Failure is due to laziness, waste is due to idleness, and family failure is due to luxury

Mondo Culture Updated on 2024-02-23

In the "Three Character Classic", it is said: diligence is meritorious, but drama is useless.

It is to the effect that if a person insists on being diligent, he will gain something, while playing life will be unprofitable.

Everyone wants to live a good life, but wealth does not belong to certain people in a fixed way, it is all earned by hard work.

Laziness destroys everything, and diligence and thrift are eliminated.

Diligence and thrift are not only the key to a person's success, but also the foundation of a family's rise and fall.

Things are too lazy to lose

Zeng Guofan once said: "The mediocre people in the world, ancient and modern, are all defeated by a lazy word." ”

In his opinion, a person's lack of achievement in life is caused by laziness.

Once you sink into it, it is easy to give up your career halfway.

Hong Xiuquan of the Qing Dynasty founded the "God Worship Society", launched the Jintian Uprising, and established the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom.

At the beginning, Hong Xiuquan was conscientious, without slackness or waste, and led the Taiping army to fight everywhere.

During the heyday of the Taiping Army, it occupied almost half of the Qing Dynasty.

But after setting the capital in Nanjing, he became lazy, spent a lot of money to build the Tianwang Mansion, and lived a life of flowers, wine, and horses.

There were many contradictions in the Taiping army, and Hong Xiuquan did not find a way to solve them, but prayed for God's blessing.

Many important matters are no longer personally interrogated, but handed over to female officials, resulting in ** and infighting between leaders.

After the Tianjing Incident, the morale of the Taiping army was affected, and at the same time, it lost the favorable opportunity to take advantage of the victory to annihilate the enemy, and the previously strong forces weakened.

In the end, Hong Xiuquan committed suicide, and the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom Movement failed.

If Hong Xiuquan remains diligent in his struggle, it is very likely that he will realize the dream of "Taiping unification".

It's a pity that he was carried away by a momentary success, lazy and lascivious, and he didn't take half a step out of the harem for more than 10 years.

How can you be so greedy for comfort?

Lazy, this word is enough to ruin your all, no matter how big your dreams are, no matter how talented you are.

The sad thing in life is to have great ambitions but stop moving forward, and to be dissatisfied with the status quo but comfort yourself.

No ambition is not enough to go far; Without attendance, it is difficult to get things done.

Be diligent and thrifty, insist that Qingshan will not relax, and overcome all difficulties without stopping, so that you can finally get the desired result.

People are wasted because of idleness

Confucius said: "It is difficult to eat all day long and have nothing to do!" ”

The meaning is that when people are full and have nothing to do, it is difficult to achieve success if they do not think about it.

Koi Girl" believes in Derpy, who won hundreds of millions worth of prizes a few years ago.

However, the sudden "overnight rich" did not bring her the expected good luck.

Back then, she resigned and became an online blogger and took her classmates on a journey around the world.

But the redemption of various "prizes" within the time limit made her spend 200,000 yuan of her family funds and maxed out her credit card.

Wandering around the world, she has long adapted to an idle life, and it is difficult for her to keep up with the fast-paced social development.

I thought I could spend the second half of my life leisurely, but I didn't expect that just over two years later, life would enter a state of decadence.

She regrets that if she hadn't won the lottery, her current life might not be too rich, but she would be relatively stable and happy.

There are no ifs in life, only results.

Once a person is accustomed to idleness, it will be extremely difficult to return to the past.

The situation may change after that, but the trauma that has been suffered in the depths of the soul will no longer be able to **.

Idleness is a strange thing, you think it is comfort, rest and blessing, but in fact it gives you boredom, fatigue and depression.

Not only will it rob you of your hopes for the future, but it will also make you doubt life more and more.

People, short-term leisure is happiness; Spending a long time idle is a disaster.

The leisure that a person gains by overdrawing his time will one day become the misery of life.

Don't expect pie to fall from the sky, and life once and for all will not last long, only continuous diligence can achieve self-achievement.

The world is beautiful and worth fighting for each of us.

Human life is short, and none of us can extend the length of life, but we can broaden the width of life.

People are lazy and ruin their lives, and their hearts are lazy and ruined all.

Let yourself move and have something to do, be busy and idle every day, live life to the fullest, and not waste time, so that life can be meaningful.

The home is declining due to luxury

As the saying goes: "If you are not afraid of being poor at home, you are afraid of lazy insects." ”

In a family, if the offspring are arrogant and lazy, then they are not far from disaster.

Lin Zexu once said: "If my children and grandchildren are like me, what will I do with the money?" Children and grandchildren are not as good as me, what are you doing with money? ”

Li Hongzhang, an important minister in the late Qing Dynasty, probably disagreed with this warning, and left a rich fortune to his children after his death.

thought that these family properties would make the Li family continue to prosper, but by the generation of his grandson Li Zijia, the Li family began to decline.

After his father's death, Li Zijia was allocated 10,000 acres of rented land and a number of real estate, and he could also receive 100 yuan from the bank every month.

The family has so much property, Li Zijia doesn't care about the family's affairs, and the rented land is also handed over to others.

He went in and out of casinos and green buildings all day long, squandering day after day, year after year, and soon lost all his family property.

When his mother asked him to find a job, he didn't do it, and in a fit of anger, his mother stopped caring about him, and his wife divorced him.

Li Zijia couldn't stand the life of being under the fence and starving, so he committed suicide by jumping into the water in winter.

Whether a family is prosperous or not depends not on how much wealth the ancestors have left to their descendants, but on whether the diligent and thrifty family style can be inherited.

The best family style is to be diligent and thrifty, avoid arrogance and luxury, and do not leave property to children and grandchildren.

The Tao Te Ching says: "Rich and arrogant, self-blame." ”

If a person is lazy because of the wealth of his family, he has lost his family style of diligence and thrift, and he can only eat the fruits of his own life.

In a family, diligence and thrift are not necessarily blessed, but laziness and luxury will definitely be poor.

Living conditions are good now, which is not a reason to be lazy; The family is rich, and it is not a waste of capital.

If your descendants don't know how to be diligent and thrifty, even if you leave behind mountains of gold and silver, you will eventually be defeated by them.

Therefore, no matter how good your living conditions are and how rich your family property is, you must not abandon the family style of diligence and thrift.

While setting an example, parents should strictly discipline and supervise corrections when they find that their children have vices such as laziness and laziness, extravagance and waste.

Words and deeds teach children and grandchildren to develop the habit of diligence and thrift, and a good family style is passed on from generation to generation, so that the family will produce talents and prosper.

Feng Menglong said: "Wealth has no roots, it comes from diligence." ”

How much ability a person has, how much happiness he can enjoy, but a good life is never easy to get.

You must know that the gift that fate gives to everyone has actually been secretly marked a long time ago.

All achievements are in overcoming laziness, if you want to live the best life, you must first let life see the best you.

Less envy of others, more self-improvement is fundamental, the ability is not strong, the ability is not strong, the knowledge is not diligent, the life is not rich, the thrift.

But knowing diligence is blessed, and food and clothing are naturally abundant.

You have to believe that if you cherish the good time, be diligent and persevere, your career will be more brilliant and your family will be happier.

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