The younger brother got married, everything was ready and waiting for the day to come, and the bride suddenly passed the word, saying that the house and car that the previous two families said were arranged casually, and it didn't count. They are just a baby girl, and their own conditions are not bad, and they must not be lower than other people's daughters, so they must prepare the marriage room again.
Seeing that the invitations have been sent out, the bride's house has come to this one, so anxious that my parents' blood pressure is rubbing up, and my younger brother is also in a hurry to get on the fire with a big blister, who wants to ask two more words, the young man of one meter eight, immediately sighed and wiped his tears, and now he can borrow all the money, a total of 50,000 yuan, which can not even buy a bathroom.
I was also anxious, but no matter how anxious I was, I was more than willing to do it.
But in the end, my parents turned their attention to me again.
There is also a reason why it is said again.
Five years ago, I graduated from junior college to catch up with the good time, found a good unit, the monthly salary is more than 10,000 yuan, I don't have any special hobbies, at most is to buy some daily necessities, so at least 8,000 yuan a month, are used by my parents to help save the reason for the past.
I'm an honest person, and I gave it to my parents, so I never seriously asked, checked, and how much money I earned.
It wasn't until Jianqiang and I established a relationship and were ready to take out 100,000 yuan for a down payment house that my parents took out their salary cards with a look of embarrassment, saying that there were a total of 20,000 yuan in it, and if it was not enough, let me think of a way again.
Naturally, I don't believe in that little money, you must know that those colleagues who work with me spend their monthly food and drink, and their bank cards have saved 100,000 yuan.
Seeing that I didn't believe it, my parents took out a small notebook and began to settle accounts.
The year before last, I took out 50,000 yuan to buy insurance for your father, and if you keep the capital, you will return it at the age of 70, and this money will be regarded as the pension money for your daughter's filial piety.
There are still 50,000 or 60,000 yuan, and the old couple has bought a regular financial management plan, and the income is good, that is, if they take it out now, let alone have income, whether the capital can come back is two words.
As for the remaining 35,2000 taken out sporadically, they were all for your brother's living expenses, as well as inviting people to eat and arranging work for him.
After calculating the big expenses, my parents poked their fingers at the hundreds of expenses in the book, which are all the daily expenses of the family, buying vegetables, cream, rice, noodles, and gas and electricity, not only we use it, but you also use it, anyway, it is a messy account, and it is not clear.
Don't you know that I was pinching the salary card at the time, looking at the balance of 20,000 yuan, I felt so aggrieved, but I met the eager eyes of my parents, and I couldn't say anything to complain.
has said that the money is spent on his own family, if you care about it, others will not poke the backbone?
In the end, I could only swallow this grievance alive.
Fortunately, Jianqiang is a clear and sensible person, although people were a little surprised by his parents' approach, but in the end, he worked hard to make enough down payment, and after discussing with his in-laws, he directly wrote my name on the house purchase book.
If this is the end of the matter, it is not a chill, but the fault is that just ten days after the wedding of Jianqiang and me, my younger brother took over a Golf in full, with a high-end automatic transmission, and landed more than 200,000 yuan.
For this matter, the good-natured Jianqiang had a dislike with me for the first time.
Jianqiang said that he can understand that I can't get half of the down payment I promised, but I can't forgive my parents for taking advantage of the bad situation at home, receiving 130,000 dowries, and even a few thousand yuan of electric car is not willing to be a dowry, but after the daughter gets married, the full amount of the car for their son is lifted!
I was also aggrieved, I couldn't come up with the words of marriage, it was my parents who said it themselves, and how did I know that my parents would have money to buy a car for my younger brother?
I also went home to ask my parents about this, thinking that I would have an explanation for Jianqiang, but who knew that the old couple not only didn't continue to pretend to be pitiful that time, but even pushed me away with a word.
The marriage is over, what's the use of saying that?I can't make it up to you!Besides, they are all married daughters, so don't get involved in your mother's affairs. ”
In the face of my parents' indifference, I was sad, and swore on the spot that if I asked my mother's family one more thing in the future, I would be thundered five times!
But the flesh and blood affection can be broken in one or two sentencesNot to mention that I'm still a soft-hearted person, the sulking here hasn't finished yet, and my parents are a** over: how can my family have an overnight feud?I went back to my parents' house to help prepare for my brother's wedding.
