Do you have to fall in love and get married?

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-18

After my twenty-second birthday, I was asked if I had a boyfriend at every family dinner. If they are talking, they will continue to ask about each other's career, family, parents and even RV. If I don't respond positively, I will be assumed that I haven't been in a relationship yet, and they will be very keen to analyze the pros and cons for me, worried that I will soon become an older leftover girl. Every time I came to this stalemate scene, I didn't feel embarrassed or uncomfortable, but I didn't feel any waves in my heart. Do girls have to get married? If you can't meet the right one, I think it's okay to live alone.

I don't deny that falling in love can be very good. For example, when eating together, the subject can feel that he is being taken care of by saying "please trouble the boss and don't add green onions". When we were shopping together, I tried on clothes for a long time, and I thought that the other party would be very impatient, but when I turned around, I saw him cast a reassuring look. Squeeze the subway during rush hour, as long as he is around, he can be encircled in his arms and separated from the crowd. After staying up all night, the plan was rejected by the supervisor in a word, and he confided in the other party with a crying voice, and he appeared next to you ten minutes later, and then gently hugged you and said, "It's okay." ”

Every day, a sentence of "come on" before going to work and a sentence of "hard work" after work have become the tacit understanding of your courage against life. A good relationship will only make people better and better, even if they are separated for some reason, they will each thank each other for their vitality. Because the two people at that time, after walking a long way while clinging to each other, had already become indestructible. But for now, the love journey of the two friends around me has made me feel a lot less longing and desire for this matter. Xiao Li quarreled with her boyfriend two or three times in a week, and every time she cried so much that she was tired of persuasion, so she had to wait for her to heal herself. Xiaoxi is often disgusted by her boyfriend** black, short stature, she has low self-esteem for a long time, and even bought a lot of scrubs and quick growth pills in private, but it didn't work if she ate bad stomach. Their two relationships made me gradually understand that love can also be classified. Not every relationship can bring people a relaxed and pleasant feeling, and falling into a bad relationship will only increase the pain in nature.

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