For students, middle school marks a crucial stage, inheriting the innocence and childlike fun of primary school and connecting the serious challenges of high school. Middle school is seen as a critical time to lay the foundation, and it coincides with adolescence, when students undergo dramatic physical and psychological changes.
Puppy love"It's an issue that almost all parents are wary of. In the eyes of parents, early love may directly affect the future development of students, and they believe that falling in love now will inevitably lead to misfortune in the future.
Therefore, once parents learn that they have a puppy love problem, they will feel extra angry and explicitly ask the student to "break up". However, it is precisely because of adolescence that students often show a rebellious side, not following the advice of their parents and even opposing them.
Why are parents so worried about students' "early love"? What are the dangers of early love?
Education occupies a crucial place in the family. Parents are committed to providing students with the best quality educational resources from an early age, hoping that they will have an edge at the starting line. In secondary school, the most critical task for students every day is to achieve excellent grades and prepare for the college entrance examination.
However, once a student reaches adolescence, everything changes, and this is not an individual phenomenon, but a universal phenomenon. Especially with "puppy love" as the main manifestation. Puppy love directly affects students' mood swings, and when they see the opposite sex showing a sunny handsome or gentle and beautiful side, they can't wait to confess.
If two students fall into a romantic relationship, they may be affected academically by indulging in sweet love. If you skip class and can't keep up with the teacher's explanation, your academic performance will naturally decline rapidly.
If it is done on the spur of the moment, it is extremely harmful to the health of students. Junior high school students who have already started taking biology courses can naturally understand what the dangers of this "impulse" are.
In China, the issue of "sex education" has been avoided and parents are embarrassed to mention it, leaving students in the dark. Therefore, parents should popularize it earlier and not shy away from it because of shyness.
What's scarier than "puppy love"? Junior high school students are caught in the quagmire of "toxic friendship", and students must keep their eyes open when making friends.
In fact, in addition to the anxiety of early love, junior high school students also face the problem of "toxic friendship". In secondary school, friendships between classmates are often pure and can become the most precious memories of a student's life.
Not all friendships are worth keeping. There is a kind of friendship called "toxic friendship", so when making friends, it is important for students to keep their eyes open.
The so-called "toxic friendship" can be summarized into three categories. The first is friends who seem intimate on the surface, but in fact they frequently taunt each other behind their backs, and you don't know anything about it.
Some students make friends not out of sincerity, but for some purpose. They are warm and friendly to you on the surface, but in reality they often lash out at you behind your back. In the face of such people, students need to keep their distance in time and do not continue to associate with them, otherwise it will do you more harm than good.
The second category is those friends who have been trying to suppress you. Each student has their own strengths and weaknesses. A truly good friend expects a better life from the other person, but some people are extremely selfish. They may compete with you everywhere and constantly suppress you, which is also a "toxic friendship".
The third category is the friend who pulls you into the water. These friends may not like to study, but they persuade you to stay away from your schoolwork, resulting in your failure to progress, or even a path of depravity together. Such a friend is definitely not worth associating.
When you make friends in junior high school, you need to keep your eyes peeled, because not all classmates are worth befriending. Protecting yourself requires caution.
Almost every junior high school student will go through adolescence, which is destined for major psychological changes, emotional and cognitive transitions. Therefore, adolescents need to form their own values, outlook on life, and worldview during this period to lay the foundation for future development.
Although it is inevitable to divide the high school entrance examination, you should not hurt your classmates by trying to outperform others. The Internet is also important for students.
The emotional experience in junior high school can be said to be the purest, and it will become the best memory of life. Students need to cherish the friendship, not destroy it.
At this time, we don't need to pay attention to each other's background or status, just enjoy pure friendship. It would be a pity if this friendship were to evolve into a "poisonous friendship".
Junior high school students can involute, but they must maintain a healthy involution. Students can help each other and learn from each other. Xueba can explain useful knowledge points to the scumbags, which will help their grades.
Excessive competition does not make students happy, and learning should be a joyful process. Only when students understand the true meaning and joy of learning will they understand why they should learn, rather than blindly following trends.
China has entered the era of quality education. For students, grades are important, but to go to the next level, they need to be stronger in terms of ability and networking, so that they can be recognized by society after graduation and truly achieve good development.
All in all, middle school is a critical period for developing good study habits and laying the foundation for high school. Parents can quietly follow their students behind the scenes and provide the right guidance. If a student encounters a "toxic friendship", parents need to assist the student in resolving the problem.
Homeschooling has always been crucial for students. If a student doesn't keep their eyes open because they make friends, it will be an irreparable regret.
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