Maybe it's because my daughter is still a little useful, my parents have a good attitude towards me, I can't stop asking for warmth, I have a hot brain, and I used my salary to supplement my parents' wedding clothes at the wedding banquet and my brother's suit.
At that time, I thought very simply, the family had a big event about my brother's marriage, and when it was successfully completed, my parents were relieved. But ** thought that the bride was on the doorstep, and it was a big problem for the whole house.
Weiwei, you are the boss, you are the sister, this time you have to help your brother get through the difficulties, otherwise your parents will lose face. ”
I laughed angrily, to put it simply, you can't do anything about the three of you, what can I do?
Seeing that his parents were embarrassed to speak, his younger brother simply made his words clear.
Sister, I can only rely on my brother-in-law to help me buy a house, his family situation is good, his parents have a retirement salary, and there are two sisters above, both of whom are married well, and it is easy to make up 200,000 yuan. ”
The words are reasonable, but the ideas are too inauthentic.
You don't count me as a sister who drinks blood and eats meat, and you still want to pull your brother-in-law to wade into troubled waters, it's really daring to think!
Seeing that I didn't say anything, my parents were still helping to figure out how to get Jianqiang.
Vivi, obedient. If he doesn't borrow 200,000 yuan, you will scare him into divorce, anyway, you have all your children, and their family loves children, so they will definitely not agree to divorce, and the money will definitely be borrowed at that time. ”
I refused, absolutely not.
If you really want Jianqiang to help, let your younger brother explain the reason to Jianqiang well, and then make an IOU.
As soon as I heard that I had to pay an IOU for borrowing my son-in-law's money, my parents immediately blew it up like a cannonball, and the two of them pointed at my nose and counted them down.
What is the purpose of being a father and mother having children? Isn't there something wrong with each other? You, a girl, why can't you see your mother's family doing well? You don't want to think about it, your brother carries an IOU of 200,000 yuan every day, how much psychological pressure is there? How do you live a stressful life?
After the number was over, the old couple began to play the family card again.
When you were a child, you were very skinny, as long as you went out, you caused all kinds of trouble, either hit the glass of the Zhang family, or kicked the big cat of the Li family, as soon as people came to the door, which time was not your brother out for you? No matter who asks, they all say that he did it, and if you want to teach him a lesson, you will teach him a lesson!
Also, don't look at your brother who doesn't talk to you much on weekdays, that's because he has a boring temperament and doesn't like to behave, in fact, he loves you!
Mom and Dad chattered about a lot of my brother's goodness, but my head was about to break, and I didn't find how many brothers did those things in my memory, on the contrary, the clearest thing in my memory was because of a chicken leg, which I stole and ate, and then my brother found out that he shouted loudly to his mother, and the result was that I was beaten up.
When I grew up, I didn't contact for a long time, and if I suddenly received a message from my younger brother and called **, it was also asking for living expenses.
To be honest, at that moment, I even doubted that the sister and brother who my parents said were in deep harmony with each other, whether it was me and my brother!
However, in the end, it is all in the past, and no matter how to prove it, there is no point, and the things that should be solved have to be solved.
Seeing that things were stuck, the family was in a hurry, and the younger brother, who contacted classmates and friends to borrow money, suddenly threw out a bombshell news.
He said that an old classmate who worked in the Urban Renewal Bureau leaked the grapevine: the land will be demolished in half a year. According to the compensation standards of other districts, our house can also compensate at least more than one million.
This news gave my parents the confidence to ask Jianqiang for money, anyway, there will be compensation after the demolition.
The matter was settled, and in front of his parents and younger brother, Jianqiang put 200,000 yuan neatly on the table.
As for the IOU, it was written by my younger brother himself, and my parents also pressed their handprints together, although the scene at that time looked a little awkward, but according to what Jianqiang said, my brother settled the account, and I think it was right.
With money, my brother's wedding was naturally completed smoothly, during which Jianqiang asked me twice about money, saying that your mother's family would be like those people outside, and also do 200,000 disgraces, I replied that it was absolutely impossible!
Anyway, it's my own parents and younger brother, as long as they can pay it back, they will never do anything to embarrass me.
Besides, don't you still have an IOU in your hand!
But that will be full of confidence, and when I really want to start the demolition and know that the compensation is about to come down, my parents' attitude towards me is a slap in the face.
