Human life is full of ups and downs, sometimes smooth, sometimes difficult. This experience of ups and downs is the norm in life, and we don't have to worry too much about difficulties and stress. When faced with difficult situations, we should get rid of anxiety, but look at our fixed behaviors and habits, and change them, so that we can usher in a turnaround.
Past habits determine the current situation. Whether it is a success or a setback, it is the result of one's own accumulation step by step, rather than being given by the outside world. When we encounter problems and get stuck, we should not complain or feel anxious, but we should calm down and reflect on ourselves. Thoughts determine behavior, behavior forms habits, and habits create situations. This is the logical relationship of fate. Therefore, we need to think backwards and reflect on our own thoughts. For example, some people are frustrated in doing things because they are impatient and overly goal-oriented, resulting in a lack of patience and not doing a good job of basic skills. Without a solid foundation, things are prone to failure. Only through reflection and awareness of one's own problems can one change one's mind and mentality, and change the way one deals with things. Keep calm, be down-to-earth, and do a good job of accumulation. Just like the phoenix comes after the plane tree is luxuriant, success comes from continuous efforts to be on the right path, and success is a natural result.
Everyone faces a variety of challenges and dilemmas, but not all of them are able to cope with them properly. Why are some people able to come out of a difficult situation, while others are stuck in a quagmire from which they cannot extricate themselves? According to the ideas of the I Ching, we can look for answers from past behavioral habits. Our behavior and habits not only represent our daily lifestyles, but also reflect our thinking patterns and values. When we get stuck, it's probably because our habitual ways of thinking and behaving limit our room for development. So, if we want to turn around, we need to look at and change our habits.
Changing fixed habits is not easy, but it is the key to success. Everyone's fixed habits are different, but in daily life, there are often some common behaviors that plague us. For example, excessive pursuit of results, impatience, anxiety, lack of patience, and so on. These fixed habits tend to make things unsatisfactory and even lead to failed results. Therefore, only by reflecting on one's own behavior patterns and finding those behavioral habits that drag you down can you truly change yourself and usher in a turnaround.
To change a fixed habit, it takes persistence and perseverance. First, we need to be clear about the fixed habits we want to change and set a realistic goal. Then, we need to gradually change our way of thinking and behavior through self-reflection and awareness adjustment. This process may encounter many difficulties and challenges that require patience and perseverance. The key is persistence, only by persevering can we truly change the fixed habits and usher in a turnaround.
For example, I used to face problems with excessive anxiety and lack of patience. In the pursuit of my career, I am always in a hurry to achieve success as soon as possible. However, instead of bringing me the desired results, this fixed habit has brought me frustration and hardship. By reflecting on the way I behaved, I realized what the problem was and made up my mind to change my fixed habits. I started to slow down, be patient in everything I do, and focus on the basics. After about three months of hard work, I gradually ushered in a turning point. My mental state has improved and my work has become smoother. This experience made me realize that changing your habits is a crucial step in achieving personal turnaround.
In the Book of Changes, the hexagram of both the Ji Ji and the Ji Ji represent the state of what has been done and what has not yet been done. The hexagram is composed of the upper and lower branches, symbolizing the flow of water and the flames of fire, and the two go in opposite directions and do not intersect with each other. On the other hand, the Weiji hexagram is the opposite, consisting of the upper and lower barriers, the water flowing from the top and the down, and the fire from the bottom and the upward flame, and the two are intertwined. The law of change of the two hexagrams can also be applied to life. When we are in a difficult situation, we are in a state of unemployment, and the only thing we need to do to move to the existing economy is to change our existing behavior patterns and fixed habits.
Changing fixed habits is not an easy task, but it is the key to achieving a personal turnaround. First, we need to recognize that our current situation is the result of fixed habits, so that we can be motivated to change. Second, we need to identify the fixed habits that are holding us back and set clear goals for change. Then, through self-reflection and action, gradually abandon these fixed habits and develop healthy, positive behaviors. In this process, we need to persevere and overcome various difficulties and challenges. It is only through sustained efforts that we can truly change ourselves and usher in a turnaround.
Everyone's fixed habits are different, so the specific ways to change them will vary. But whether it's a quick fix, impatience, excessive anxiety, or other fixed habits, you can find out and improve by reflecting on your own behavior patterns. For example, if you find yourself always in a hurry, you can try to shift your mindset and develop patience and a down-to-earth work attitude. If you find yourself prone to anxiety, you can try to find ways to relax and keep yourself calm and peaceful. Through continuous reflection and practice, we can gradually change our fixed habits and achieve the effect of turning around.
A person's life,I really have to read the I Ching wellWisdom in this classical book, maybe it will make you feel like your mouth is open.
It has been spread among the people"Holding the Book of Changes, you are not afraid to go all over the world".！In the eyes of the ancients, the reason why the Book of Changes is broad and profound, in the final analysis, is because it is all-encompassing, "I Ching" has a total of 64 hexagrams, corresponding to 64 life decisions, clarifying the basic development laws of marriage, family, education, and workplace.
After the Han Dynasty, the Book of Changes retained its original divination function, and at the same time was fully developed and evolved philosophically, and finally became a philosophical classic of self-cultivation and governance. Because of this, the Book of Changes was blessed by the emperors of the Han Dynasty and was revered as the first of the Five Classics and the source of the Great Dao.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang, a master of Chinese culture, is the master of the Book of Changes, and CCTV has invited him to give a speech at the Hundred Forums many times to talk about the wisdom of Chinese culture.
Professor Tsang Shiqiang began to study the I Ching because of a serious illness. 39-year-old Zeng Shiqiang suddenly had a serious illness, he was tortured to the point that he couldn't do any heavy work, and his work was also hindered, which can be said to be bad luck. In one conversation, his father asked him to read the I Ching and said that he would be fine after seeing the doctor. Unexpectedly, Professor Zeng Shiqiang's obsession with the I Ching has been out of control since then, and this has also achieved Professor Zeng Shiqiang's legendary life.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang's ** accuracy rate is very high, and he can make such a reliable **, which has a lot to do with his research on the "Book of Changes", and many of his predictions are derived from the hexagrams in the "Book of Changes". He is not simply reading, but inherits the wisdom passed down from his ancestors, and then combines scientific methods to decipher the "fixed number".
The I Ching tells us that everything in the world changes according to certain laws. When people learn the Book of Changes, they know the laws of nature and can grasp the world. Therefore, the ancients considered it to be a scientific work, a practical encyclopedia. It can be seen that the Book of Changes is not only a book from heaven, but also a "book of answers" about life.
With the concept of "the unity of heaven and man", the book understands and controls the world from a holistic perspective, regards man and nature as an organic whole of mutual induction, and its content involves philosophy, politics, life, literature, art, science and many other fields, vast and subtle, all-encompassing, it is the crystallization of the wisdom of the Chinese nation.
For ordinary people, the Book of Changes is an ancient book that cultivates good fortune! If you feel lost in life, read it, it can teach us how to follow the rules and make the right choices. Whether it is for business, politics, or learning, in the face of different problems and crises, you can find corresponding methods in it, and reading the Book of Changes can really let us control our own destiny!
*The Book of Changes combines practical cases to help us analyze the problems in life, and make the obscure content flexible, so that everyone can understand and learn, and can be used in all aspects, so that people can really benefit a lot after reading.