I lay down and went to bed at nine o'clock in the evening, I don't know how long I slept, the phone rang again, waking me up, I subconsciously picked up the phone and saw that it was my son calling**. I was impatient to connect, and my son said to me with a smile: "Mom, when are you coming for the New Year, I'll pick you up." Hearing him say this, I was angry and immediately rejected him: "How many times have I said it, if I don't go to your place for the New Year, you have to call me what to do." My son said to me coquettishly: "Mom, what are you doing for the New Year, it's so boring, you might as well come to us." "My son has been fighting for this several times.
Maybe you think that my son is filial to me, after all, not anyone's son can call so many ** to the old mother in just a few days to persuade her to go to the New Year. But in reality, my son has ulterior motives. You must know that in normal times, my son is reluctant to contact me at all, and when the Chinese New Year is approaching, he just asks me to be a free nanny.
To this day, I still remember how painful it was to celebrate the New Year at my son's house. Last year, I was invited by my son to their house for the New Year, originally I was very excited, I thought I could have a good New Year, who knew that I just arrived at my son's house a few days ago, the in-laws came, and then the daughter-in-law's younger brother's family also came, and then there were a lot of relatives on the daughter-in-law's side, I didn't know any of them, and they were all crowded in our house. Originally, my son's family was small, and there were so many people here, which was really confusing. What's more, after they came, all the housework and cooking actually fell on my head. In fact, at the beginning, I was just polite, treating myself as family and treating them as guests, but after a long time, they actually treated me as a nanny and began to call and drink, without respect at all. The most uncomfortable thing for me is that I still cook every day, I have to cook for many people by myself, and I have to turn on the rice cooker several times, and every time the food is not enough, I have to go out to buy vegetables by myself. After a long time, I really couldn't stand it, and complained to my son, but my son also complained to me, saying that he didn't know that so many people came, so let me take care of it more, otherwise I really can't do it.
What can I say, in that case, I can only do the housework. To my disappointment, I would like to think that I am doing my son and daughter-in-law a favor, and that they can both treat me better for my sake. Who knew that my son and daughter-in-law also had a bad attitude towards me, and it was like a nanny, and my heart was really cold. My son and daughter-in-law are like this to me, and my in-laws and their relatives are the same, and of course their attitude towards me is not much better.
I remember during the Chinese New Year, one night, when I was resting in the house, a relative from my in-laws suddenly came to me and said, "Your son asked you to move to another room, and this room will be for us to live in." "I thought it was strange at the time, but I didn't say anything, after all, we have been obedient all our lives, and we are in my son's house. So, I moved the futon to the sofa, and the man naturally moved in, and when my son came back, I immediately asked him suspiciously, why did you let me move out? What's going on? Unexpectedly, my son said, "How can there be such a thing, I have never let you move out." "Immediately I understood, probably the man said it on purpose. I was very angry, and my son was also angry, and I wanted to talk to that person, but my daughter-in-law stopped me, and in the end, it was finally gone.
So, during the Chinese New Year at my son's house, I slept on the sofa, the living room was not bigger than the room, the space was too big, I couldn't gather the heat, I felt very cold, and I felt cold after covering several floors. In order not to cause trouble to my son, I didn't say anything, sometimes I couldn't stand it, I also found the person who grabbed my room and said, let him return the room to me, who knew that he said with a smile; "Tell your son to tell me, and I'll leave when he says so. "Then I can't say anything. All in all, during the Chinese New Year at my son's house last year, I not only had to serve the food and daily life of more than a dozen people, but also had to endure their verbal ridicule and mental suppression. Last year, just after the seventh day of the new year, I asked my son to send me back quickly. My son reluctantly, with a bitter face, sent me home.
This year, my son tried his old tricks again and wanted to take me home for the Chinese New Year, but I told him that I didn't want to be a free babysitter for them.