Some people say that I don't get married, I don't have children, and when I get old, I can have money, is this really the case?
They said that I could save a lot of money to go to a high-end nursing home, and I could also hire a nanny for a lot of money.
But in fact, if you have no children and no daughters when you are old, and your health is not good, it means that you don't have any backers, and it is not good to go into a high-end nursing home and hire any kind of nanny.
As the old saying goes, raising children to prevent old age, mothers are more expensive than children.
Although it sounds a bit vulgar now, and many young people are still gnawing at the old, this sentence not only refers to filial piety before bed and giving money to support.
In fact, there is another meaning to this, someone made an analogy, saying that biological children are like nuclear **, you can do without it, but you can't do without.
Eh, there is some truth to this sentence. Because there's humanity behind it.
What is the worst thing in the depths of human nature? That is, when he confirms that he has done bad things to you and no one will hold him accountable, he can treat you badly with impunity.
Whether it is a nursing home or a nanny, in essence, they are not responsible for an old man in his seventies and eighties, but for the client behind the old man.
In the subconscious of these people, they know that if he treats you badly, someone will come to him for trouble.
But if there are no children, no daughters, no clients, the old man is not in good health, and his brain is not good, then the situation is different.
An old man in his seventies and eighties, the only reliance is to hope for the conscience of those people, but is it reliable to rely on anyone's conscience in this year? Obviously not very reliable.
Remember the story of Li Chunping, the richest man in Beijing?
In the 90s, Li Chunping, who was nearly 40 years old, married a foreign wife who was more than 30 years older than him, and his wife passed away soon after, and he inherited an inheritance of tens of billions.
Later, he returned to China to develop and became the richest man in Beijing, and in the next 20 years, he was keen on charity, and donated a total of hundreds of millions. 3 top-of-the-line Rolls-Royce, 80 million mansions, 39 house books, 600 million antiques, how about it? Rich enough, right?
But in his later years, he suffered from Alzheimer's syndrome, and a huge amount of property was transferred by a nanny who colluded with inside and outside.
In the cold winter, the nanny blatantly pushed him to the housing management hall to go through the procedures for transferring the property, when he was so cold that he cried, the police came to ask him what was going on, he said he didn't know, only remembered that he signed a lot of contracts.
It is understood that the nanny usually doesn't pay much attention to him, and she sits in a wheelchair in a daze.
Some people say that money can buy everything, but in fact, money can't buy blood ties, it can't buy a healthy body.
When people can't crawl when they are old, it is not only to see whether you have enough money in your pocket, but also to see if there is someone behind you, whether this person is hard enough? Not good enough!
If you don't understand this question, then when you get old, what you are waiting for may be a nightmare.