Less than half a year after marrying her husband, he showed his fox tail and asked his mother-in-law to be a lobbyist so that I could share the family's expenses.
I was angry, cleared my throat and calmed down a little, and asked my mother-in-law how to AA law, my mother-in-law put on the demeanor of everyone, and said with a fair and just face: "Ning Ning, I know that you young people now like to accept a new life, and the husband and wife AA system is already very common abroad, and you are also a new woman, this is not uncomfortable to accept, right?" ”
I thought about it for a while, well, let's make a list.
Li Yang, yes, my husband, who has been in love for 3 years and has been married for half a year, drafted the AA system of living guidelines in the middle of the night, including the family's water, electricity and gas bills, money for groceries, various living expenses, and rent.
I squinted at this detailed list, and I said, everything else is fine, but you didn't list the housework, and the rent also seems to be problematic, the house was bought before you got married, yes, but your parents still live in the house, I only occupy half of the bed, and you let me pay half of the market price for the rent, which is not very cost-effective. I said that the house has three rooms, I will live in one, and I will pay 1 3 of the market rent.
Li Yang was a little reluctant, but he couldn't do anything for me to be fair, so he could only admit it.
So I packed up my belongings and moved to a small room, never having to be woken up in the middle of the night by the sound of snoring. Li Yang couldn't sleep several times and wanted to come to me, but my room was locked and didn't let him step into half a step.
In the past, I sacrificed a lot of my favorite dishes for their eating habits. After the AA system of life, I no longer have to pretend, I buy my favorite dishes every day to eat, they used to love each other a family of three before waiting for me to go back to cook for them after work, since the AA system of life, I no longer have to rush back to cook every day after work, more time can go to the little sisters to get together, go shopping and watch movies, so unhappy.
And Li Yang's family has had a bit of a bad time, they have been used to eating the dishes I cook for most of the past six months, and now they are reincarnated with his parents to cook, as the saying goes, from thrift to luxury, from luxury to thrift, Li Yang began to feel all kinds of discomfort. My parents-in-law began to quarrel over who to cook every day, and with the drag of housework, they could no longer go downstairs every day to play chess and square dance like other elderly people as before. Sometimes when I cook fragrant food, Li Yang and his parents start to look at me, if I changed it, I would definitely feel embarrassed, but now I eat it openly, spend my money, and make my own meals, I don't have to be embarrassed at all.
Maybe you say, after the AA system, did you spend more on living expenses, indeed, Li Yang used to contract most of the family expenses, and now I have to pay half out of my own pocket, which is indeed more than before. But now that I have less housework and more time in the evening, I have started to use my spare time to do some part-time online work, and it is not difficult to persevere and earn enough for my living expenses.
Li Yang began to regret it, and every night he paced at the door of my room to talk to me, but I said that I didn't need to talk, I didn't know how good it was. My parents-in-law began to worry about our relationship, and some of them began to relent, but they put forward the system, and I didn't want to withdraw it, so they didn't dare to pull down their faces in the end.
It's been a year since the time turned, and my days are getting cooler and cooler, but Li Yang and his parents have begun to have conflicts, and they are inseparable from their trivial housework! I wondered how they had survived the past few decades before I married into their family, and how they couldn't survive if I didn't interfere in their internal affairs.
The AA system has lived for too long, Li Yang has become a dispensable character in my life, even if he regained his previous warmth and politeness, and expressed regret for not being at the beginning, but I already have other plans. Finally one day, when I came home, Li Yang took out his mobile phone to show me his friend's child, saying what a cute child. Muma? Started to trick me into having a baby? I saw his intentions at a glance, but he didn't see my reaction, and still put on the show that he was an infatuated man, saying that he wanted to have a child with me.
Mmmmmm, I'm afraid that the current technology can't meet our needs to have children", I said calmly.
What the? Li Yang couldn't believe it, "But everything is normal for both of us!" ”
Traditional childbirth is no problem, the problem is our AA system of life, and the task of having children also has AA, you are pregnant for 5 months, I am pregnant for 5 months." I mean it.
Li Yang's face was flushed with anger, he had never heard of this and could AA, "If we don't have children, we will divorce!" ”
OK! I agreed, Li Yang didn't expect that I, who had always been cowardly, would agree so readily. He was a little overwhelmed at first, but after more than a year, I saw his true colors, divorce is a matter of time, and once a woman is broken, she will become hard-hearted.
Family is not a reasonable place, the AA system is even more unfeasible, I hope that every family is a joint effort for both parties to reap happiness, rather than scheming to draw a clear line, so what is the difference with strangers, what do you say?