Wen He Xin. 01.People can't manage time, and time doesn't obey anyone's management, it just goes by as it always does. It's not time to manage, it's yourself.
02.By opening your mind to think, observe, record, summarize, share, and act in the most accurate way possible, your time will have a different quality and your whole life will be renewed.
03.A person's mind is the sum of his knowledge and experience, as well as his thinking methods and modes.
04.Some stages are destined to be insurmountable, take time, and need to guard against arrogance and rashness.
05.When you think of "what I want", remind yourself right away and take some time to think about "what I have", which will make you "grounded" in a blink of an eye.
06.No one can be perfect, and perfection never exists. It would be more accurate to say "perfectionists" as "people who have the ability to get closer to perfection, and who are always trying." ”
07.No matter what we do, we need to be patient with all kinds of imperfections, otherwise things will not be done at all. In the end, the result is often imperfect, and there are bound to be flaws.
08.We must accept the reality that the unknown is always there. Then, try to adapt to "keep moving forward in the unknown". If you don't accept this reality, you can't bear the unknown, and you will have countless anxieties.
09.Anxiety can make people feel that "something has to be done", but any decision and action without reason can have disastrous consequences.
10.When there is a problem that cannot be solved, an effective strategy is to write it down and move on.
Moving on doesn't mean ignoring these issues – they've been documented and given the opportunity to be revisited. It doesn't have to be when, where, or for whatever reason, and some of them suddenly have a clear solution.
At the same time, you have been moving forward, accumulating, and growing, until the moment you have the answer, you are no longer the powerless you you were at the beginning, you have been reborn.
11.The actual time spent to complete a task will always exceed the planned time. Because, some tasks are unfamiliar to you, and you will inevitably encounter various accidents in the implementation.
But in fact, they are not accidents at all, they are just because you are not familiar with the task, they become accidents. Only after the complete execution of a task, and the attributes of the task change from unfamiliar to familiar, it is possible to successfully solve these accidents.
12.Obviously they are already so anxious that they can't do it, why don't people who procrastinate start to act? The essence lies in fear, both from within, and from without.
The internal fear is that as soon as one starts doing something, one is at risk of doing something wrong and not doing it well; The fear of the outside lies in the overestimation of the unexpected world.
13.As long as you do something, there will be problems. This is the reality, no matter who it is, no matter what it is. When you encounter difficulties, it is good to face them calmly, because this is just the normal state of life.
14.Many people don't actually know that they "like to do something" because it's relatively simple and easy to get a reward.
15.In everything you do, the most important thing is to learn how to think.
Learn to think like a project manager – they pay more attention to the "how", they spend many times more time than others to implement each step, and only after confirming that they are correct will the tasks be effectively assigned and the team can complete the tasks reliably.
16.Before doing anything, it is an indispensable lesson for a person to repeatedly split the task by focusing on the "method" and finally confirming that each subtask is achievable. Such a habit will make a person realistic and down-to-earth.
17.Since it is impossible to manage time, the only solution is to do everything possible to truly understand yourself, truly understand time, and accurately perceive time, and then try all means to make yourself and your actions in tune with time, which is "being friends with time".
18.We don't plan to fail, we plan to fail.
19.If you want to do something, of course you have to act. Action is the most effective and direct way to change yourself. In many cases, just starting to act, even if you don't plan ahead, will often pay off.
20.If you want to change yourself, or if you're not happy with where you're in the situation, keep it simple – find a task that you think should make a difference, and just do it. Don't be afraid to hit a wall, don't be afraid to fail, that's a process that must be experienced.
21.Failure is not terrible, because people always have to fail many times before they can get results, and besides, you are not the only one in the world who will fail, what are you afraid of?
The key to achieving your goals is to learn from each setback. As long as you can learn from the lessons and then adjust yourself, that's progress.
22.The most fundamental reason for not achieving anything is to give up. There are many ways to give up, the most common being "change to a better direction".
23.The key to a person's ultimate success is not because he has precisely planned his success, but because he has persevered. If you do feel that you can and should accomplish this task, then do it, and you must follow it to the end.
24.When encountering repetitive tasks, the fundamental way to improve efficiency and reduce mistakes is to complete it once, then immediately summarize and organize it, figure out the process, and then take a step closer to practice, and turn it into something that can be done with your eyes closed.
25.Always remember that acting now is the most important thing.