During the Spring Festival every year, there are always parents who "steal", "cheat" and "forcibly hand over" their children's New Year's money. Although most of them are used as Internet jokes for everyone to enjoy, in reality, there is indeed a phenomenon of parents taking possession of their children's New Year's money. Now that life is better, the elders of the children, especially the grandfathers, grandmothers and grandmothers, grandfathers and grandfathers will always give a large amount of cash to the children to celebrate the New Year, and it is a lot of property accumulated every year.
Some parents open an account for their children to save, and some parents are afraid that their children will lose it and keep it at home, but after a long time, the money will disappear "inexplicably". In the first two years, there was also a hot topic, that is, when the child grew up, he asked his mother: Where did my New Year's money go? Of course, children and parents don't really take it seriously, and the family usually shares money.
There is no wonder in the world, and this year, a couple asked to divide the 260,000 New Year's money of the two children while applying to the court for divorce. Fathers believe that they, as guardians of their children, elders or relatives and friends give their children New Year's money because of the existence of their parents, and that the New Year's money should be the common property of the family; The woman believes that the New Year's money is directly given to the child, and the guardian has the obligation to keep it, but it does not belong to the property of the husband and wife.
The husband and wife had a disagreement on who owned the New Year's money, which once caused a debate among the majority of netizens, and netizens stood in line to express their views. But with the final verdict of the court's decision, all the arguments died down. The court found thatNew Year's money is a property gift made by the elders to the younger generation based on kinship, and should belong to the minor himself, and the guardian of the minor has no right to arbitrarily dispose of the ward's property.
Article 35 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China stipulates that guardians shall perform their guardianship duties in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the ward. Guardians must not dispose of the ward's property except to protect the ward's interests.
As bystanders, we have no right to make an accurate evaluation of the behavior of these couples. But after this incident, we must establish a concept as parents: the child is our child, but also an independent individual, we can not take "the child eats me, drink mine", everything should belong to me This traditional concept continues to treat the child, if you need money urgently, you can discuss with the child to borrow it, but you dare not coax or force it to be handed over.
As guardians, parents should protect their children's health, ensure that they receive a good education, ensure that their children grow up happily, and protect their children's property. I believe that in a family with a good atmosphere, children will also take their due responsibilities and make the whole family happy and happy.