Kunpeng Plan Parents asked their son's family to go home for the New Year but were refused, and the son: A large family pointed to us to pay.
There is snow on the pine branches. 
Going home for reunion during the Spring Festival is something that every family looks forward to, but not everyone likes to go home. Some families are full of warmth, while others are more realistic.
The Spring Festival is getting closer and closer, and I haven't said when I will go back to my hometown for the New Year. My parents couldn't sit still.
At lunchtime, my mother called me**: Son, it's the eighteenth day of the lunar month, why haven't you had a holiday yet.
Every household in our village has begun to prepare New Year's goods, and if you come back later, then I won't have time to prepare. ”
I had a headache when I heard this, my mother said it tactfully, but in fact, she still wanted to ask me to take the money to buy New Year's goods.
If my parents were just a child like me, I would admit it. But I have a sister above me and a younger brother below. But my parents always catch me.
I casually said a few perfunctory words to my mom and went back to work.
Today I got off work early and went to the supermarket to buy some food and yogurt. My wife loves yogurt. Every time I go to the supermarket, I buy some for her.
When I got home, my wife saw that I bought her the yogurt she liked to drink, and the whole person smiled like a flower.
When she was drinking yogurt, I said inappropriately: Today my mother called me ** and asked me when I would be home. ”
As soon as my wife heard this, she stopped drinking the yogurt. Sit and sulk.
If you want to go back to your hometown for the New Year this year, go back, anyway, I won't follow you. I don't want to be called like a servant. ”
I didn't feel good when I heard it. Stepped forward and hugged his wife.
Don't worry, I don't want to go home for the New Year this year, and I will transfer 2,000 to them before the New Year, which will be the intention of both of us. But then I will have to follow you to my mother-in-law's house for the New Year, I hope they don't get too troublesome. ”
What you say is true. The wife was much happier when she heard this.
Of course it's true, and I don't want to go back and be their ATM. ”
When his wife heard this, she sighed. said: It's good if you can figure it out, I'm really afraid that you won't be able to carry it clearly, and you will pay for yourself for them. ”
My wife's words made me feel even more sad.
I am the second child in the family, my parents are patriarchal, and the eldest sister has not been treated well at home since she was a child. She does all the work.
When I was born, my parents were overjoyed when they saw that it was a boy.
It's a pity that I have been sick for three days since I was born, and I often cry hoarsely. Tortured my parents to the point of having a nervous breakdown.
My parents hated me from love to love, they threw me to my grandmother, and they couldn't wait to give birth to a third child of my little brother.
He was born white and pure, and he was relatively easy to carry. My parents have always favored him.
I originally thought that I would not live long, but under the careful care of my grandmother, I am growing up day by day.
However, it is still not as popular as the younger brother at home. From childhood to adulthood, the snacks bought by my parents are first picked by the younger brother, followed by me, and finally it is the turn of the eldest sister.
My eldest sister and I are both unappreciated people in this family, and we get along quite well.
However, after the eldest sister reached the age of sixteen, she dropped out of school to work.
The eldest sister has suffered a lot outside for so many years, and every time she comes back, she will buy me clothes and food, and she will secretly stuff me with some pocket money. I asked her what the outside world was like?
The most common thing she said was: "Study hard, and you will have the ability to get rid of the things and people you don't like in the future." ”
I also know in my heart that my grandmother is old and has no right to speak in this family. Mom and Dad love the little brother again. If I don't work hard, all I can get in the future is two acres of land at home.
When I was in college, my eldest sister was forced by her parents to marry a man with a leg problem.
The eldest sister resisted and finally got married, and I quarreled with my parents because of the eldest sister's affairs, but I was slapped by one of them.
They used the bride price money to buy a motorcycle for the younger brother, and he was wrecked in the middle of the night.
After I graduated from college and worked, my mom asked me to hand over half of my salary every month.
She said: "Mom has saved it for you, and in the future, you will need money to marry your daughter-in-law and buy a house, and your salary will be in your hands, and I am afraid that you will not be able to keep it." ”
I gave my mother three years of money, basically 150,000 or 60,000 yuan.
My mother used the money to build a two-story house for my brother, and also helped him marry a daughter-in-law and have children.
At that time, I was in urgent need of money, so I asked my mother to take 10,000 yuan and she said no, and in turn accused me: "I raised you so big, you have worked and still ask me for money, do I owe you?" ”
I didn't explain that I was in a hurry to use the money, so I called the eldest sister after hanging up.
She knew that she had lent me 20,000 yuan. Let me have a snack in the future.
Since then, I haven't given my mom much money, and she started asking me for money because my brother and daughter-in-law are looking for trouble at home again, and my nephew has no money to buy milk powder.
My mother has been in this family for more than 20 years, and the feng shui turns around, and now she is being cleaned up by her brother and daughter-in-law.
Now that I don't give her much money, my brother and daughter-in-law see that they can't get any benefit from my mother, so they let her do all the dirty work in the house.
Later, my wife and I got married, and my parents didn't pay a penny, and even the money for the wedding wine was paid by us in the hotel out of our own pockets, but the money was collected by my parents, and it was directly given to my brother and daughter-in-law at night.
Last year was the first year of marriage, and according to the custom, I had to go back to my hometown for the New Year. For the sake of his wife's stay, it is more comfortable.
I first paid my mother 10,000 yuan and asked her to install an air conditioner in our house, and then buy us a comfortable quilt.
When we got home, the air conditioner was not installed, and my mother bought a small solar heater.
Only the quilt cover and sheets on the bed are new, and the cover is not warm at all.
What's more, my mother suffered a loss from her little daughter-in-law, so she wanted to get it back from my wife.
At five o'clock in the morning, I came to knock on the door and told her to get up and make dumplings, my brother's family of four, plus my parents and our two people, a total of eight people.
My mom asked my wife to do it herself. My wife doesn't want to, and I don't want to.
Eventually, we stayed until the first day of the Lunar New Year and we came back.
After calculating the cost of going home, it adds up to almost 30,000. My brother and daughter-in-law were so greedy that she didn't prepare anything, but secretly instigated my mother to ask us for money.
When his wife came back, she yelled that she would never go back for the New Year.
Unexpectedly, this year I delayed the date of going home, and my parents couldn't sit still.
The next day, my mother called again: Son, it doesn't matter if you come back late from vacation. But you have to transfer me some money so that I can buy New Year's goods. ”
Mom, how much do you want".
20,000 yuan, in addition to buying New Year's goods, there are also a few family contacts that have to be followed. ”
Listening to my mother's words, I couldn't help but laugh out loud at this end.
Mom, I'm not going back for the New Year this year, and when I go home, the whole family points to us for money. We can't eat the New Year's goods you purchased. If I transfer 2,000 to you, it will be regarded as a tribute to you and my father, and I will not give out any other points. ”
After saying that, I ignored the hysterical shouting of the **. Simply hung up the **.
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