Life is like a dream, and there are many troubles, but most of them are just self-inflicted troubles. There is nothing wrong in the world, but people often get in the way of themselves and make themselves the source of trouble. Why not go with the flow, face life calmly, and live with ease?
1. Everything in the world is the result of encounters.
The Reader has passages like this: When cold meets warm, there is rain; Winter meets spring, and there is a year; When heaven and earth meet, there is eternity; When people meet, they are born.
Every encounter and parting is a coincidence of cause and effect. When fate comes, no one can stop it, and when fate goes, no one can protect it. Everything is planned, guided by the situation, guided by the situation, regrets and regrets, all caused by providence. From now on, the best way to live is not to seek results, not to seek endings, but when destiny comes, cherish it and let it go.
2.Time and energy must be allowed to develop in their own direction.
Mr. Sanmao said. "What we deliberately look for, we often can't find. Everything in the world has periods that come and go. "Life is full of ups and downs. Hard work doesn't always pay off, and hard work doesn't necessarily bring integrity. After a long time, the body will get tired, and after a long time, the heart will also get tired.
It's yours. After all, it's yours. It's not yours. No matter how hard you try, you can't get it. Therefore, it is wise to be diligent in cause and follow fate. In this world, when everything is going well, natural surprises are more important than luck.
3. Reunion and farewell, a normal state of life.
Li Shutong said: "It is rare to reunite in life, and the only way to leave is to leave frequently. "As I've gotten older, I've learned more and more. The reunion was an accident, and the separation was a coincidence. Standard. No party lasts forever, and no parting is painful. Even if you've been together for a long time, there will always be someone who brings up the breakup first. What comes is accidental, what goes is inevitable, it is natural, and it is natural.
When we part, let us cherish each other; When we say goodbye, let's smile and congratulate each other. On the day of the return trip, you can come and go as you please, day or night, near or far. Rejoice when you come, cherish when you go, this is the most comfortable relationship.
4. Friends should communicate with each other sincerely.
Wen Zhongzi and Li said: "If you are with Li, then Li will disappear; If you are in harmony with the potential, you will die; If you lose power, you will die, and if you merge, you will disperse. "If you're bound by power, if you lose power, you're going to give up. If you are bound by love, love will break. If love breaks, you will be hurt for a long time. "Friends are not the background, but the communication of hearts. We are brought together by fate, respecting our talents, being true to our character, and maintaining our integrity.
Poor or rich, there is no hypocrisy between us, only honesty, no contempt, only respect. After all, time knows a person, and adversity knows a person's heart. Between good friends, don't ask where you come from, just ask if it's real. Hypocrisy is everywhere, but true friends are hard to find. Two or three true friends are better than thousands of acquaintances, cherish them.
5. Family is the harbor of love.
As the saying goes, "No two leaves in the world are the same." "Everyone has a different background, a different experience, and a different perspective. When families live together, differences are inevitable. Home is not a place for quarrels, but a haven of love.
Truly intelligent people do not use their families as a place for fighting, but rather understand each other, tolerate each other, and live in harmony. Instead of arguing endlessly, learn to forgive and be grateful. Only by making concessions in small things, taking a step back in major matters, not arguing, not caring, can we achieve warmth and harmony.
6.Cherish the present and live in the moment.
Yu Guangzhong once said, "The next time you pass by, I will no longer be in this world. "Life is short, but 100 years, 30,000 days. You can't go back, you can't start over. A short life is full of calculations.
Don't waste your youth, make the most of your time while you're still young. Take care of your feelings and don't let them down; Take care of your time and don't waste it; Take care of your health and don't waste it; Take care of your life and don't waste it. Let's. Because the debts owed in this life may not be paid off in the next life. Let every moment of life go by as you like, cherish every moment, and live in the moment.