Hello dear readers! Today, I will share my life experience with you as a mature woman, Wu Jiahui.
First of all, allow me to introduce myself. Born in the beautiful Anhui province, I experienced a period of rural life, and worked hard with my sister in the big city of Guangdong since I was a child, and during this time, I met the most important partner in my life, Li Yong.
I clearly remember that at that time, I was young and beautiful, with better skin than snow, delicate European-style double eyelids, and a tall figure, and my height just reached 16 meters. At that time, I was working in a garment factory, but there were not a few men who pursued me. Li Yong was the best of these suitors, he was the head of the assembly line at the time, he cared for me meticulously, and under his enthusiastic pursuit, I was intoxicated with dreamy love and couldn't extricate myself.
Li Yong's eloquence is as sweet as honey, he often praises me, does not hesitate to praise my beauty, and says in an intimate tone: "Jiahui, you are so beautiful and moving, you are the little princess in my heart." "Every time I hear him say that, I feel intoxicated, I love the compliments he gives me, and I love to listen to his gentle Cantonese. At that time, I was young and energetic, and I believed in all his sweet vows, and we both always spent quality time together after the overtime. At that time, I thought that my partner was the director, and I was very proud.
Li Yong, who grew up in Zhaoqing, Guangdong, promised me an apartment near the company for both of us. At that time, I really thought that I was the happiest woman in the world, and my heart was extremely satisfied. It is worth mentioning that the rumors about Li Yong in the unit are quite bizarre. He is 3 years older than me, and I heard that he has pursued many beautiful girls, but in the end, without exception, he chose to leave or avoid him directly. I didn't care about that, because before we got married, Li Yong had already bought a second-hand apartment not far from the company, and I was very happy about it. Although my parents did not support this marriage, I still resolutely chose to marry in Guangdong. However, it turns out that marriages that are not blessed by my parents are often not happy for long, and my mother cried on my wedding day.
At the beginning of our marriage, life was peaceful and beautiful, my mother-in-law helped take care of our daughter, and my husband and I both found jobs, although we were busy but full of peace of mind. However, when our lovely daughter was 6 years old, the family suddenly changed dramatically, and my husband began to be cold and alienated from me, drinking and going out all day, and the relationship with other women became blurred.
The graceful past was like a cloud drifting in the sky, and I was a fearless woman who believed that she could overcome all difficulties. However, the reality is cruel and unforgiving, my husband's cheating crush turned out to be a mediocre but good dressing woman, and even once was taken care of by an elderly man. When I learned the truth, I was simply stunned, and I was so angry at the fact that my husband had betrayed me that my whole person almost collapsed. He and I had a violent argument and even wanted to die. However, after much thought, I decided to face it strongly and decided to divorce him.
It was a dark time, I was overwhelmed, my weight plummeted, my whole body was in a state of malaise, I dressed casually, and I could even go out in slippers. However, with the help of my disappointed father-in-law and my mother-in-law, who turned a blind eye, and my husband's firm attitude, he agreed to the divorce, the house and children belonged to me, and my husband needed to pay 3,000 yuan a month in child support. Despite the setbacks and hardships of life, I always persevered and forged ahead, and eventually took on the responsibilities of the family on my own and became an independent woman.
I vividly remember that when I decided to leave my old company and draw a line with my ex-husband, it meant that I took a step forward and started a new rhythm of life. The challenges of my new life forced me to find a well-paying job while struggling to take care of my daughter and take care of myself. Now, by chance, I met a man from Guizhou who is divorced and has a daughter. Although this man named Li Huachen has an ordinary appearance, he exudes a strong warmth. I was even more touched by his love for my daughter, as if I was treating her as a new treasure for myself.
So, I accepted his marriage proposal without hesitation and became a complete family. Along the way, my friends enthusiastically encouraged me to try to get acquainted, fall in love, and even live together with him. However, I still have reservations about getting married. I know that marriage is not child's play, I don't want to suffer emotional trauma again, and financial and child issues can also bring a lot of pressure in marriage, considering that I am about to enter my 40s and my desire to have children is becoming more and more stable, so cohabitation may be more suitable for us.
But whenever Li Huachen mentions marriage.
I have a big head, but I'm afraid of losing him, so I don't know how to deal with it?
Some friends reminded me that Guizhou men don't want it, I just want to live together, but Li Chenhua is not.
Except for my mother, who suggested that I get a license to remarry and have another baby, everyone else is basically opposed.
I really don't know what to do?