the discussion is more, the return is more, or it is okay to have five or five points.
Now a new generation of young people, who are loved and pampered by their parents, no longer need to do housework at home, what they learn and see in a certain sound and a certain book is what the other party has paid for themselves, in order to prove that they love their own plot, but they have never thought about it, in the process, what have they paid for each other?
Always ask the other party what they can do for themselves, but never think about what they have changed for the other party? Is this also called love?
Finally
I like the words of the judge at the beginning of the bride price trial, the judge said: the bride price should return to the essence of "rites", the key to a harmonious and long-lasting marriage relationship is that both parties have similar personalities and feelings depend on each other, and the masses should uphold the correct concept of marriage and love, so that marriage can return to the essence of "love", so that the bride price is positioned as "ceremony" rather than "wealth", and jointly create a healthy and civilized new style of marriage with practical actions.
Jiangxi Chongyi has begun a pilot project, stipulating that the bride price does not exceed 390,000 yuan, the children of the couple can be given priority to enroll, there is also a free ride, and the wedding banquet is 820% off and other incentive policies. It is hoped that the state can come up with more relevant policies and regulations to protect the rights and interests of both men and women in marriage and family, and provide more support and help to the newlyweds who get married, so that young people are not afraid of marriage or marriage, and will no longer part ways because of the bride price, and will not "hurt their feelings because of talking about money".
I also hope that the newlyweds who are about to get married can return to the original intention and essence of your marriage, and I hope that you really want to form your own small family because of loveLet marriage begin with "love", let the bride price return to "ceremony", and both of you will work hard to realize the future you imagine for the sake of the small family
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