Readers who have been following me for a long time also know that you can't do free things, you can't vent your precious energy when you have nothing to do, and you have to save your energy every day. So how do you save, or rather boost your energy? One way to do this is not to think about others, but only yourself. Focus the spotlight on yourself, not the cats and dogs around you, and deeply realize that you are the whole of the world. You must know that this world exists because of you, and the moment you die, the whole world will disappear completely with you. You are the protagonist of the world, everyone else is a supporting role, and you don't care what other people think of you. When you become more and more focused on yourself, you will continue to improve, you will become more and more sober, the whole person's luck will enter a state of detoxification, in a period of up to a year or two, you will climb to a new level, you will say goodbye to many people, you will figure out a lot of things. As long as you can do this, then all the good fortune will follow, and you will have a steady stream of energy to flow into it and become a high-energy person. In fact, no one really wants you to do well, including your parents, your wife, and your children. Unless they know that they have a share of the fruits of your labor. So many people will pull you down in a different way, maybe they don't know it, but the subconscious must not want you to get better. They will make you be more generous, let you give more to yourself, and talk less about benefits. In the company, the leaders will tell you: you need to take responsibility, work harder, and treat the company as your home. They say it's all for your own good, don't focus too much on reimbursement and expenses, it's not good for you. 
Although your monthly salary is only 3,000 yuan, you don't need to complain, you have to be on call at all times, and at the same time, you have to constantly improve your skills. In this process, you need to be selfless, and in a few years I will consider giving you a salary increase of a few hundred yuan.
At home (poor family), the family will tell you: you have to work outside to earn money, it is not easy for us to support you, and we also provided for you to go to college, and now is the time for you to repay us. They expect you to pay your salary every month and say they will help you save the money and pay it back to you later.
If you want to travel or have other expenses, they may think it's unnecessary because they think you can't manage your finances and need them to take care of your finances.
They will emphasize that you should be more filial now that you live with your family, and that it is all for your own good.
When you hang out with your friends, they may make you pay or borrow money from you. They may tell you that they haven't been paid this month or have run out of money and need your help.
They may mention that you just paid your salary the other day and hope that you will be able to lend them some money and promise to pay you back later. They may stress that they should be helpful and generous to each other. However, you may find that you lend money and never get it back.
And most poor ghosts have a common trait that they have a good face, they have to be poor and generous no matter what, even if they don't have much money, they have to lend money to others, which is stupid.
In fact, anyone who always advises you to be generous and persuade you to dedicate, then you have to be careful, he must be holding back to harm you. Without exception. These people are all pping you in vain, they are all taking advantage of you, even if they ask you to dislike, but as long as they stand on the moral high ground and sanction you, you will have nothing to say, you can only honestly let them succeed, but you must be unhappy in your heart. Time is life, and if a person allows you to experience negative emotions on a regular basis, then that time is wasted and these life essences will be tainted.
So the question is, why can these stupid dogs defile your life essence, and why let these stupid dogs ruin your time and your life? So you must stay away from people who suppress, deny, and hate you, even if they claim that it is all for your own good. 
Be friends with people who support, praise, and encourage you, and your happiness in life will be greatly improved. Also, while maintaining your own energy, don't laugh at yourself in front of others, especially not in front of fools. A fool laughs at himself, he may laugh at you when he listens to your self-deprecation, and thinks you are rubbish, he thinks he can pinch you, and he will definitely indulge himself in front of you.
So never laugh at yourself in front of stupid people, they will take it seriously and will be arrogant in front of you. Stupid people will teach you to do things when they see you laughing at yourself, and they will directly contradict you, but as high-energy people, we are not allowed to correct others, even if you know that they are jumping into the fire pit, you can't tell them. People can't teach people, but things can be taught as soon as they are taught. One percent of a person's awakening depends on the reminder of others, and the remaining 99 percent is awakened by a thousand cuts. Intellectual charity is the greatest waste, and when you help others for free, that is the day your relationship with them ends. Therefore, let go of the plot of helping others and respect the fate of others, the biggest reason why the old people in the village live to be more than 90 years old is not to meddle in their affairs, the mud is good, you have to help him up on the wall, the salted fish is lying well, you have to turn him over. A piece of rotten wood, you have to carve it into a talent, restrain yourself to correct other people's desires, and don't arbitrarily intervene in other people's cause and effect. The rules of the game in society, the difficulty coefficient and cost layer by layer, are locked up by different people, layer by layer. There will be such a sentence: adults are ultimately screened out. How much money you can earn is not made by time, but by others in society who screen you out. So, keep your high energy and don't let it be sucked away by others. Finally, I would like to tell you a little bit about execution, I often urge everyone to do the right thing in the VIP group and fill up the execution, so that you will have unexpected surprises and growth. Many people do nothing in their lives, that is, they do not do the right thing, they have no sense of responsibility, and as soon as people have a sense of responsibility, wisdom immediately appears. The best education is in action. Only in the process of doing things will you create a moat for your high energy, so that others will not soon break through your city and take your high energy away. The more you do, the more you think, the more small successes, the wider the moat, the higher your energy will be, and the more you will focus on yourself. 
A lot of people don't get what they want because they don't dare say what they want. The consequences of inaction are more terrible than failure, do what you are afraid of, and you will find that it is nothing more than that. Therefore, what you want to do, you must try it as soon as possible, in life, we have to do endless things, if you always want to wait until everything is ready to start acting, not only can things not be solved, but will accumulate more and more. Don't wait until you make enough money to do something like that, because your curiosity and enthusiasm may have been exhausted. When your curiosity and enthusiasm are gone, you are equivalent to burying the moat, so that there is no way or motivation to protect your high energy. The end result is that your high-energy city will be conquered, and you will become a captive of other people's negative energy.