Weiwei, you can't learn from our married daughters, who want to share the demolition money of their mother's family, remember, you must not say a word about the demolition in front of your brother and daughter-in-law. are all married, don't make your mother's family unhappy. ”
These words are like a handful of salt sprinkled on my already traumatized heart, and the tears of grievance are even more worthless.
Now that I think about it, I was spilled by my married daughter, so when I begged me with tears and snot to find a way to make up money to subsidize my younger brother to buy a car and a house, why didn't I say that it had nothing to do with me?
It's okay if you don't give points, the 200,000 borrowed on the black and white IOU must be repaid!
As soon as I heard me talk about the 200,000 yuan lent by Jianqiang, my parents' faces immediately changed.
No wonder people say girls are outgoing!Don't you just see your mother's family live a little better?200,200,000 all day, wait, when there will be another talk. ”
I'm in a hurry, aren't all the demolition money paid by bank card?When will you have to let Jianqiang and me quarrel over money, and you can't live your life, you can be considered willing, right?
My parents were ruthless, and seeing that they couldn't talk to me on the same road, they actually pushed my brother and daughter-in-law out to negotiate with me.
The younger brother and daughter-in-law are even more powerful, and they threw away the cruel words as soon as they met.
This home is now mine, and even the way of a penny has to pass through my hands. As for what you said about 200,000, I'm sorry, it was all something that happened before I got married, so I don't care. ”
I was in a hurry, and dragged my parents who were loading air next to me.
The loan was brought up by you, and when my brother wrote the IOU, you also saw it, why are you still pushing it clean now, and you don't recognize anything!
They look at me, look at you, and the words they say poke people's lungs.
Girl, it would have been said that the demolition money would be repaid after it was down, but isn't the situation different now! Your brother and daughter-in-law are pregnant, and there are many places to spend money on this child, so we must plan well, right?
Besides, if you don't talk about two families, you and your brother both grew up under the same mother, can you really break off because of 200,000 graces? Not worth it! ”
Grief, anger, joy, embarrassment, sadness, all kinds of emotions were mixed together, I trembled with anger, and I cried loudly.
The younger brother and daughter-in-law didn't see it, and generally entered their bedroom and slammed the door. Although my parents didn't leave, the purpose was to try to continue to persuade me, let go of the 200,000 yuan first, and don't mention it for the time being.
Jianqiang said I deserved it.
I've suffered a loss in the previous salary card, and I don't remember it for a long time.
After scolding, he hugged me in his arms and comforted me in distress.
We have an IOU, and they will always give it, depending on the length of time. ”
But this time I don't want to continue to be wronged.
A week later, as the court summons me to my mother's home, I was scolded.
My parents scolded me for being wolf-hearted, I knew that I could do the ugly thing of suing them for a little money, and I should have been thrown into the urinal and drowned when I was born!
You have to warn me when you're done.
Hurry up and remove the situation, otherwise we will never want to enter our mother's house without a girl like you in the future! ”
My younger brother, who has been hiding from me, almost did something to me. He scolded me for having my brain in water, knowing that his daughter-in-law was pregnant and needed to recuperate, and he made this moth thing disgusting.
In the end, he released cruel words.
If my daughter-in-law is angry and does anything, let alone 200,000, you have to take it out obediently! ”
Can such relatives still be called backers?
I can't wait to drink my blood and eat my flesh!
Jianqiang was worried about me, and discussed that if it was not counted, it would be 200,000, and they would not be rich enough for them, nor would they be poor for us, so they would spend money to buy a lesson, and at most they would have a better mind about what to do in the future.
I refused. Three days later, the court went to the meeting alone, facing the hatred of my parents and listening to the curses in the mouths of my brother and daughter-in-law, I calmly took out the IOU.
Today is the arrival of the king of heaven, and this money must be repaid! ”
Now half a month has passed since I successfully asked my mother's family for debts, and many relatives and friends have also heard about it, and they say that I am a bit ruthless in doing things, and I am still a close relative.
Is it really ruthless?
Not only did I not feel wrong, but I wanted to praise myself for taking the last step bravely!
In the past, I retreated step by step, that is, I felt that there was a mother's family behind me, which was a safe haven and a backer. **Thinking of them, but through this little affection, the most selfish greed of human nature is displayed.
If I can't be reborn in Nirvana, then this selfish family affection will continue to be coerced and unable to extricate myself.